NordicBtm

Hey guys,

so I’ve been in a relationship for about 5 years now with a really great top guy. He’s pretty much always horny, fills me up with fun whenever I feel like it (and I try and do the same) and the sex is good.

In the past 18 months I’ve introduced some of my more sluttier fantasies to him in order to see if he’d be into whoring me out or doing other super slutty stuff that I’m into.

I’ve been dealing with my inner slut by taking “work trips” or “visiting my sister” (both partly true) where I’ve been gone to BB parties, bathhouses and pretty much evolved from someone who likes to bareback to someone who craves random dicks and loads on a regular basis.

So last year he finally caught on and we’ve been taking baby steps towards me explaining my need to service cock and get filled. It’s sort of shocked him since he’s used to being the horny one. ( for me it’s not constant more like comes in waves)

The linger I now stay in this relationship the more I fuck around - pretty much up to 2-3 times a week taking loads from regular fuck buds behind his back - sometimes with his load as lube since some guys are into that.

What should I do? Get out of the relationship and fully own up to being a slut?

@BtmNordic on Twitter - just joined!

would love to share raunchy stuff on there - curious to see if there is a community there online.

Yes absolutely. The hole is there when He has the urge to fuck and dump his load.

On 2/3/2020 at 8:01 AM, Loveitraw said:

I don’t know if its because I’m in the UK but I still love the cruising experience.  Carparks, woods, etc.. as long as the cruising spot is regularly used then I can pretty much guarantee leaving satisfied.  The local bathhouse is very hit and miss during the week. On weekends its crowded but later on its all post club drunks stumbling about the place. Not my idea of fun.  To try another one is a couple of hours drive either way which is fine once in a while.  I guess what I’m saying is, I like what I can get but I envy you your choice.

I also get off on cruising. Guys are definitely there to fuck and dump a load and all the happier to find a slutty open hole with no questions asked. Easily my favorite over bathhouses 🙂

As a bottom myself I am usually more into the cock and top but find that what turns me on with a hot bottom are a couple things:

1) Sluttiness - like really wanting dick and loads and enjoying getting fucked

2) A hole that show experience that tops easily slide into and looks like a nice open cummy fuckhole after the fuck (how I want mine to look)

that being said my favorites would be Christian from TIM, Armond Rizzo, Damian Silver to name a few.

I’m totally attracted to alphas sexually. But as a very masculine guy with confidence in my work / social life I don’t see myself as a beta at all - more like a “cooperative alpha”. Definitely get off on winning in competition and games and will do what it takes to get there.

On the same token I love having an outlet for being a total whore cumdump for the men that enjoy it. I just love men, their dicks, and servicing them with my pussy and honored to be filled with their loads.

How many loads did you all take during Folsom?

Didnt go so crazy as I was feeling off first two nights, then a super slut.

Got around 12 loads Sunday before and during C&C, great fun, and flooded ass with cum.

It’s so annoying as I love random toilet fucks and other piggy stuff like that and the position of choice is then from behind like that.

The dildo strategy seems legit but wondering if I am missing any other tricks to combat this?

I have a question for anyone bottoming...

I have been getting fucked more again lately after a longer lull in my sex life. (from focusing on other things in life)

But its a consistent problem for me when getting fucked in doggystyle, or from behind like that, that a top with an 8 inch cock (20cm) or more will always "hit the wall" bottom out in my ass and it really hurts when they jackhammer the wall of my ass instead of into my hole.

If I switch to lying on my stomach ass up, or take it lying on my back the hole is deep and there are no issues.

I am wondering if anyone else has a similar experience and if they do if it is possible to do anything to take cock easier in doggy and these other positions where it is more difficult?

1. Insecurities and judgements in the bedroom you've gotten past.

Being a hairy guy, very hairy. After embracing it guys in fact tend to find me sexier.

2. Imperfections in a partner that don't bother you

Any shape and size of cock and guy. Dont want a guy to be super obese, but anything within reason I find sexy if the guy is confident in himself.

I will be again this year. Renting a room with a top friend.

Not sure if doing Fickstutenmarkt or some other party Saturday night otherwise seems like the same gig is up as with others: Biohazard Friday and Coffe and Cream Sunday.

Want to also have some spontaneous fun, daytime fun etc. so trying not to focus all my attention on these parties.

When is the fickstutenmarkt?
What was your experience from it and have you been both top/bottom?

Please open it again

Hot hot writing... please bring us more!

18 hours ago, Thickmascguy said:

Very excited now that's its getting closer, im all booked and ready to go. Anybody else gunna be at lab on thur ? 

Yep I think that's the plan! A nice start to a few days of debauchery! 

23 hours ago, topstud127 said:

Thank you. And yes, the best advice when you're going deep or having trouble, just take a break and let your body sort itself out. Not the healthiest for regular use, but in a bathhouse or long night situation, I do recommend just doing an enema, especially if cleaning doesn't gel with your normal bathroom schedule.

Typically, rinsing the rectum will take care of any immediate matter thats waiting to come out but lets say an 8 inch dick, someone thats really gonna plow you and fill the entirety of your rectum, how many ounces of water would you say and what if they hit that second hole?

To be safe I go on the assumption they're always going to hit second hole. So it means you need to rinse out well ahaed of time and then exercise or move around to get the last water and dirt out. Then rinse real quick with less water and you're good to go

11 hours ago, topstud127 said:

I have a a question, please answer as specifically as you can... how do you know when you have the perfect amount of water inside you? Not too little to make dick dicking a problem and not too much that you start to bring down extra stuff and get murky water.

It boggles my mind that I can do a 4 ounce saline enema and be sparkling clean for a day yet 7 ounces in a bulb is hit and miss, and with the shower hose, its completely guessing with trial and error. Makes my douching inconsistent and take longer than it needs to. I need a sure fire way to know how much water I need and I'm getting.

In my experience this is unfortunately how it is. Your constitution, diet and other things affect how effectively things move through you so sometimes you stay clean for long and sometimes you don't. I've gotten much better at "feeling" when I'm completely empty so when I deep clean I know that it usually takes about 45min-1hour for the bowels to really empty everything (like you say, no dirty water left).

If you stay clean for a day with a 4 ounce saline it's because you emptied well last time and lets say "the next one" is denser and taking longer to move through you, it actually had nothing to do with your own cleaning routine. If you do decide to deep clean (which means anything more than 4-6 ounces, preferably a liter or so) I would recommend doing it first once, then do some activity or movement to help move things along, and then clean out 2-3 times more after 45min-1 hour. With deep cleaning it always takes time to come out, and all movement helps, so just filling and emptying will tear on your ass too much before you're even ready to play.

4 hours ago, barebackhu said:

Hi, young, athletic partnered bottom here. Will be in Paris from 29 till 03 August in Paris without my bf. Tired if playing the perfect husband. Want to take as many loads during my stay in Paris as possible. I'll let anyone fuck and seed my neg cheating hole, no age or race preference. Hit me up if interested or pleaase recommend me venues where I could get fucked bareback by anonym tops. 

Good luck and I hope you will have a fun piggy time being a cum dump!

8 hours ago, soultaxonomy said:

I just learned that I'll just happen to be in Berlin for Folsom Europe... 7th-15th. Staying at Hotel Riu Plaza. If anyone is interested in meeting up, feel free to PM me :).

Definitely looking forward to it

Haha nice! The Riu is also very close to the action... What are you wanting to do then for Folsom?

Alright! Time is getting near! Who else is excited for the non-stop fuck fest?

Damn that sounds hot. Never tried escorting but would do it for a lot of money lol. I would more be the presentable business partner by day and fuck slut by night. 

Thanks for the comments and reactions guys!

3 hours ago, cheatingjock said:

Sounds like you don’t struggle...but enjoy cheating like me!

Lol true. I have this kind of personality where I love to please people and be flexible. This leads me to kinda quickly go back into relationships even when I don't really want it. Every time I've had a new relationship it happened because a fuck bud became infatuated and then I was like oh-kaaaaayyy. So from there is the struggle... is that after that happened I've been like "ok now I can be a good boy".... NOT!

At this point I don't know if it's the cheating I enjoy or that I just need to have sex with many men and take loads in my ass. I think the latter to be honest, because it turns me on to be in a relationship with a guy that is just as slutty as I am and then we could both play together and separate, without the jealousy factor

So like many others on here I struggle with monogamous relationships. I can handle it just fine for about 6-9 months and then it's like the floodgates are opened and the urge to have sex with other men cannot be curbed longer. I have this relationship now I've been in for a bit over a year and the past 3 months have just been overfilled with sex with others.

I have a really slutty Grindr profile that just encourages guys to contact me for sex and since I have "neg on prep" most guys can be convinced to go BB after I have convinced them that I don't fuck that many guys BB (yeah right... total lie lol).

This summer has been some kind of a record for me as I've had some low activity at work (freelance) and my libido has been ever present. The pride week in particular was nuts. The BF was going to see his friends so I had some hours to spare. I contacted first a couple I know who were in town since we had intended to meet up for sex. We weren't sure we would have chemistry so we had drinks near my house with the option to fuck after. Suffice to say we were all horny from the first moment and went home quickly. They are both tops so we started out with some sucking each other followed by a nice spit roasting session where one came in my mouth which I fed in a cum kiss to his man that then came violently in my ass.

They left and a regular fuck buddy had contacted me and asked to come over. He gets really into the slutty son / breeding dad play so I was excited. He was an hour away so I was killing time on Grindr when a faceless Grindr profile contacts me from 200m away. Turns out he's a discreet top that needed to dump a load so I told him to come immediately if he didn't mind a quick one. He came over was a nice young guy who is into trained hairy ass (like mine). Was super turned on by my cum filled hole and bred me deep after about 10 min of fucking. Thanked me and left.

10 min later my "sir" came and found my wet hole with his fingers. He prefers to be the first to mark my ass so he punished my for being a slutty boy but understood and fucked me good and sloppy for about 30 minutes before planting his load deep in my ass. I snapped some of it with my fingers as my well used hole was leaking cum and ass juices.

He left and my BF came home about 45 min later. He was horny as fuck so wanted to fuck and breed my ass. I of course obliged though he was really churning the cream at that point and there were big globs of cum pooling on his dick (I noticed when I looked back). I said it was because I had used a lot of boybutter (the lube). Though it was pretty obviously cum and he was really into how sloppy my hole was.

Next: my weekend getaway with a crush online... (while bf visiting his family).

Woof. PM me your whatsapp # if you'd like and we can stay in touch in Berlin then

On 7/25/2017 at 4:34 PM, London7 said:

I'm planing to go on 4th or 5th, goin on my own. 

Cool London7. Maybe we can finish the nights by breeding each others cum filled holes