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  1. I can only speak for myself.  When I read fiction, I want someone to open the door to a world unlike the one where I actually reside.  I want to experience something by reading that I most likely would not experience in real life.  Personally, I don't care about cock size, but some of the more extreme activities in the fiction stories are what keep me checking for new stories and new chapters.

     

    Of course, all perspectives are valid.  I've read many stories that cause me to think, "Boring."  I just make a mental note to avoid that thread in the future.

  2. Please stop counting.  It isn't relevant.  The only thing that is important is when you don't smoke.  Smoke one day.  Don't smoke two days.  Smoke one more day.  Don't smoke three days.  All you should care about is reducing the amount you are smoking.  Not smoking a certain number of days in a row isn't important.  Just reducing what your smoke is what is important.  You are creating artificial stress in your life that will lead to wanting to smoke.  You are a human being, and eventually you will quit, but you may smoke, and then you will quit again, and all that matter is when you didn't smoke.  Whatever you do is OK.

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  3. As someone with a smoking fetish, I love to see handsome men smoke.  However, as someone who also values health, I have quit smoking several times.  My longest was 18 months.  The whole point of quitting is to reduce the intake of toxins.  Tiger, you quit for 10 months.  You relapsed for a couple of days.  Please, I beg of you, to celebrate the ten months you were toxin free.  Your days of relapse are nothing to concern you.  The length of time of non-smoking doesn't matter.  The only thing that matters is remaining toxin free, and you have done a great job.  You'll quit again, and that is great.  Please don't think you "blew" anything.  You enhanced your health for ten months, and you will continue to enhance your health sometime in the future, maybe tomorrow, or the next day, or whenever.  Don't be disgusted with yourself.  You're a human being, and you are imperfect like the rest of us, and you will work to make your life better.  Be kind to yourself.

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  4. Years ago, when I first started using poppers, and using them heavily, I had a very unfortunate side effect.  I was not aware of just how caustic they were/are.  I was apparently sloppy with my huffing, and must have gotten some of the liquid on my nostril rim.  Very obvious, and slightly uncomfortable scabs appeared.  They healed quickly (like within a week), but they were so obvious that they attracted the attention of coworkers.  I explained them as cold sores.  I've learned to be more careful since then.

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  5. The technical term for him is "narcissist."  Google the word, and check the diagnostic tools for the disorder, and I'll bet you'll have an answer.  They are difficult to deal with, and you can never please them.  Unless he seeks professional help, there is no hope.  He is not a boyfriend; he is an abuser.

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  6. First, I don't think you are fucked up, Endymion.  Second, it sounds, based on your writing, that you've sorted this out fairly well for yourself, and it's only the reactions of others that are causing you to question yourself.  Third, if I may be so bold, I think your dating problems may boil down to the simple issue of "over-sharing."  You really don't need to go into great detail about your sexual history.  Come up with a very vague response to that question, something like, "Oh, I've had a variety of experiences, but nothing out of the ordinary," and that should be sufficient.  If a relationship develops, THEN you can decide if you want to share more specifics, after you know each other better.  

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  7. When I spoke to my doc about getting on PrEP, I just said that I wanted additional protection from HIV.  He didn't ask any questions, and in fact, praised me for being proactive.  Of course, I'm still waiting for his "back door" techniques for getting actual insurance coverage to get the meds to me.  The bottom line is that there is never a need to lie, and there is rarely a need for full disclosure of one's sex life unless there are actual health consequences.

  8. Get on the ACA (aka Obamacare) ASAP, and get your doctor to then prescribe Prep or just Truvada.  I had this discussion with my doctor on Wednesday, and my pharmacy confirmed today that my insurance will pay 100% of the cost, versus the $1500 uninsured cost.

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