So far I like the different views ad educated thoughts on open relationships in this discussion.
Honestly I am in a type of predicament. I have had many boyfriends before and my current one is honestly the best person I have ever met. Only issue is that he sees sex as love, I see sex as just sex, to me love is the intimacy of enjoying each other's company and wanting to spend every moment together.
I am a very sexual person and like dicks and asses of many sizes, I like variety. I've come to discover that I want the type of relationship where my partner and I can be cum pigs together or even at separate times and then cuddle and spend time together after. However my bf finds that disgusting and I can see why he would view it since he wants a sort of heteronormative relationship.
For the meantime I'm still with him and trying to make it work to the best of my ability. However I don't see myself ever raising kids, after taking care of my own siblings and parents for years I just want to explore the world, and enjoy myself.
I am going to have to make the tough discussion with him someday and he can choose whether to stay with me or leave.
If anyone has went from a monogamous relationship into an open one over time, how was your experience? Any input or advice is welcomed, especially sice I'm barely 24 and not necessarily the most experienced at all when it comes to life and relationships.
Thankyou