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I read a lot of articles about dark rooms  but other than bath houses  where they really are not typically "Dark"  I have never found one.  Do they even exist outside of bath houses?

I have a stronger sex drive at 67 than ever.  I can take all cocks as a bottom which I prefer.  When I do top  I cum a lot.  And I do mean alot.  More often than not when a guy sucks me off,  he can't take all of the cum orally.   I only wish I could find guys that could keep up with me. 

my fantasy is to be a cumdump but with manyly men that are physical.  They grab my hips, my shoudlers,  my neck.  and they are vocal about fucking me.  I want to hear them tell me how much they like fucking my cum loaded hole.   If they cum fast that is all the better as long as there is another cock waiting to go in.  

My last load was today.  Sexy stud,  big dick.  He wanted to eat my ass before fucking it so of course I oblidged.   I sucked his big  fat cock while he stuck his tounge up my ass.  It was heaven but there was the point where I wanted to feel his hard cock in my ass.  I got on my knees and he stood behind me.  His cock was big enough that it took a little bit of work to get it all the way in.  Once he got it in  he was free to fuck however he wanted.   It  did not take him long before he said he needed to slow down because my ass was so hot that he was going to cum.  I encouraged him to keep fucking.  He partly lay on my back with his hands grabbing my shoulders so he could pull in deep.  My favorite!   When he came  he pulled out and shot a huge load on my back.  I would have loved to have it deep inside but it was his choice.  I could feel his hot cum all over my back.   Defininately one for the books.  On top of everthing else,  he was hot and hairy.  Just how I like them.

I  get my fair amount of  fucks.  Not complaining at all but I am curious  as to what most guys ( probably bottoms )  say is the avg time that a top lasts while fucking?   

I am mostly bottom for fucking.  Versatile for everything else.   There are times when I am with a guy and I just get hard and then I will fuck him if he wants.  Othertimes  I am so into getting fucked that I would not be able to top a guy if I wanted to.  Has nothing to do with  nationality.  I find myself most likely to fuck  smaller than me (build, I'm 6'3" and 199)  fit guys.  But that is not  a given.

I have no problem bottoming for a small dick.  I have on top that I see on a regular basis  that has about 4 inches.  But it is rock hard and when he cums  it is spectacular.  He is so vocal and physical and he cums a big load.  So yeah.  He can fuck me anytime. 

I don't live in Phoenix but I travel there on occassion.  I have no problem finding tops  at home  but when I travel to Phoneix?  Someone posted that there are 5 tops in Phoenix and I believe that.   On a recent trip  I went to the Flex spa  blackout night where everyone wears a glo in the dark wrist band  to indicate whether you are a top or a bottom. Green means bottom. The entire even was glowing green.   

Do you Tops find chest harness's  sexy?  Don't  like them?  Or don't care one way or the other?

I am 65 , fit  and an enthusiastic bottom .  Eveny now and then I get a young man that likes silverfox bottoms.  My last load was from a 22yr old that likes older men.   He really got into fucking me.  It was very hot.  I have been fucked by many men of all ages. Some of them memorable, a lot of them not so much.  This young man was very memorable.  Not a big dick but he knew how to use it.   He can cum back anytime.

When I am contacted by a top that wants a short notice fuck,  how do I get prepped in a short time?  I have a shower douche and a bulb douche but I can't always seem to get totally clean on short notice.  Any tips?

I don't need to cum  when getting fucked.  That being said,  I really love to have a top fuck me in  a way that I cum hands free.  Sometimes my top wants me to cum while he is fucking me and I can usually time it to cum at the same time. That is hot for both of us as my ass really tightens up on his cock when we are cumming.

I don't understand why men post their status when the dates are months or even years old?  We all konw that our status can change over a one night stand.  So why would you post that your "status"  was  negative 6 months ago?

I read posts and listings for  tops looking to fuck  and in many of them they require pics and stats.  I am wondering why a top would care?  If the bottom wants a dick up his ass,  the top is not going to see his face, or his 6 pack abs. Probably won't even be able to tell the age. So what gives?

I have heard that the Clarendon  is a good place. Going to give it a try.

I have not found Grindr or BBRT  to be very dependable.  Way to many picture collectors.  I really miss Craigslist.   I had a very high success rate with CL.  So far my sucess rate with BBRT has been zero and a little bit better with Grindr.

I like having my ass played with. Fingered and worked on.  About the only other thing that gets me really hot is my nipples being played with.  I like to kiss but its  not necessary.  I don't want to feel like the top wants me to be a boyfriend.  What gets me hot is when I feel that he wants to fuck me  more than anything.

Sorry but no way.  If it smells it's not going in my mouth  or anywhere else for that matter. 

I had always been the top.  I was not going to let anyone stick a cock up my ass.  I started seeing a guy.  He was a lot younger than me and was happy being a bottom.  We had sex  A LOT.  Everytime we had an opportunity.  In the car, at home, out in the woods.  One night he started trying to fuck me,  I was resistent but finally let him in.  He fucked me,  came in me and then held me for awhile.    That was it.  I never looked back.  Probably sounds stupid but it was the turning point.  For the next several years I considered my self  "versatile"  but who was I kidding.  Now I am a full blown bottom.  I don't need anything else but to get fucked. 

If I cum before the top  which rarely happens,  I have no problem continuing until he cums.  But 99% of the time,  once he has cum  it's time to go.  I rarely want to cuddle or have after play.  I don't care how hot the guy is.   If I think there is a good chance of him going for another round, that's a different story.  

It really depends on if the top knows what he is doing.  One of the best fucks  that I have had was a 5" cock.  But the top really knew his stuff.  I have also had a great fuck from a huge cock.  That being said,  I have probably had more  memorable fucks from guys that were not quite so big because they put more effort in to pleasing me  than just getting off.  I have never turned down a cock due to size.  Big or little.  A rock hard small cock is a better experience than a big one that can not get fully hard.  

27 minutes ago, Bttml00king said:

Std is part of BB risk. It seems that you are being proactive to your sexual health by taking prep and testing reguarly. You may want to try to get on DoxyPep if you can.

I am not a "no load refused" cumdump so that potentially cut down my risks. I don't bother asking for any status but only trust my instincts and try to be proactive for my sexual health like taking prep and doxypep and getting tested regularly. 

Educate yourself about STDs and take whatever you are comfortable to prevent them and minimize risks. 

In the meantime, enjoy BB whether you are giving/receiving. 

Thanks.  I am on the DoxyPep  program.   I figured I would try to cover all of the basis.  

I am fairly new to the bb lifestyle.  Being recently single and monogomus I have not had a lot of experience  with the consequences of BB.   I am on  prep and I get tested regularly.  I would like to jump into it full bore.  The  BB parties  such as  Cumunion,  horse market,  etc  are so exciting to think about.  So  my point is,  how do ya'll deal with the std  part of the equation?   I don't even haave a doctor that I would feel comfortable with  talking about it.  Any advice would be appreciated.   Please be kind 🙂

On 8/5/2023 at 6:54 PM, CumCravinHole said:

I’ve chatted with a number of gifters on the apps from various places. So if I had the month to do  a a Bury the Bug inside Me road trip, I’d likely hit Dallas, OK, Denver, ABQ, ,Tucson, PHX, LV, & LA.

I live in Tucson.  I am curious as to why you would include Tucson on your list?  I must be missing something.  Any suggestions would be appreciated. 🙂

I remember sucking my first dick when I was about 5 years old.  I don't know how I knew that it was something I wanted to do. Maybe from something with my father that got me interested and even knowing what it was all about.  After that,  I had fantasies for years but did not really act on it until I was about 9. Then had some fondling sessions with cousins.  Moved away from there.  My first real  sexual encounter that included cumming was in my 20's at an ABS  where a much older man jerked me off.  Then I discoverd GH's  and could not get enough of them.  Though limited to being able to go to them.