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  1. bonsaisai
    All the time or only when an opportunity presents itself?
  2. bonsaisai
    In the vast majority of a4a profiles that I've come across, they all say "always safe sex." And yet, I'd say in 7 out of 10 cases, people are willing to offer me their raw asses even before I make any moves. And for the other 3 caes, I'd have got my way if I insist. I can't believe how easy it is to fuck a raw ass these days. You've also experienced the same.
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    There must be more people barebacking out there than they care to admit publicly. I have never gone out with a guy with a specific intention that I'm going to have bb sex with him. Yet somehow things happen. Many times when a guy sees my uncut dick (6" on a 5'3" 105 lb Asian body), somehow he manages to back his ass, hastily lubed with his own spit, into my dick. I don't understand why. After all, I don't look like a typical top although I'm straight acting. What am I supposed to do? I'm only a (hu)man and I know I'm weak. So I just go along and let him ride my dick. On the other hand, I usually have more will power to resist being fucked bb as a bottom. Of course it always feels amazing to fuck bb as a top at the time but it gives me so much anxiety, worry and sometimes shame afterwards. I'm neg and want to remain that way. Are there any other opportunistic barebackers, either tops or bottoms, like me out there?
  4. bonsaisai
    Me too. It's just that I can't flip flop with the same guy in the same session. I can be either top or bottom for him, depending on how he looks. I'm a little Asian guy so when I meet somebody my size or smaller, he brings out the top in me.
  5. bonsaisai
    I agree with what you said about versatile guys giving the best fucks. They've walked in your shoes before and they know that it takes to give pleasure. Not sure about flip flopping in one session with the same guy. Once I size up a guy, I'll determine to bottom for him or top him and that'll be it for him. I can't change my mind. Doing otherwise is a bit schizophrenic.
  6. bonsaisai
    You got that right. That seems to be the case.
  7. bonsaisai
    "its all good as long as someone is getting fucked" -- I like that.
  8. bonsaisai
    I think versatiles make better sex partners in general. They have played both roles. They understand all the necessary preparations to have a clean, smooth fucking episode so they can better appreciate the bottom's efforts. They probably have been fucked by "bad" tops before (tops with limp dicks, tops lying in bed like a dead fish and expecting to be serviced from A to Z) so they can be active and passionate tops. But maybe it's more about how much experience one has rather than about a particular sexual role one's played.
  9. bonsaisai
    I'm an Asian living in America and to truly conform to the stereotype, I used to bottom in my 20s. The experience was OK, never great. Physically it mostly hurt and was sometimes pleasurable. Mentally it was more fun being a bottom. But things changed the moment I discovered how pleasurable it was to top bareback. It was like "I never got the memo on this." The excitement, the fear, the nerves all melted into an unforgettable experience. Since then I became truly versatile leaning toward topping more (with or without condoms) now that I'm in my 30s. But I can't be both top and bottom with the same person in the same setting. Only one thing at a time, as if the moment I see or talk to a guy, a switch has been turned on, dependent on how he looks and acts. I'm a small guy (5'3" 110 lbs) so most of the time people naturally assume that I'm a bottom, even though I'm straight acting. I tend to bottom for guys who are taller and bigger than me, which most of American guys are, unless I travel outside the US and to Asian countries. There, with Asian guys who are either the same size as me or smaller, I feel much more comfortable being a top. Sometimes I can't decide what I like more. Am I just schizophrenic when it comes to sex?
  10. bonsaisai
    I'm a Asian top/vers and I love rimming. When I play top, I especially enjoying rimming a hot hole and getting it wet and ready to stick my dick in. I feel that I'm in control of that ass and I can do what I want with it. When I play bottom, I also enjoy rimming because that is an act of submission. I'm servicing a top who is in control and about to fuck my ass. He can also rim me if he likes but I don't really get much out of it. But he's the top so he can do what he wants. Funny how the mind works!

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