dareme2doit
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I don't suppose there's any rule of thumb for when is often enough to be worth it? I suppose I should read up on it. I think if I completely dropped any inhibitions and was fucking and getting fucked whenever I wanted to (not just whenever I felt like taking the risk) I'd probably be getting/giving a couple loads a month, which I suspect would be worth it.
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I think this depends on where you're going for testing. I go to a sexual health clinic where education and counselling is a big part of their mandate, and pre- and post- counselling is part of the package when you go for an anonymous HIV test. It might be different if I had, say, a family doctor do it, but It's the best option for me for anonymous testing right now. I guess being firm about already knowing the risks may be my best strategy to skip the guilt-trip.
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I really love barebacking, but am neg and not chasing but not hiding either. I figure if and when I do convert, I want to know, so I still get tested regularly. The thing is where I get tested there's always a host of sexual history questions I have to answer first so they can assess risk, and I'm never sure how to answer. Has anybody ever gone to one of these clinics and been upfront about barebacking with guys whose status is unknown, or known poz? I guess I'm mostly worried about it affecting my quality of care if I do test poz, that it'll go in some file that I was chasing and have it impact insurance coverage later. (not to mention suffering a safe sex lecture I'm not interested in) Am I just being paranoid? If you go in for an anonymous test as an unapologetic barebacker, are there downsides? On the other hand, if you go in and lie about your history and test poz anyway, will they give you the third degree to figure out how you got it if you were as safe as you claimed?
