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  1. I'm lucky in that the ID doctor I see did order my blood work for about two weeks out from my last appointment so that we could discuss it at my 3 month check up. Same thing for my November follow-up.

    Too often people forget that when it comes to being a patient - you are a customer. Asking questions and letting your physician know what you want are vital to receiving the quality care you pay for.

    You can always ask your physician to place the order for these tests so that you can make the most out of your follow-up visits.

  2. This is a pet peeve (i'm sometimes easily peeved). Why don't more physicians order the labs to be drawn at least a week prior so there are results to discuss at your visit?

    Smoking - I do and it's terribly hard to quit. I have had success in the past by using the Nicotrol inhaler. I have it now but just need to take the leap and use it. The prescription is expensive. You get a little inhaler that you fill with nicotine cartridges and puff on when you feel the urge for a cig (or I guess "a fag" for your Brits). Even if you stay on Nicotrol for an extended period - it's certainly cheaper than cigarettes.

    When you quit - resist the urge to "have just one" after you've been tobacco free for 6 months - that has always been my downfall.

    I was planning to blog about another item - what is with the new fad of "smokin" porn (at least it appears to be new to me).

    The old saying "Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray.

  3. A Top, a Daddy, a Master, and an Owner are not always one and the same, although there are some who may be accurately described with each of these terms.

    "Handsome" may be nice, but really has little to do with his qualifications. In the right one, you are likely to find that you worship the ground he walks upon, and do what you can to prove your worthiness.

    And...the appropriate response here is "Thank you, Sir."

  4. That's all true Chub, but gay men are notoriously promiscuous - of course, not all, but many of us are kids in a candy store.

    How often do you see included on the "social media" sites (a4a, BBRT, etc.) that the person is seeking "friends only" Um, yeah - right, I always want to see pictures of my friend's rosebuds.

    I'm not saying that someone should hurt another by breaking "vows," but finding a monogamous cherished soulmate is really not very likely through these outlets - almost assuredly not through one called the "Breedingzone." It *could* happen, but I think it unlikely.

  5. "Cheating" is a very catch all term and really meaningless unless you look at what it means to each individual.

    Is it emotional cheating (in a relationship, but having emotional attachment to other(s) or physically cheating by screwing every warm body possible.

    Is one acceptable, the other not?

    Does "the wronged" know? (or do they choose to look the other way)

    Is it a one-time "indiscretion," a long-standing affair, or did you fall in love with a slut?

    Judgments aren't going to change behavior

  6. I'm a super verbal bttm. Love to moan like a bitch and talk dirty, but I've met quite a few tops who don't like me to talk at all. Some even say "SHUTUP" but it's hard to be completely quiet when being fucked hard by a huge dick. Are there any tops on here who outright HATE the bottom saying anything at all?

    I would rather his mouth be kept full of dick, but do not mind him talking. In fact, I will engage him in a conversational manner that doesn't necessarily prevent him from verbalizing his enjoyment. If he becomes demanding, I'm done.

    If he has the hottest or tightest ass i've ever entered, i'll tell him - he doesn't need/should not ask.

    Moaning/groaning/etc is fine as long as it does not seem like overly dramatic acting or forced, and as long as it's not so loud that the neighbors are going to call the police.

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  7. Sometimes I like a slut taking loads in an attempt to set a Guinness or personal record, but for me those loads really need to be taken within somewhat a recent time period.

    Have you played with one of these sluts to find that they have percolated just too damn long and are just smelling foul and rancid?

    How do you deal with it? Vomit? Reach for Febreze? Hold your nose, dump and run?

    There is one playmate that I had regularly several years ago - still hits on me for donation to his collection, but at my last visit "Something was rotten in Denmark" and i don't feel the urge to return.

  8. A looooong time ago, I went to my first gay bar - very nervous. I met a couple there (maile/female) - being just very naive, I assumed they were gay since they were in a gay bar.

    They gave me their number and asked me to give them a call (I was assuming I would be calling him). They were from a town not too far away from me, and one where a university I was considering was located. So I decided to go and check the university out and could visit them.

    I got there and called - got her. They had an apartment I would later discover they kept to meet up in. I was shocked to learn that they were bi and that I was dessert. I had never had sex with a female before and really don't recall much about it (and don't want to think too much on it..)but, she did all the work and then he joined in. The interaction between he and I was really limited to doubling on her. They asked that I call when I got settled into the university.

    Fast forward a couple of months...I moved into the dorm and gave them a call with no intentions of a repeat (I, after all was NOT bi). Talked for a little while, went on about business. A day or two later, I got a call from him asking that I meet him at the apartment, which was very near the dorm.

    I did and he wanted to spend the night with me. I found him to be very attractive so I jumped at the chance, not at all knowing what to expect.

    I don't remember what all we did but I vividly remember that he had resolved that he wanted to blow me - to completion - and swallow. When it was time I asked if he was certain this was his desire and he confirmed.

    He promptly rushed to the bath and puked.

    He did get over it and I saw him a few more times in the 3 or 4 years I was in town. I also met up with them as a pair one other time - and I was very drunk.

  9. I"m much more willing to adapt to a situation than to a person.

    A bottom with bad breath can be remedied with a mint, listerine or just kept munching on ass.

    A bottom with a bad attitude - judge whether he's of sufficient value to train. If yes, adjust his "outlook." If no, replace it.

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