Bicumpig Posted Monday at 05:34 PM Report Posted Monday at 05:34 PM (edited) If you're in a 100k town, 50k are men, 6% or 3k are MSM (up to 10% in gen Z). But when you check local ads and profiles, it's the same 30 guys in your area, which is 1% of the MSM pool. And 10 of those are there just to jerk off over the fantasy of meeting someone. Another 10 are kind of serious but still ghost or flake when the time and place is settled. Another 5 are incompatible with your wants, Another 4 are very low quality, don't have a place or can't travel. With the remaining 1 you actually meet up, if you're lucky. You'd think that men would line up for free BJs. If men weren't so conservative about sex, 1 ad would lead to sucking a dozen guys that night. Edited Monday at 05:36 PM by Bicumpig Quote
BBCFagSoCal Posted Monday at 06:42 PM Report Posted Monday at 06:42 PM Seriously it’s frustrating Quote
mac4646 Posted Tuesday at 11:28 AM Report Posted Tuesday at 11:28 AM I totally agree, I can't figure out why it is hard for me to find men that want me to suck their cock. I have been told that I am a great cocksucker and never hesitate to swallow all the cum which all men love. On the bright side, I just did suck a guy off last week and he feed me a big mouthful of his cum. Quote
sub4oralcum Posted Tuesday at 02:33 PM Report Posted Tuesday at 02:33 PM I'm lucky to have an adult bookstore nearby. This helps out a lot with getting cum. I still have to put the time in, but at least I'm not texting 1000 times or driving all over town trying to hook up. 1 Quote
swvsucker Posted Tuesday at 08:54 PM Report Posted Tuesday at 08:54 PM I think sub4oralcum hit the nail on the head. I can go to the local ABS on a Friday and if I could stay there from 4:30PM (when guys are getting off work horny) until like 2AM (when guys are leaving the bars horny) I could probably suck 30 or 40 cocks. Those same 30 or 40 guys would never go online and look for a bi/gay guy to suck them off. They just don't do that. Your best bet is to place an ad and let them find you. In my experience, str8 guys looking for a blowjob never post on cruising sites, but they will stalk them looking for a willing cocksucker. Another part of the problem is "incompatible with your wants". Let's do some simple math using your numbers of 100k people in a city. Half or 50k are men 11% are under 18. Now you are down to 44,500. Another 16% are over 60. Now you are down to 36,500. (Prefer under 50? Now you are down to 27,500) Prefer blondes? You are down to 1,825. Prefer them not be chubby? Now you are down to 620. We haven't even started talking about gay/bi/straight or if they would want a guy to suck their cock or if they are married and afraid of being caught, or if they have an average or big cock, etc. and we are already down to 6/10ths of a percent of the population. The more you limit yourself with parameters the less cock you will get. Quote
Bearhole Posted Tuesday at 09:23 PM Report Posted Tuesday at 09:23 PM 26 minutes ago, swvsucker said: ………The more you limit yourself with parameters the less cock you will get. ☝️ this is the answer. Quote
Bicumpig Posted Wednesday at 12:43 AM Author Report Posted Wednesday at 12:43 AM I don't even have any parameters, but if the other guy is also a bottom and doesnt want to receive a BJ, then we're incompatible. Or maybe it's a top who only wants to fuck. If we had an ABS or gloryholes I'd go there but every known GH gets closed. Quote
sub4oralcum Posted Wednesday at 10:43 PM Report Posted Wednesday at 10:43 PM (edited) On 3/10/2026 at 4:54 PM, swvsucker said: The more you limit yourself with parameters the less cock you will get. That's another thing. I love about the gloryholes. I have virtually no parameters. Pretty much the only rules I have are that he can get his cock through the hole and it doesn't smell like he's worked digging ditches all day. Edited Wednesday at 10:44 PM by sub4oralcum Quote
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