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On 2/25/2025 at 9:55 AM, gamerslut said:

Whenever I’m bottoming in missionary position, my legs tend to get tired after a while. I’m typically arching my butt upward to give the top good access to my hole.

How do other bottoms deal with this? Tips, pointers, techniques appreciated. I should note that I’m a taller guy, longer legs.

I’ve tried crossing my legs around the top’s back, drawing him in. This kinda works, sometimes.

Also tried putting my legs straight against the front of his shoulders, so he can lean in to thrust while pushing my legs back naturally. This generally tends to work.

Last resort is to lay back with my feet or knees up, and just hold my legs in place using my arms. This gets tiring after a while.

Tuck your elbows in your kneepits (if that's actually a thing? You know what i mean), thats not so tiring as your arms can take the strain, and it brings your bum up a bit. You sound bigger than me though so i dunno how this will work with you.

I also like putting my legs on his shoulders.

I run a lot so my legs are in mental shape. This might help me.

I do enjoy missy but it's not as "comfortable" over a longer time as other positions is it. But they feel their biggest in me, which i like tbh. 

2 minutes ago, ffabbian said:

That's a very uncomfortable position to be in, especially at a young age.  I  was lucky that my first bf and I loved and cared for each  other. Whatever we did we  were both into it. 

It was a complicated relationship and time for me, I didn't know what I wanted.

I didn't like it at the time because me and that guy hated each other, I think he was jealous. But it turns me on now. Yeah my ex was there most times and joined in once, and did stuff after. I was very inexperienced and didn't know what was going on or what to do, he was my first as a bottom. They were both in their 20s and I felt excluded, or like I was just there as a prop - not like I was an equal or anything, which wasn't very nice at the time.

My first boyfriend let his ex have me, but I don;t think he got paid it was more that he owed him a favour x

I'm on zero; it's difficult here as I'm back at home with parents, but even at uni some of these numbers would be out of my reach and I'm decent looking and hornier than most.

3 hours ago, partying.hard said:

1.  Sexual and personal confidence!  A must.

2.  Uninhibited and insatiable.

3.  Vanilla bores me.  Even if I’m making passionate love to a man, he needs to play on the wild side.

4.  Versatile.  But there’s a thrill for a strong, beefy, hairy man who exudes pheromones to broadcast the world he’s a top, only to see him grin as he throws up his legs and begs me to pound him.

5.  Can be strong and committed sober.  (Is this a surprise, coming from me?)

6.  Physically?  Too many types to list.

 

That first bit is such a must - I'm sorry for stealing your points but you made good points xxx

I need a boy of man who is putting part of himself into me to be confident, or at least pretend they are.

I always get hard when bottoming, and have came twice.

I wish I'd come more but it doesn't happen- can do it if fucking a dildo, but it doesnt happen very often otherwise. 

They don't usually pull out unless they are just having a BJ or trying to make a point IMO x

love it on my face tho 

I love verbals when I'm getting it. "Slut" does a lot for me, and "boy". But anything to confirm I'm lower than them.

I was seeing a guy that had a girlfriend - just fellatio - who called me a bitch a lot which really turned me on.

No idea why  but as my name is Max, I've had a lad call me Maxy while we were getting it on, and only while we were getting it on -  and for some reason that's always been a turn on.

I wasn't treated with the respect you are showing - I remember shifting around somewhat and found being laid almost flat was easier on myself, with a leg bend slightly. Doggy and missionary was tough..

Generally only a couple of times with somebody, but will normally cum 3 times when masturbating at night one after another. Have came 6 times in a day (jerking) not making any particular effort.

Not normally satisfied with one tbh x

my D

is a lot of this made up? i'm pretty promiscuous and find a lot of these numbers astronomical 😅

12 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

This is a known bug. See the thread your question has been merged into for details.

Because the entire system is slated to be migrated to much newer technology, it may never be fixed.

this would make me come on here so much more often if it were fixed

On 5/17/2024 at 9:07 AM, ktopper said:

Absolutely! Love that delicious aroma. Nothing else quite like that smell when walking into the booths in an adult arcade on a busy night.

I can remember at weekends I used to stay at my aunties, both my cousins rooms totes stank of it! I never knew what it was but I liked the smell, now I know and love it. Sometimes think what they were using, prolly leaving under the bed, and how long they weren't throwing it out or washing it.

Mine is shameful, as a go to for my second or third j/o when I'm struggling a bit I always go back to a fantasy I had at 6th form where i imagined being kidnapped with my best mates and doing things to them to get us out of the situation xxx

I'm unusually thick at the base but normal sized at the head, i've never seen another like it. Girls love it but some of the lads i've had haven't been able to take it, despite me not being very long.

A lot of my fantasies revolve around being fucked again and again - i'm well jell of some of you.

My record? Hmm dunno - I've had a threesome and been fucked by both a couple of times. Not very impressive. I had a boyfriend who would regularly go at least 3 times in an evening. x

On 10/10/2023 at 8:04 PM, BootmanLA said:

To everyone asking about Chat -

If there were easy workarounds for the problems that this buggy, problem-ridden module has, I'm sure that the staff would have long ago publicized them. I know it's tedious to read through an entire thread, but if you do (and this has been discussed ad infinitum on here, the code that runs the chat software is unlikely to ever be fixed - the owner of THIS forum has no access to that code, and it doesn't appear that the company that provided this module is going to do anything about it. Sometimes it functions, quite often it doesn't, and about the only option this site has, beyond telling you to try it periodically, is to remove the software entirely and not provide any chat feature at all. Is that what y'all want?

I get that it's disappointing, but bear in mind that live chat is NOT the primary purpose of this forum; it's to provide a space for discussions, ones that people can come behind and read after the fact. Use the site for what it's intended, and if & when the owners can develop their own, supported chat feature, I'm sure they will. 

Sorry man, i wasn't moaning was just wondering if it would help. I appreciate the effort the owners of the forum have made.

On 10/10/2023 at 10:17 AM, biobare said:

Max, you are cute! 😍

cheers matey, i dont look quite as good as my profile picture for real tho. i made a cartoon out of my picture x

Do you think it might work if I make a new account?

i came reading that

On 7/30/2023 at 12:01 AM, Sub-Cocksucker said:

I like having someone like minded to chat with on a regular basis about experiences, encounters, kinks, desires.
Either a fellow sub, that is used often and hard like me, that has fallen down the rabbit hole.
Or a very DOM older man that has used and owned subs.

I like to report my daily sexual activity to someone, almost like a confession.
And I like to have my head constantly filled with sexual kink and depravity.

I just cant seem to find any good chat sites, or ways to find others to chat with.
I miss the days of yahoo chat rooms.

I'd love to trade experiences and even the depravity going around my head.

I'm Max, I'm 22 in the UK. I'm athletic,  5'"8, and still at uni. 

I didn't have sex with a guy until I was 19 but I did think I was quite experienced in that time until I read what people online (especially here) were doing. I used to think I was a top but I've been turned out and am a bottom now. I would say I'm submissive, but only where it comes to sex.

I have a fella who isn't as experienced as me but I love what we do. We are building up to doing more adventurous things sexually, and I really wanna try almost everything.

If it sounds like you'd like to talk let me know, and anybody else can use the above as an advert - have had to repress my sexuality during my teens so love to expose my secrets now, it's a turn on. Will talk to anybody x

On 7/12/2023 at 3:37 PM, ErosWired said:

Is it normal? Sex in small groups is a not uncommon occurrence that more often than not takes place among people known to each other simply because that’s the easiest way to arrange such things. There are informal groups if men all over who meet regularly to fuck in groups. Why are you concerned about whether it’s ‘normal’?” Why did you ‘chicken out’? All five of you chickened out, or just some of you? Or just you and your boyfriend? Or just one of you?

The key to ensuring a good time at these things is not to go in with a lot of expectations, to be open-minded, willing and flexible, and to treat the occasion with good humor as an opportunity to have fun. Leave jealousy, pride and insecurity at the door - they did not receive an invitation. This is just sex. It’s a game with five players.

Now, a note: Fucking is at its core a two-man job, so with a group of five there’s always the potential fir someone to feel on the outside at any given time. Care must be taken to keep the action mixed up and changing so everyone gets ti play in equal measure. Yes, three people can fuck at once using two holes on the same person, or fuck sandwich-style, but that places a burden on the one in the middle to split his attentions evenly, and it’s not easy, especially for someone inexperienced. I frankly don’t enjoy being spitroasted because I know I’m not doing justice to the cock in my mouth when my body is being rocked back and forth by the one banging my cunt. This especially important when committed couples are involved in the group, because if the couple allows their personal dynamic to limit overall play, it isn’t really an open five-man group. If the two of you are going to play with others, be prepared to share openly, and do not take any of it back home with you in the form of jealousy or hurt feeling. If that’s a risk, you’re not ready for this kind of play.

Oh wow thankyou so much, I didn't even think of most of that, or the stuff on the rest of this thread. I feel a lot better prepared now.

Regards myself and your questions, just me and my fella didn't get involved. We went away for a couple of nights with another couple we know, who had invited their friend that they do stuff with. My bf changed his mind at the last minute about joining them (which was fine) but he regretted it afterwards. We could hear them in the next room it was very sexual. He's not so experienced so it was a big thing for him.

I wish this forum would let me post more than once per day, this is an awesome place and I've so many questions lol. There is a lot I want to learn, I could do with mentors lol

17 hours ago, viking8x6 said:

The chat is based on a different software platform from the rest of the server. @rawTOP is aware of the problem, and is working on it, but he is in the process of recovering from a stroke, so his personal resources are limited at the moment. He will get things working as soon as he can.

Oh no, i'm srry to read that. I hope he is ok.