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  1. bonsaisai
    do you also implicitly give him the right to come inside your ass? Or does the right to come in someone's ass have to be negotiated separately and beforehand? Just like with a blowjob, if you're giving it to somebody, does he have the right to come in your mouth without asking you in advance? What's the etiquette in these situations?
  2. bonsaisai
    I have a Malaysian friend working and living in Singapore. He went for an HIV test out of suspicion and got a positive result. The health agency was obligated to report it to the government. He immediately lost his job, working permit, and was deported back to Malaysia within 30 days. Now he wants to enter Singapore as a tourist to visit friends (like thousands of Malaysian citizens do everyday), Singapore doesn't allow him--dragging its feet on its response to his request. What a Nazi state!
  3. bonsaisai
    I guess you're right about that.
  4. bonsaisai
    What if I don't show any openness on my part about getting fucked with or without condom? He just offered me his raw ass all of a sudden and there was no script, no agreement, no assignment of roles. By accepting his ass and going to town with it, did I unwittingly enter into an "anal contract" with him?
  5. bonsaisai
    Pretty raunchy there, noexitfastlane!
  6. bonsaisai
    For a top, I understand why I want to bb because the feeling is superior to fucking with a condom. The difference is day and night. For bottoms, the feeling must be equally superior. Otherwise, why risk your own life, especially when you're neg?
  7. bonsaisai
    Interesting! When HIV status is out there in the open, people feel a lot less comfortable and free to do what they otherwise would do. Their behavior is more predictable and rational. I guess it's true that ignorance is bliss. Sometimes people just want to have sex and rather not know each other's status.
  8. bonsaisai
    I'm also an ass man. To me, a man's ass, because it's partially hidden, represents mystery and surprise and is more fascinating. It invites to be discovered. A man's penis is boring because it's already a protruding organ. It's already out there.
  9. bonsaisai
    Thank you for sharing your experience. Very informative!
  10. bonsaisai
    Yes, many of these "closet barebackers" or "opportunistic barebackers" have to make split-second decisions on whether to go bareback once their in bed with someone. Once a guy is horny, the penis usually takes over the brain. And there's the point of no return during the process.
  11. bonsaisai
    Not any sort of "right" but what if I don't want him to fuck me raw, even though I enjoy his raw ass?
  12. bonsaisai
    It seems like they don't have to.
  13. bonsaisai
    That'll work for you just fine then.
  14. bonsaisai
    Interesting! I like the way you analyzed the question.
  15. bonsaisai
    If a guy offers me his raw ass and I take it, fuck the shit out of him, and love every minute of it, does it give him the right to flip me over and start fucking me raw? This question is based on the following assumptions: -there is no prior discussion and agreement about who's going to top/bottom, with or without condom -I find him attractive enough to let him fuck me -I'm willing and able to take his dick So the question really focuses on the barebacking aspect of the flip flop fuck.
  16. bonsaisai
    If they say "I want to be fucked with a condom," will you comply?
  17. bonsaisai
    Interesting insights into the generation born in the 1980s. You were saying that only about 10% of guys you encountered ever offered or insisted on condom use?
  18. bonsaisai
    Very interesting points! Nothing seems to scream out "bottom" more than seeing a man, however big and masculine, lying down on his back with legs up in the air, exposing his asshole. It's a feminine position and even a bit slutty. Sometimes when I hesitate to bottom for a guy, if he forces my legs up and over his shoulders, gets on top of me, and starts rubbing his dick in my hole, he will bring the bottom out of me and I will come along. When I jo, I think about episodes with me as a bottom more often than as a top. When I watch porn, I get turned on more by seeing a small Asian guy being fucked by a bigger white/black/hispanic guy. Go figure!
  19. bonsaisai
    Thank you for such a wonderful response and sharing your personal experience. It's the best so far because you seemed to understand my questions/dilemma. Other responses are interesting to read but yours really hit the nail on the head. To boil down, the only reason I discovered my top side was when a guy let me fuck him bb for the first time after I spent the first 10 years of my gay life as a bottom with occasional toppings. I thought I'd never like topping/fucking because it's simply not pleasurable with a condom. When the condom is off, it's a whole different world--like day and night for me. Now when I'm with a big guy, I don't mind being a bottom. When I'm with a smaller guy, I like to top, preferably without a condom. However, barebacking is still an extreme guilty pleasure and an unspoken taboo. Hence, my schizophrenic dilemma!
  20. bonsaisai
    Thanks for the offer. And I assume bb, right?
  21. bonsaisai
    Yes, the reasons are always complicated. Medical problems definitely play a role or restricts one's role. How many guys who switch to topping because they can't take dicks in their asses?
  22. bonsaisai
    You got a point there. In a dark and anonymous environment, people feel the complete freedom to do what they like.
  23. bonsaisai
    Maybe some of us grown up in the 1990s got fatigued with constant drumbeats of safe sex education.
  24. bonsaisai
    Interesting theory!
  25. bonsaisai
    I know flip fucking is hot for some people but I can't do it. One role at a time for me.

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