I've been seeing this guy for about 8 months. he is partnered for 12 yrs but they don't live together. they are also serodiscordant. he's hiv+, as am i. he says they don't have sex b/c of that (and i think he's being honest about this.) currently, he spends 3 nights/week at my place (all weeknights) and we occasionally get together on the weekends. the sex is off the charts but we don't do a lot of stuff other than that (he's got a "big" job and is always working and it's winter so the opportunities to do things other than watch tv, have sex and go to bed are limited.) i've made my feelings known to him--that i would like to this to be "more". he says that he's tried to figure how to make this work but can't (which i also believe.) am i wasting my time with him? i'm 54 y/o and "not getting any younger." should i stick with this and be happy for what i have? (we really enjoy each other's company and at one time he said he loved me but i think is reluctant to say that now for fear of leading me on.) should i cut my losses and move on? this is the first guy i have connected (emotionally) with in 10+ years. i get conflicting advice from my friends. any thoughts?
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