seaguy

They say revenge is a dish best served cold but in this case it is gonna be HOT.

Yeah people will always go to bars to socialize, meet friends, hang out, etc.  it sounds like that bar was too focused on being a cruisy leather bar where guys picked each other up and did not try and become a destination for leather guys looking to socialize sop they went tits up cause they dfid not change with the times.  Blaming Grindr is a lame excuse if you ask me .  Cause any successful bar draws people ub for a number of reasons not just cause they have a dark room in the back where guys can fuck.

Bars are closing in Seattle because of the rents going up and the gentrification of the gay area and I suspect the influx of tech workers who tend to be straight coming to work at Amazon are not really helping out for the gay bars.  Though none of the long time bars have closed in years and none are in danger that I am aware of.

A much more recent documentary is Stephen Fry's "HIV and me", which I highly recommend. It's not about bugchasing per se, but on the reality of HIV in general, gay as well as straight. In typical Fry fashion it's a compassionate, but unflinching look on the topic, not shying away from talking about bug chasing, drug abuse etc.. I found it to be a quite real and honest look on the situation in the United Kingdom.

 

It can be found on Youtube (e.g.

 

(Part 1)

(Part 2)

 

and many other video sites.

The guy who hosts this one Stephen  Fry is getting married to a much younger man http://bananaguide.com/article/94152/stephen-fry-is-getting-married-to-a-much-younger-man

Yeah The Gift is a bit old but some of the stuff is still true even with the newer meds,  

I wonder what ever happened to Kenboy he was such a hot little bareback slut.

I have a PhD, and am a 6 figure executive in a blue chip company

...yesterday i was fucked raw and bred by an escort...I stumbled across his real name in the process....he also has a PhD and is an executive in a biotech company. he had been trying to breed me for a year now...I'm trying to figure out why he is an escort!

might have done it to help pay for his schooling and has some regular clients he has developed over the years or something like that?

Bottoming condoms and their friction rub me raw (not in a good way) so I can't bottom as long.

And like someone said putting a condom on a cock basically turns it into a dildo.  I always prefer the real thing.

New doctor for sure.  Or go on the CDC website and print out  the brochures and info that clearly states Truvada is approved for use by HIV- individuals to prevent HIV infection.

To me is seems even small town doctors should have gotten word about PrEP via a medical journal, news, etc. so for a doctor to have such a lack of knowledge would make me think twice about continuing to see a provider who clearly does not keep up with the changes in medicine that are beneficial to my health.

Send this link to that clueless doctor http://prepfacts.org/assets/PrEP_Facts_16-pager_brochure_mech_FINAL.pdf

Office Assistant (Admin/Clerical work) for a state govt agency.

Raw.  I was like 12--14 he was 15-17 stuck it in with just precum and spit for lube hurt like hell, he was hung but I knew I wanted to keep trying cause I liked what he was "showing" me. Then when I showed some guys younger than me it was raw. never gave condoms a thought.

If you are on the fence and trying to decide if you want to just go for it and fuck raw, chase or get pozzed I suggest checking out the documentary called The Gift http://www.snagfilms.com/films/title/the_gift  it shows one guys experience and might give you some perspective.  Because once you go down that road and get the gift there is no turning back.

I'm worried that I'll lose my Medicaid because I've had to see so many doctors that I'm afraid they'll put me on a "safe choices" bs program preventing me from seeing my ID Doc.

That is for people who are seeing the same type of doctors (ER, Pain Specialists) trying to get pain killers, not someone like you.  and they don't just take your medicaid away, you have rights if they were to even put you on that program.   I worked for the agency that administers medicaid in WA so I know a bit about how it works.  PrEP is not experimental, that doctors knowledge might be.  You need to be doing what you can to protect your health stand up for yourself and don't take no for an answer!  You always have what they call appeal rights, see if you can switch to a different managed care plan provider.  Here in WA we can choose from Amerigroup Columbia United Providers Community Health Plan Coordinated Care Molina Healthcare United Healthcare so I would hope Virginia gives you a little choice?

Fuck I wanna start handing out with your brothers ;-) 

I'm wondering if it might be Sketchysex they shoot scenes in a house in Las Vegas according to an interview Dakota Wolfe who has been a bottom for Sketchysex did here http://str8upgayporn.com/sketchy-sex-bareback-gangbang-porn/

If it was not out of the way to take you back to the hotel then they should have done that.  Maybe they thought you would change your mind once you got to his place?  But they should have said something not just ignored you.  But if it was out of the way then it's kind of majority rules.  If you wanted to be back at your room that bad you could have called yourself a cab?

Thanks a lot that's all really great advice.  And I actually honestly didn't know that about insurance companies.  Since they handle it all I wasn't sure what showed up on it.  And yeah I am haha.  

 

Thanks again I really appreciate it.

call the insurance company up you don't have to identify yourself to ask questions like can your parents see exactly what medication you were prescribed or had filled at the pharmacy.

Anyone got this one again ? was put on by seaguy ?

 

seaguy said

nofear9137 deleted his xtube account 

Thanks for sharing and I totally relate cause I was born in 72 and that age between the bars and not wanting to get spotted going into the video stores, bathhouses, or get busted at the parks didn't leave many options other than the chat lines.  Young guys now have so many options but they don't realize how good they have it.

a picture is worth a thousand words...make sure you include one

 

be honest about yourself.  sure most guys shave off a couple of years/pounds in their posts, but you need to keep it within reason.  nothing worse than agreeing to hook up with a guy and then when you meet him he doesn't match his description at all.

 

be up front about what you want/expect.  

 

when reading replies remember if it looks too good to be true it probably is.

 

if you send more than a few emails back and forth with a guy and he doesn't commit to meet it's probably not gonna happen.  don't waste any more time on him.

 

most importantly...be careful!  I've never had anything terrible happen to me, but the world is full of crazy people and con artists.

Totally agree with all BadInBrooklyn's suggestions.  As far as a pic goes I hardly look at ads with no pic and don't use a fake one like a porn stars that is so lame.  You don't have to put a face pic do a body shot but some sort of pic of you gives the ad so much more credibility and makes it that much more worth taking the time to read and reply too.

One fact that will take some of the wind out of the anti bareback porn crowds sails is this news released by the FSC an industry trade group:

The shoots in question did not adhere to the PASS testing protocols and were shot outside of the PASS testing database used by adult performers. Not only did this leave those who participated at risk, it made it much harder to track scene partners once the possible infection was discovered.

While the set did use a degree of HIV testing, it fell below the standard set by PASS protocols, including the use of an ELISA HIV tests, rather than the highly sensitive RNA tests required by the industry. The ELISA tests have large window periods that delay how early an infection can be detected, and have not been accepted within the adult industry for over a decade.

Neither did the shoot utilize the PASS database. However, once alerted by the DPH to the incident, the Free Speech Coalition worked swiftly to shut down production within the larger industry and help track any possible exposures in or out of the PASS database. While performers in the PASS database were not affected, participants on the non-compliant shoot may have been exposed.

Your title promised a week.....need more!

It also happens to be Christmas and New Years when many have travel, family commitments so give the guy a break.  People take the time to write and post their stories free of charge so they can be forgiven if they are not able to post subsequent chapters like they are getting paid and have a staff to proofread, and assist them.

I realize it is frustrating when your into a well written story and the person writing it takes months to finish it but that is how it goes with user shared fiction that is free of charge.  I think it could  end up making others think twice before deciding to write something and post it because they don't want to get themselves into a situation where they feel obligated because people are demanding they post the next update.

A bit off-topic: What happened to Mike Dozer? Where is he now? I saw a message here that he is out of prison on bail?

I saw his FB page hasn't been updated since 2013.

Would he (be able to) go back to doing porn now that he is "tainted"? He is/was one of my fav pornstars. The total package, even if he is mostly Bottoms. Fucking gorgeous guy.

Dozer is in prison now, he was never out on bail since his arrest he has been in custody because as soon as he was bailed out on the state charges the feds busted him on federal charges and took him into federal custody so he actually never got released from custody just transferred from state to Federal custody.

http://str8upgayporn.com/shock-mike-dozer-distributing-pornography-from-federal-prison/

He's looking at at least 25 yrs of Federal Prison when he is sentanced then there are the state charges so by the time he get's out the only porn he would be suitable for is daddy or older men type forn but with the stigma of being a convicted child pornography viewer and having assaulted a child no porn studio with any business sence would hire him.

I wont do that. All it takes is for it to catch and rip your colon and you'll be on your way to the emergency before you die. A perforated colon is nothing to fuck with and not worth it.

You have to do something like get fucked by a horse like the guy in Enumclaw, WA several years ago to get a perforated colon.  Chances of that happening when getting fucked by a top wearing a PA are extremely remote.  Look at any fisting porn and it will show you how accommodating the anus can be.

The devil is in the details.  Does the guy who tested neg but then poz a couple weeks later and thus the one who infected his scene partner a drug user, escort who will bareback with clients, is he a big load taking anonymous sex pig something that might explain the rapid change in his viral load.  Not sure what studio it could be Mania Media does shoots in NV, 999% sure it is not Treasure Island cause I don't recall then doing any scenes in NV.

You can bet that ass hole Weinstein will totally milk this for his own agenda and  froo free publicity for his vendetta against the gay porn industry.

What is an infraction?

It's like a demerit or admonishment from one of the ops because you did something against the rules or bad.

Once you go black it is hard to go back.