Rayne, your post was quite a good read.
OP, I would honestly have to say no, you might not think about it now - but what about having a monogamous partner and perhaps settling down to have kids of your own? Sure you can adopt, but what about producing your own flesh and blood?
I can understand if none of these are appealing to you, but having a virus is no gift, no matter what people say... Yes being 'poz' means you can fuck/ed without the worry of catching HIV, because you already have it, but I don't see the real benefit to it overall.
Guys will play this because its a 'taboo' and that makes the sex more intense/satisfying, but after that's all finished for the day , you go home and think "was it really all worth it?"
The end of the day , it's your life and what the majority of people say should only be an insight, not "forcing you" to do X outcome instead of Y. etc etc
Just my 2 cents.