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  1. On 3/27/2022 at 12:05 AM, tallslenderguy said:

    For me, "mind control"  can be one of the most profound factors in an ongoing Top/bottom relationship.  For me, it cannot be a one size fits all situation. I.e., not just anyone can have that with me.

    i participate in a BDSM discussion forum, primarily straight people, but i have learned a lot and made some friends.  One of the terms that gets bandied about a lot is "insta-dom," and i think the same idea can be applied to sub guys, i.e., that here are "insta-subs" as well.  It's pretty much a self descriptive term. i cannot count the number of guys who have contacted me when i mention in a profile that "i have a sub side."  i stopped putting the word "sub" in profiles because the term needs a lot of unpacking for me. Very few can actually access that part of me, it's requires communication and connection, not just a presumptuous, generic approach.  

    Really, communication and connection is key for me. For me,  sexual control is something i give, not something someone can take. Bullies and force might just get you back kicked into the next state lol. i've encountered a couple of hook ups who presumed to try it and they backed down very fast from my almost automatic response. i was at a sex club once and a guy straddled me and pinched my nipples really hard, he almost intantly found himself on the floor with me straddling him and a look of shock on his face. i have a pretty strong survival instinct surrounding my "sub" nature lol. 

    But if trust is built and with a mature (in nature, not age) Top/Dom, "mind control" can enter in, but is the pinnacle of a relationship for me, the ultimate expression of the Top/bottom dynamic. i see it more as "mind fuck" where a Man penetrates, inseminates and impregnates, not just my body, but my soul.  But for me it has to be a mutual process, not an automatic response. To me, those who operate that way are doing "role play," just acting, "playing."

    This is very real for me... and those who i have experienced it with see it the same. The most intimate bonds i have ever experienced and, as you note, much more "powerful," engage and blend the  body, mind and emotions in both concerned, not the body alone.

    Exactly. For me it was overwhelming - I had a man I loved that understood me and his real control over me was allowing me to be me and celebrating me for what I wanted to be - a total cumslt!

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  2. Are there any other total cumpigs like me who like their top/partner taking full control of their sex lives? Sure, while my ex used to tie me in a sling and caged me often, I found his thought control over me and my sex life his biggest and most powerful weapon. In a strange way his mind control uninhibited me and led me down the path to being a cumslut that I always wanted to be. Having no say, most of the time, whop fucked me and when, having my gangbangs organised, having my visits to dark rooms supervised, having him recruit cock and seed for me - set me free - knowing that he would always ensure that my insatiable appetite for getting fucked and bred would be satisfied. 

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  3. 15 hours ago, backdoorjimmy said:

    The first time I met my bf it was just a cock date with him and his room mates. He was sitting in a chair eating blue chews while his room mates dicked me down. Then he took his turn and lasted a long, long time. When he was finished I was wiped out and sweaty, but I still wanted more. So a few hours later I hit him up and within minutes I was back at their place, getting fucked again and wondering if I'd made a mistake.

    During the pandemic is was just me and them in the house all the time. I got to a place where I started wearing my bf down. Now, even when he's taken 4 or 5 blue chews I still end up wanting more, so he passes me around to his room mates and has his boys come through to stroke my ass out. I feel like I can't get enough cock in my ass anymore, which makes me proud but also makes me wonder what it'll take to finally be satisfied before I fall asleep.

    I often wonder the same thing I am generally sated when I have been fucked 8 or 10 times. As my ex taught me I was not to touch or cum while being bred as I was to totally focus on my top - I very rarely cum and if I do it is a private thing. Sometimes after I have been fucked five or six times I will go home or wait till the tops leave my place I will cum. Usually I depend on tops to fuck me into oblivion and I can sleep well with their loads in me and my cunt dripping 

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  4. On 2/17/2021 at 11:34 AM, backdoorjimmy said:

    I love reading all the replies here. It's fascinating to see how all of us different bottoms sluts all arrived at the same point.

    For me it comes down to loving anal sex. I love being fucked more than anything and when I'm horny, I don't care what it takes to get laid. I love it so much I considered quitting my job so I could enjoy having sex all day every day. I didn't take it that far, but I came really close to it.

    I've been having sex since I was in middle school and no matter how much I have, I crave more. For me it isn't about the load. That's the bonus at the end. For me it's all about the intercourse. My ass burns for cock when I haven't had a good, satisfying lay to hold me over until the next one. Fuck me for an hour and I might be satisfied enough to pull my pants back up.

    I read a comment on reddit from someone who said that one good lay a month was all he needed to be a satisfied bottom. To me that sounds like torture. I like to get fucked at least three times a day, and when I don't I get cranky and irritable.

    So my answer is that I became a slut because anal sex feels incredible and I don't think there's such a thing as too much.

    I am like you, if I go two days without cock I am unbearable. I can get by on two a day a day but really need four or five - which thankfuly I manage to get Fridday Saturday and Sunday. I set myself a target to get bred a minimum of 15 times each weekend. From lunchtime on Friday at work I start to get testy as I can't wait to get home get to the backroom, thru COVID get on line and get myself fucked stupid. Last Sunday I took 8 tops and I could hvae handled more - that's just the way I am - my arse is wired to my brain.

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  5. On 2/18/2022 at 8:45 PM, PozConverted said:

    Very agree with this. My Master is and remains the guy who pozzed me 4 yrs ago. From the very first day we have met, he knows I am a cumdump who likes being fucked whoever the men are. There is loyalty between us because we are bound with hiv, but our relation is definitely NOT monogamous. He encourages me to live the POZ life I want, and being in darkrooms is one of the best situation for me. When he is there with me, or in private poz parties, he likes choosing the men who will fuck me and that I am committied to accept. On his side, he has multiple partners. And we both are very happy with this relationship.

    My ex did the same - organised my conversion party - organised my gangbangs, weekend fucks the works. He allowe and encuraged me to be the cumdump I wanted and needed to be

  6. On 2/24/2022 at 8:34 AM, TxBBTop said:

    I love dating insatiable cumdump bottoms. There is nothing better then dating someone who has all the kinky slutty qualifications I look for and comes home to daddy with a cumsloppy hole. 

    For some of the guys I've dated, I've encouraged them to get remote cameras installed so I can watch them be cumdump whores while I'm working. There is nothing hotter then watching my BF getting fucked raw by a group of men knowing that after work I get to slide into that cumsloppy whore pussy. GRRRRR Just thinking of it makes me worked up.

    My partner too loved watching me get fucked and bred and he too loved it when my hole was dripping with seed. He used to call it riding "the silk trail" if we went to a sex club or had tops over he would always wait til I had loads in me before he fucked me. He encouraged me to take cock whenever I felt the need to and most weekends we spent with a variety of tops visiting me to seed me.

  7. Having a partner that is a cum dump can be very hard. Sure, countless tops want to use them. For me and my ex for 13.5 years it worked well - because he not only understood my need for getting fucked and bred, but encouraged it and got off on it too. He actually helped me on the journey to be the cum dump I have ended up being. He organised gang bangs, took me to dark rooms, loved watching men fuck and breed me, loved fucking me when I had taken loads. It made things so much easier. There was no guilt. He knew I needed to get fucked constantly, accepted that I not only had one offs but regulars. He loved taking pics and vids of me gettng fucked. But it worked both ways, I accpeted his need for fucking other bottoms. 

  8. 16 hours ago, TxBBTop said:

    I love dating insatiable cumdump bottoms. There is nothing better then dating someone who has all the kinky slutty qualifications I look for and comes home to daddy with a cumsloppy hole. 

    For some of the guys I've dated, I've encouraged them to get remote cameras installed so I can watch them be cumdump whores while I'm working. There is nothing hotter then watching my BF getting fucked raw by a group of men knowing that after work I get to slide into that cumsloppy whore pussy. GRRRRR Just thinking of it makes me worked up.

    That is the way my ex loved it for 13.5 years. But not a lot of tops love sluts as their partners. 

  9. 5 hours ago, Want my 1st cock said:

    First of all you shouldn’t care what any “community” thinks. Are you happy with the choices you make? It sounds like you are. Then they are the right choices. I am a top and I always lol at the tops I hear that brag about fucking a lot of bottoms but deride a bottom that fucks a lot of tops. Nice hypocrisy fellas.

    Maybe a bit off topic but there is something magical about top/bottom dynamic to me that a lot of tops I know IMO don’t seem to understand. I have heard so many tops brag about how they “used that bottom to get off, cum in” etc etc etc.

    I say to my fellow tops……you ever think that maybe the bottoms are using US to get what THEY want? And the fact that they can use sooooo many of us and well let’s be honest.  We tops are limited to a certain degree. A bottom can go all night.

    Nothing but respect and appreciation for the cumdump bottoms that use me!

    You are dead right. Even as a total bottom I use every top that fucks and breeds me. He has pleasured me and I have had that wonderful feeling I get when being boned. It works both ways. sure I do everything I can to make his fuck great - but that is also for my benefit.

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