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Top4CumSwop

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  1. It is sad that we as a community have lost so many sexy fun guys...whether they were HIV+ or sorting out drug issues, they were stars, who gave us many hours of pleasure and especially if they were barebackers...they knew what made them tick and were willing to let us in to see them in all their glory...

    I will be raising a glass or two to all of them tonight and wishing them the best where ever they may be and also to my fellow poz barebackers out there..Happy New Year and all the best from a cold wet grey London...

  2. Chad Hunt posted this great comment on thesword.com:

    Chad Hunt says:

    December 19, 2012 at 4:53 pm

    I am very saddened to hear of this tragedy. Josh (Chad) was always a very sweet, good natured guy, that I had the privilege of knowing and sharing several production sets with. I will miss him.What saddens me more is how vicious the gay community can be over anthers choices. Especially when most, if not all of these people are being hypocritical. I seriously doubt all of the people who sit in judgement of Josh have always used condoms during both anal and oral. Have they always used a dental damn when rimming? Probably not.We all make choices in our lives that can be dangerous to our well being. Myself included. Some of us just make more of those choices than others. Just because we make fewer bad choices or differing ones does not mean we are better people.I hate the term bareback sex and even more so hate the way it is used to demonize what I consider natural sex. You can be responsible and still engage in unprotected sex. Getting tested together with a sexual partner, sharing your results and staying monogamous or polygamous within those tested together is one way.The key is being honest with each other over our status’ and being able to stay faithful together or within the agreed group. Bareback sex is not the problem irresponsible people are.I may not have agreed with Josh’s choice of doing bareback videos but the choice was his to make and I surely have done enough things in my life to never condemn the actions of another.It is disgusting to hear the way many of you have talked about another human being. Especially when almost all of you support the porn industry by buying videos, downloading from the net or what have you.There are many porn stars with all types of issues just as there are many people in the outside world with varying types of issues. We as a community should come together when another human being has succumbed to this terrible disease not judge and humiliate the dead.I know of many people who seek out HIV of their own accord. Why? Is it becuase they just want to have wild sex parties with multiple partners? I think not! the root of the matter is we are just all tired of being afraid of something so natural and beautiful as sex. Instead of demonizing sex and labeling it we need to teach person responsibility and how to minimize our risks.Safe sex, does not mean you will not get HIV. Condoms break, dental dams rip, wear and tear or old condoms improperly stored etc. There are many risk factors.Many people judge and hate on others because they are jealous that they do not have the guts to do the things these people do or have done. You begrudge them for living their lives openly and for participating in activities you long yourself to do.As I said earlier, natural sex is not the problem our irresponsibility is. If you engage in natural sex be honest with yourself and your partners about your sexual activities and stay tested within your coupling or group.We should all stop judging and hurting each other. That should be the ultimate goal of our or any other community.My final word on this posting is … “Josh, I love and will miss you my friend. I hope you have found the peace you craved in this life in the next.” XOXOXOXOXxoxoxoxoxo

    Well said Chad Hunt....

    Josh we will miss you...

  3. Te Hoist:

    29 Dec:SBN(Stark Bollock Naked)

    30 Dec: SBN(Stark Bollock Naked)

    01 Jan: SBN(Stark Bollock Naked)

    RECON - Full Fetish on Saturday 29 Dec @Club Fire

    When are you in London? I am heading to Full fetish and will be exploring SBN @ The Hoist...

  4. I was in university in 1987 and was living on my own. Went cruising on the beach and met this horny hairy guy and he picked me up together with this Asian guy. Went back to his place. The Asian guy was more into sucking but the guy wanted to fuck and at that time I was definitely more bottom. He lubed me up fucked me and shot a load up me. I didn't think twice about it. Was neg until 2006 I was a regular bb vers then.

  5. Good luck. To get into clubs in Rome you have to buy membership which you can get on the door. Eventhough Italy is a hot Meditarrean country the gay guys can be very standoffish and think they should be in the latest edition of Vogue! Ok...I generalise but the gay scene is not as free and the guys not very open...papa in the Vatican has seen to that! You would be better off by rather going to Madrid.

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