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I know this is kind of old' date=' but I do have some questions. And I have always thought any guy looked hot in a cock ring.

I've played with a cock ring a few times, but never had one that fit right. Have tried stainless, and leather, which always work their way off, and tried the stretchy kind, but they make my balls ach very quick. Do any of you have suggestions?

Would a narrow leather one work better, or would it be more constricitng like a rubber one? I would prefer a metal one, maybe silver/gold, that I could wear on a a regular basis, but not if it falls off all the time.

I do have the resources to make my own metal cock ring, and if I can better understand how to make it stay on I will make me one, and promise to put photos on my profile of it. I have actually made a set before for a gay couple.[/quote']

Cockrings can be a bugger to decide on size wise. I find a leather/rubber strap works best as you can adjust if it becomes too tight.

Metal ones are hot and tend to go up in 3mm increments on the internal diameter.. 45, 47, 51, 54 etc.

I'd say choose an adjustable one at first to get your size then measure the internal diameter and make a metal one that suits.

If it gets stuck remember not to panic, just have a hot batch and use some soap or lube to slip it off

Germany has a staggered age of consent law:

Everything under 14 is strictly illegal.

14-16 year olds can have sex with other adolescents and young adults' date=' as long as those are under 21. Above 21, it's illegal (but not always punishable). Parents still have to press charges or a state attorney has to decide that the case is of general interest for it to go to court.

16-18: Sex is generally legal, but there is a catalogue of restrictions. E.g. 17 year-olds cannot work as prostitutes (prostitution being otherwise legal in Germany). Employers, teachers, coaches and other persons of authority cannot have sex with students, apprentices etc.. You also cannot take advantage of a teenager's problems, like offering a place to crash in exchange for sex.

18+: No restrictions.

I certainly don't want to press the "Europe is so enlightened theme", but I do think the German law is exemplary in that it is a very sane and workable compromise between the different interests. Teenagers are not being punished for having sex with each other, while predatory behaviour can be prosecuted.[/quote']

The Germans have pretty sensible laws about things like this. I like how enlightened it is.

16. If you can drive across the country' date=' you're old enough to decide who to fuck.[/quote']

It's 16 in the UK and I think it's a good age.

Hot story! Makes the inner bottom in me horny

Yes. Every time. Black guys do nothing for me whatsoever. Even in porn, if a black guy starts fucking I lose my hard-on.

It's not a racist thing just sexually I don't find them attractive. Same goes for oriental guys, Arabs and Asians.

White, Mediterranean, Latin etc I'm good with.

I think when I see a white guy with 9+ or more inches its more impressive cause they are more rare lol

The UK and US have different definitions for aids: in order to bring people who were clearly ill' date=' but didn't fit into any of the categories for diagnosis with aids, the Americans decided that a CD4 count of less that 200 was part of the definition, which got a fair number of people onto welfare.

In the UK we're moving away from a straightforward definition of aids, using instead degrees of severity of HIV disease. So make a good recovery from cryptosporidiosis or PCP and you move from having severe HIV disease to mild or moderate, or maybe even aysmptomatic HIV disease.

The American system seems to say once you have aids you have aids, full stop, whereas the UK system allows for remission from aids.[/quote']

Thanks for the clarification. I'd always wondered that. Nice to know its not so cut and dried in the UK

Can you go from AIDS back to just living with HIV? Is it a case that AIDS is just what they call it when your CD4 count drops and viral load rockets?

Sorry to have to report yet a other guys

Wilfred Knight, actor for Lucas film took his own life two weeks after his husband took his.

Another tragic end. I really wish people didn't see suicide as their only way out.

http://www.queerty.com/death-of-porn-actor-wilfried-knight-confirmed-committed-suicide-two-weeks-after-husbands-death-20130312/

http://ind.pn/12Jhmp2

"As cardinals gather to elect Pope, Catholic officials break into a sweat over news that priests share €23m building with huge gay sauna"

"A day ahead of the papal conclave, faces at the scandal-struck Vatican were even redder than usual after it emerged that the Holy See had purchased a €23 million (£21 million) share of a Rome apartment block that houses Europe’s biggest gay sauna.

The senior Vatican figure sweating the most due to the unlikely proximity of the gay Europa Multiclub is probably Cardinal Ivan Dias, the head of the Congregation for Evangelisation of Peoples, who is due to participate in tomorrow’s election at the Sistine Chapel.

This 76-year-old “prince of the church” enjoys a 12-room apartment on the first-floor of the imposing palazzo, at 2 Via Carducci, just yards from the ground floor entrance to the steamy flesh pot. There are 18 other Vatican apartments in the block, many of which house priests."

For the rest of the article hit the link above.

Love it when shit like this happens.

Spending several days talking an online friend through his latest come down' date=' and then several weeks talking through what he'd done to his immune system has been more than enough for me to forget the idea. Reasonable alcohol use (beer makes the the best piss), and good quality poppers are enough for me.[/quote']

Couldn't agree more. Beer piss is great and poppers help it slide in. T downer can be horrendous!

I was diagnosed with "full blown AIDS" in 2007. AIDS is when your CD4 type of white blood cell count is below 200 and you have a high viral load plus one or more opportunistic diseases. Here were my "numbers" at time of diagnosis CD4 was 20 a normal person is above 600' date=' viral HIV load of over 800000 in blood stream, thrush in mouth, pneumocystis pneumonia. I was in hospital in 3 weeks. I was placed on the newer anti vitals meds and it was a long journey back to any kind of physical normalcy. My CD4 count is a little over 200 now and undetectable viral load. I don't even look like the stereotypical AIDS patient in fact you look at me and never would you have imagined. The HIV road is not easy but anyone has questions just let me know![/quote']

We're you on meds before the hospitalisation or were the meds a result of?

Don't you dare try and pull that shit with me! If you try to weasel out of giving me your load on the basis that 7.5 is somehow "small"' date=' I will physically hold you down, get you hard, sit on your cock and ride it til I get your seed LOL.

Which isn't to say I wouldn[t return the favor. Hell, it's hot when both guys end up with cum in their ass and it doesn't happen nearly often enough![/quote']

Amen to that!

Fuck. I think I'd just move to America if that happened!

I'm 41 and the only thing I've noticed is that my recovery time is a bit longer between loads. My sex drive hasn't changed much in years.

And I'm thinking I would really love to hang with all of the hot 40+ tops posting here. I discovered a long time ago that my attraction to older guys was one of the biggest blessings of my young' date=' gay life. Those guys have been been fucking around, having all kinds of sex, for years and years and years. You learn so much more from sex with them. Given the choice between that sexy 20-something guy everyone goes gaga over and someone like Topper, who's been fucking ass for 40+ years, I'll take the master every single time.

And yes, Topper, that's a standing invitation to have at my ass anytime you get the chance.[/quote']

Of give you my ass any day ;P

I love guys 40+

Grrrr DADDY!!

Why do guys get so hung up on labels?

Top, bottom, vers.... Does it really matter? Just cause you take cock regularly or on occasion doesn't make you that one thing. Just do what you enjoy.

Besides how do you really know if that hot 'total top' is just that? How do you know he never takes cock? For all you know when he gets home he is bred like a bitch and loves it!

I want to see your ass get bred RawTop... Actually I want to brew your hole with my 8" uncut pierced tool and make you moan for my seed. Then you can do it to me

Yep. Smokers cum. Vile!

You hand in there BlindRawFucker, talking really helps to get through the darker bits of life.

I'm glad if anyone else reads this and knows they can talk when it comes to depression!

I love nice big low hangers... A hot pair of bull balls that need to be emptied into me. Love to lick them and feel them slapping against my arse while his cock is using my hole!

This guy would be perfect!

Not being judgemental.. it's "the GIRLS" (tina' date=' Gina etc... ) messing with the chemical imbalance in brain. I just get "HIGH" on Men, the SEX etc...

Its SAFER, Cheaper & LEGAL ![/quote']

I plan to from now on. I realised in my last session that you can get a serious rush just from playing with the right guy

I was dealing with depression and anxiety before my HIV+ diagnosis.

How did finding out you are poz affect your mood/depression?

I know it's not just the drugs, the downer lasted longer than the life of the drugs in my system. It only got better once I'd upped my meds.

Doctor again tomorrow so going to chat through things and look at staying in my 20mg for the long term.

Thanks RawTop, though I don't think in this case it's winter blues. I do get a little down in winter but not normally like this.

This is a bit of a repeat post but I thought it deserves its own thread.

I've just started to feel better after what I can only describe as another of the worst weeks of my life. Why? - I had a bad downer after parTying, something I think I won't ever do again now, and being on a reduced dose of my antidepressants.

I went from feeling ok on Monday to feeling suicidal on Tuesday and Wednesday then to thinking I'd damaged my brain. After that I started slowly to get better, but only after going back to my original dose of meds.

So I'm starting to think I may have a chemical imbalance. Two years ago before I went on antidepressants I suffered from anxiety. I've always been a worrier, the two years since have been pretty awesome and I've not had issues with stress or anxiety. Yes I still get low but I can shake out of it and watch a film or go to the gym, or bake or whatever.

I have changed how I think about people with mental health issues and want to know of others also have issues the are willing to talk about.