Wtf, no more orgies!!

[muscmtl]

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

[norefusal]

this implies that you used to be able to freely join orgies w strangers, which to me is the real surprise 🤣

re: sniffies ive had guys try to partner w me to host such events but tbh i think its more wishful thinking than anything and really - who wants to open their home to unvetted randoms? 

i have hosted "orgies" which are part of meet up groups i belong to. this is perhaps old school but if it ain't broke don't fix it. you advertise a member based group for  some vague thing like "area gays", offer social hr w food and bev and just so happen to have a finished basement and/or playroom where group sex happens. these do lean more FWB than random anon but that's not a bad thing for some. 

i was recently told a story by a friend. his friend belongs to a private orgy group where he says he was fucked by 23 guys last time he went. supposidly it was not a parTy. 😮 our mutual friend then tried to join the group only to be told he didn't meet the high "hotness" standards for membership. everyone else was livid over the snub but i was like "grow up and smell the poppers! gays who exclude sex partners due to shallow beauty standards? shocking-not!" 😜but really all i wanted to discuss was "holy busted cunt batman! 23 guys! sober?! did he have to wear an adult diaper on the ride home?" 🤣careful what u wish for boys 

im also in a few local sex party membership based groups not on meet up including one for FF. they exist and im sure there are more that i dont know about because im not "cool" enough to be told 😜

Edited 2 hours ago by norefusal

[muscmtl]

47 minutes ago, norefusal said:

this implies that you used to be able to freely join orgies w strangers, which to me is the real surprise 🤣

re: sniffies ive had guys try to partner w me to host such events but tbh i think its more wishful thinking than anything and really - who wants to open their home to unvetted randoms? 

i have hosted "orgies" which are part of meet up groups i belong to. this is perhaps old school but if it ain't broke don't fix it. you advertise a member based group for  some vague thing like "area gays", offer social hr w food and bev and just so happen to have a finished basement and/or playroom where group sex happens. these do lean more FWB than random anon but that's not a bad thing for some. 

i was recently told a story by a friend. his friend belongs to a private orgy group where he says he was fucked by 23 guys last time he went. supposidly it was not a parTy. 😮 our mutual friend then tried to join the group only to be told he didn't meet the high "hotness" standards for membership. everyone else was livid over the snub but i was like "grow up and smell the poppers! gays who exclude sex partners due to shallow beauty standards? shocking-not!" 😜but really all i wanted to discuss was "holy busted cunt batman! 23 guys! sober?! did he have to wear an adult diaper on the ride home?" 🤣careful what u wish for boys 

im also in a few local sex party membership based groups not on meet up including one for FF. they exist and im sure there are more that i dont know about because im not "cool" enough to be told 😜

And of course the 23 guys is an absolute truth verified by video. ,,🤗 

[subyort]

1 hour ago, muscmtl said:

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

I've noticed about 75% of them in the Chicago area are like this and the others seem to be somewhat exclusionary for chubs like me. But we do have bathhouses and backrooms in the bars here which are more accommodating. However, I do seem to get better hookups on Sniffies than the other apps. BBRTS is kind of the same too.

[Njn0mc]

Hosting a group works..  that is how I found a few groups (orgy)

[BruxoCub]

1 hour ago, muscmtl said:

Checked on sniffies the local group sex, and every goddamn one is a bottom taking loads, no kissing, no sucking, no rimming, no playing with others, just a guy in a bed waiting for guys to fuck him and leave. Then I used a fakrGPS to check other cities and it's fukn everywhere.

what the hell happened to orgies, you know sex. Man, every year it gets worse and worse.

Yeah, I feel like everyones scatterbrained these days and can't just hang out and have fun anymore.

It's always some load collection situation or a content creation scene.

There used to be orgy groups in the hollywood hills that would randomly meet for a cover charge, I miss those, and the arcade and bathouse options in the area that all closed.