I am also introverted and shy plus haven't had many dates, hookups and absolutely no relationships because I am on the chubby side and most guys i have met be they neg or possibly poz are too interested in apperances. So the social aspect i don't think would hit me all that hard but who knows. but then even if i was not chubby due to other reasons i would have problems finding a guy, for example my job is minimum wage at best, i don't drive because i was hit in college among other things. still i know what i like and what i want to do if ever given the chance but don't want to not be able to get meds if necessary. concerns or not though given the chance i won't turn down a load because i want to be/am a cum dump on the submissive side.