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On 4/8/2024 at 7:46 AM, Scout said:

Beth tricked Andy, yes, and humiliated him -- but also led him to admit his true sexuality and to the best sexual experiences of his life. That doesn't sound evil to me.

There's plenty of ways to help someone admit their true sexuality without publicly humiliating them and ransoming their assets in divorce.  She's an evil cunt.

On 4/3/2024 at 3:44 AM, negchaserlooking said:

I too, would really like to see Beth get her comeuppance for the way she treated Andy but can't really see that happening unfortunately.  UNLESS Andy and Dave were somehow able to "seduce and poz" the ex now current boyfriend Phil. 😁😁☣️

Easy ccomeuppance: seduce and POZ her boyfriend. Also Peggy's husband while you're at it. She's a real fishy-smelling cunt of you ask me.

So satisfying. A truly elegant ending.

Even better/hotter/wilder/sicker than the first part.   Thank you.

2 hours ago, austin_submale said:

Damn, that sucks!  We are losing way too many of these places.  Austin is down to only two bookstores that have booths or a theater where you can play.  Used to be 3, but one didn't make it much past Covid.  The spa (Midtowne) closed a few years ago due to rents in that area pricing them out, and two other places that had booths went out of business a few years before that because of some kind of legal tax troubles with the owner.

I really wish I had the $$$ to open up a new bookstore, but sadly I am penniless.  I think a place run by someone who really knows what piggy guys want could do very well provided the location was right and it was located in a place where the police don't care.  Near but not actually in a major city and just off a heavily traveled highway is what seems to work.  The two that we still have here both fit that.

 

 

Same everywhere.  Tampa had 3 bathhouses. One caught fire and closed. The sleazy fun one shut down at the beginning of this year and now there’s only the expensive one that’s too clean-cut and underused to be any real fun.

I’ve done this but with a different method.  At the top right of page 1 is the SORT BY button. I open it and sort by START DATE.  Then I just jump to the last page of stories with the  >>  button.

On 11/22/2023 at 5:20 PM, brnbk said:

Many of us, would have at some point  come across the topic of sex addiction and some perhaps some even 'explored if we are one!

Sex addiction is a term used to describe an alleged addiction to sex, similar to alcohol or drug addiction; the only difference here being an addiction to a process as opposed to substances.  Some other process addictions including gambling, shopping, debt, codependency; and food as well which I guess, is somewhere in between a substance addiction and a process addiction. 

There are groups/fellowships out there that purport to help sex addicts including ones specifically tailored to meet the needs of gay sex addicts or sexual compulsives

Are these people really helping gay people who need help OR just legitimizing social homophobia — into forms that look like they are trying to help (conversion therapy etc.) but are actually harming homosexuals in the long run! 

 

I don't know what process you're referring to but the chemicals released into the brain during various stages of sex can certainly be addictive to some people.

On 12/23/2023 at 4:48 PM, WorkJack said:

Squirt.org seems to work where I am. Grindr has people who chat but don't meet much

But the time stamps on Squirt really suck -- latest updates, chat posts, mail posts are all unreliable

On 1/19/2024 at 9:02 AM, BttmCub88 said:

Bbrt not working for anyone else?

Not for me. It's gone the way of Manhunt and A4A.

On 1/19/2024 at 1:26 AM, JamesL100 said:

Naked Kink Pigs
(though I have no experience on it)

NASTY Kink Pigs

If tell my younger self that you'll never be cuter... or dumber. Keep your mouth shut* and mind open.

*Except for cock.

On 10/3/2020 at 11:21 AM, Guest said:

I want to start a thread about public cruising spots where people can find raw sex in public. Let me know what places you like. I'll try to share some other favorites of mine too.

The Apache Drive-In Theater on Hwy 31 in Tyler, TX is a legendary East Texas cruising spot. 

Apache Drive-In Theatre
13180 TX-31, Tyler, TX 75705
 

The drive in plays straight porn on the big screen after dark but there are group rooms and buddy booths playing vids inside all day too.

I've taken lots of loads there. If you're there when I am, I'll probably take yours too.

 

R.I.P. Apache Drive-in

PERMANENTLY CLOSED

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

This is profound to me, hit's so many notes in me at once, but very harmoniously.  No, i don't think they are "lying," i think even in the absence of affirming words, part of what energizes You is the experience and fulfillment of Your desire/need in the response of the person You are rimming.  As i see it, rimming for You is another form of "fucking."

my sense (which may be wishful thinking lol) is that Your  being "a little bit picky" is about the depth of connection? I.e., Your pickiness is about the reason You want/need to rim in the first place.  That "picky" is about finding Your opposite equal in intent/desire/need.

 In my terminology, my attempts to explain this stuff, put it into words, Your tongue and mouth are "Cock."  i have experienced Tops where They are so focused and connected, that Their finger, toys, words, a look, can all be Their Cock... and i have been "Cocked" by them in all those ways and more.

i have this very involved notion of what "cock" is, way more than a physical organ between the legs, that a Mans Cock is the energy, desire, need driving and expressed through the physical. But loot to  experience a Mans cock beyond the penis. Correspondingly, my 'hole' is way more  than a physical opening in my ass or face. 

i know i have written this in other places on BZ, but some of what constitutes a Top/Dom to me are: "Cock, penetration, fucking, molding, creating, orgasm, breeding, seeding, marking, inseminating, impregnating, possessing, controlling.... " to name several.  For me, bottom/sub corresponds to Him. yin to HIs Yang (no really new concepts here lol): "hole, penetrated, fucked, molded, creation, orgasm receiver/holder, bred, planted, marked, inseminated, impregnated, possessed, controlled."  

 

VERY well said. Enjoy the way you can put into words such complex ideas. And grateful.

On 4/26/2024 at 12:37 PM, topblkmale said:

 

I love when a cocksucker forgets the immediate sanitary conditions and gets down on the floor of the ABS booth or bathroom stall to suck dick.

 

I love the cock that makes me forget where I am, sanitary or not, public or not.

Really, it depends on the cock. A cock with a downward curve is perfectly shaped to slide down a throat that's kneeling down in front of it. 

A upwardly curving cock is made for lying back on a bed, head over the side; isn't this in fact one-sided 69'ing? So I guess it's just a 6 or a 9?

A straight pipe of dick can work either way. Or better yet both ways.

What's the name of the place on W 22nd St just east of 8th Ave? It's behind the movie theater on 23rd St. The Unicorn? There was a glory hole between 2 booths that I took advantage of many times.  Hope it's still there.

I was told once that a real brand design can not have fully enclosed areas, like a letter O but that it must be open, like the letter C. Otherwise the flesh within the closed design will also die and scar due to lack of blood flow. Is this true? Many cattle brands I've seen seem to follow this rule.

From college in '77 through learning I was POZ I never used condoms. I wasn't having much sex, at least compared to what happened after I found out I was POZ in '93. I had maybe 6 sex partners a year, less during the years I was in relationships. But starting in May '93 everything changed for me.

Ironically, HIV was the best thing to happen not just to my sex life, but to my entire life.

On 7/28/2022 at 10:52 PM, NYBBGUY58 said:

Not precisely, but an undercover transit cop in the NY subway caught me taking pictures and filming his undercover cop partner's ass. He was NOT amused, and seemed to want to arrest me. I wouldn't have been in "real" trouble since I was in a public space - a subway platform is the DEFINITION of public - and I didn't include the guy's face, so there wasn't any explicit harm to the subject of my photos. The cop accused me of "following women up the stairs" (🤣) to which I replied "Nope. Just men." He looked revolted by that admission. I was on my way to work, so it was going to be a hassle and I was, honestly, terrified that he'd make my life hell just because he felt like being mean. So I confessed to "having a kink" and promised to never, ever do it again. Yeah...right. He didn't believe me, though I abstained for a few months. My honest opinion is that the guy was being a homophobic asshole. No one was injured, there was no way to identify whose ass it was and there were no charges that would have stuck.  But it would have been embarrassing. See image:

Oh, the shit I got up to on NYC Transit, LIRR, MetroNorth and NJT. I'm lucky I'm not still in subway jail 10+ years later. 

Course, it could've been Parks Department (The Ramble, Prospect Park, Riverside Park)  or whomever deals with randy taxi passengers throughout NYC.

What can I say? 30 years in NYC with a dirty mind and stuff just happens.

51 minutes ago, Sfmike64 said:

A-fucking-men. A couple weeks ago I went to a guy's house in the suburbs (should've listened to my brain not my cock) and he bailed when I got out all the way there. Asshole.

A-fucking-MEN of exactly right. Make a commitment and be a MAN about it. Not a bratty 4 year old.

Of course, all of this hangs on males acting like men, adult men, no matter what roles they play in sex. And we all know Tops, Doms, daddies and Masters can be immature brats in equal measure as bottoms, subs, boys and slaves.

11 hours ago, Daddyph said:

My take on being an ethical slut is as follows:

1. Be honest

2. Be kind

3. Spread your legs

4. DO NOT GHOST EVER

On 4/29/2024 at 9:05 PM, AlwaysOpen said:

One last semi related train of thought- not sure about you guys, but I can hose out crystal clear water for hours and go deep with the longest test toy before play- but if the top pisses up my ass during play, or at the end as he wraps up play- it is almost like doing the prep for a colonoscopy - my hole- will cramp and within minutes the foulest muddiest mess is racing for a speedy exit.

Always true with me, too. And especially with chempiss. I almost wish I could start my prep by taking a load of chempiss because it motivated my bowels so completely.

By the way, I'm not so stricken when I literally fuck the shit out of someone else, within reason. But I did didn't want anyone to deal with MY shit! No what I mean anyone?

I’m reminded of a beautiful early summer day in New York’s Central Park Ramble. Lying out naked up on the big rock, 5 or 6 others there, mostly in pairs, except this one guy. So handsome and fit and smiling at ME. I was so excited that I didn’t notice until 5 minutes in that his hands and feet were not shaped like most people’s. They were slender and with only 2 digits on each, shaped like nothing I think as much as lobster claws.  I was already so attracted to him that I wasnt dissuaded and ended up talking (the Great Equalizer, conversation) which led to physical and emotional fun for both of us. 
 

Did I mention this included on of my Top 3 experiences taking a fist? Never forget him. Wonderful man.

I discovered Sniffies and it did very well for me, esp with the DL men, usually in my backseat parked in a dark corner of their apartment’s parking area.  I had nights when I’d drive from one meet to another, until I’d had 6 (or 8!) men’s cocks/loads in one hole or other.

As far as masks go, I had a handful that never showed their faces. Never did know what they looked like but I thought it was hot as fuck— anonymous, dominant, like a bank robber with a flesh-gun.

Let’s see if I remember the one that started it all…

Cruising a well-known scenic overlook near my home on I-91 in VT. 2 other guys in 2 cars, each sitting on his own car looking at the night sky with our dicks in our hands. Out of nowhere state trooper (state cops are in much better shape than the local police) pulls up, blocks our exit, shines his lights on us. Takes us one at a time to sit in his front seat while he writes loitering tickets. I’m the last and he asks me about my NH State Legislature plates (my mom’s car) and I act all contrite, just visiting family, rarely ever visit, etc.  He ends up chatting me up about random shit until he lets me go with a warning. He gets out of his car with me, stands in front of his car, headlights on, back to the light and proceeds to whip his dick out and piss a long time. I’m standing 5 feet away to his left so his dick is hidden in shadow but his piss stream is catching the bright light, looking like neon.  He shakes it off and turns towards me before stuffing it back into his fly. Doesn’t zip up before he gets back in his car.  Leaves me standing there, mouth hanging open, probably drooling, frozen in place. He drives away and I’m left contemplating whether I should suck up his piss puddle from the hard gravel.  (I ended up wetting my fingers and smelling and tasting them)