Hey I'm new to the forum here. In any case, I think finding "the one" is very possible. I used to be someone who would have sex whenever I could (since I live with my family that wasn't too often unless the other guy was free) but now that I've found someone who I truly love and who loves me back I know that I'm happy with him sexually, emotionally, physically and romantically. I don't think you need to 'give sex a rest' but I do think you need to give guys a chance. If they bore you, that's different. I thought my relationships would be that way but I'm CRAZY and my boyfriend is too and he knows how to handle me. So, at the end of the day you need to decide whether your "the one" should be a whackjob who could keep things exciting and unstable or if he should be someone stable and emotionally grounded.
