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It was 1990 and I was seeing a guy but we didn't live together (he was in the middle of leaving his partner in a very ugly split). I had a roommate that was a bathhouse whore. Followed his guidance and went to the bathhouse on weekend when I was unable to see my guy (never told him). Years later when we were actually living together we went to the baths together every chance we got. At that time, having just split from a partner with AIDS, i would never have knowingly even considered playing with someone that was poz.

The one attendant and I got to be close and were attracted to each other and we spent down time talking and playing a video game. When his shift was over he came by the open door to my room and was quite welcome to come in. It wasn't our first session. We enjoyed playing together - our cocks were pretty much equal in size and both of us were versatile.

I would BB guys but did not cum in them and would allow them to BB me with the same expectation. The attendant would switch off fucks and that night/early morning ended with him fucking me. We were resting for a bit until my room time was up, i'd go home and see him the next weekend.

I checked out (he was able to just stay in the room since he worked there and would be on duty again in a couple of hours cleaning the facility). I went home to discover Dean's creamy jizz leaking from my ass. I panicked and started douching frantically and told myself things would be ok.

Years later, when i was diagnosed, i thought back and realized that Dean had bred me - although perhaps unintentially. Reflecting on my status, and the circumstances under which it happened, I was glad it was Dean. Our sex was amazing and we had a deep connection to each other in that moment.

The Fuck Flu - yeah, i had it. And from the same bath house i would also later have gonorrhea and Hepatitis A from rimming the hottest guy in the place for hours one night.

I saw Dean working at a big box store about 5 or 6 years ago. I'm not sure if he recognized me. I considered going back to ask him for a recharge.

But i would appreciate if you (or someone) would suck them back out.

Obsessive,

With an ass that clean, I'd gladly inject my fuck-flu swimmers into your guthole.

Oink!

Well....if you really must!

Was this you?

Did it define your sexual position?

What happened when a bigger boy came in?

Even though i don't get the opportunity to perform in each role an equal number of times, at my core I feel that equally bottom and top.

If i'm attracted to a top, i'm a bottom. If i'm attacted to a bottom, i'm a top. If i'm attracted to a versatile, it's hard to say what all we're going to get into.

I wonder if it is the more top-ish of us versatile guys that are concerned with being clean to the point of polished?

If i suspect i'll be majorly on the receiving end - i'll spend a couple hours cleaning out with at minimum 3 water bottles filled to bulging until running clear.

Call me obsessive

A few years ago a guy I was chatting with online was telling me how much he desired piss play and we arranged to meet when he got to town.

For two weeks, i visited several busy and sometimes cruisy restrooms on campus with a jock strap in my pocket. I used it to wipe the front of each urinal and toilet, looking especially for the ones with dried yellow stripes down the front. The crystalized piss smelled sweetly strong.

He loved the trophy I presented him with following our session.

For me, drinking came naturally, but some guys have piss that could strip paint

A partner has to be piss-attractive to me (a quality I can't really define). It's not something I do frequently.

First time, I was high, it was big load of beer piss, and fresh from the tap with me gulping as fast as it flowed so it was definitely a natural instinct.

If my partner has "the quality" i'll drink it whether clear or gold. Prefer it from the tap.

One playmate and I were at a local bar, each swigging on bottles of the other's piss that we kept refilling. We left that bar and went to another - same thing. It was his idea, and was pissloads of fun!

If he had handed me that warm bottle, nothing, no one, no how, would have been able to keep me from looking him in the face and proudly showing him I was honored to down every drop.

That sorta begs the question of how long ago was it? ]

I resemble that remark.

It was 1983, I was 20, I had met a guy at the bus station that had just gotten out of prison (no, really!) His name was Tommy. He was a nice guy and we saw each other for a few months (until I moved away). I was extremely inexperienced and naive. We didn't have anywhere we could play so we would go out into some wooded area and play on a blanket. He fucked me while i was on my back with my legs on his shoulders. I didn't know that I needed lube - all we had was spit - I bled. He didn't have a huge tool but there wasn't any problem after he lubed my ass with his cum.

And a shirt rubbing against sore nipples keeps you popping wood the next day

On the other hand, if i'm working a partner's nips, i can be very gentle or intense - depending on his needs as i see them from his reaction. He has to trust that I know what I'm doing.

I prefer them chewed, bitten, pinched and twisted or clamped. Sucking is great when they're sensitve and sore. Would definitely choose a nip biter over a nip sucker/licker. A sucker/licker to me says they're not paying attention to my cock jumping with the stimulation.

I don't know how to describe exactly how it makes me feel. I guess I could say it sorta gives me a tingle or similar sensation in my cock and balls. It gets me hard and keeps me that way.

If i'm breeding a boy on his back and his fingers (if he can't reach with his teeth) are on my nipples, he can often adjust the intensity of his fucking through my nipples.

One guy I used to play with at Flex (Columbus-now closed) wanted me to piss in his ass. It's not something i'm opposed to, but not something i've done a lot. Has to be right or ain't happening...

He was face down, I bred his hole and then lay on top and slowly filled him with my piss. I popped back by his room later in the evening and he said "what the hell, i am so fucked up from your piss man."

I've never done any of the "letter drugs" (or anything hardcore for that matter) so could only have been my Sustiva.

Love understall - had many, many experiences. Don't know of any good local places for it now - if i did, i'd be there tappin my foot and writing notes to each other on toilet paper.

Focus on worshiping the cock and cum and you'll feel it.

Swallow or take deepthroat and have it pumped right down my throat.

Getting so very bored with the blindfolded, on all fours, ass in the air scene.

Was novel at one time but everyone has done it. I'm often left to wonder: do I say anything? do I get any deep throat action to get me going? what about flipping him to a different position? why is the only thing i notice here a picture of his mother on the nightstand?

Like RTP said above, the top isn't an appliance, and neither are all tops or bottoms are created equal. If there is chemistry that makes the bottom attractive to you in the first place, then the bottom should be able to find some way to arouse you (barring any physical impedance or lack of interest on your own part).

Played with a guy from the neighborhood I met online (BBRT). Played in a nearby garage that I have access to which has an abandoned pickup inside. The session started a bit awkwardly but heated up as we started to experiment. Ended up with him on his back on the floor of the garage next to the truck.

We were into a groove and without a word (other than a little heavier breathing) I released a first, then a second smalll load into him. Feels great when I do that.

Got really hot when i let the orgasm take over while telling him i'd already cum twice in his hot hole.

We're working on hooking up same place...next week...and going to try to do some photos and video.

BTW - The smell and taste of Musk will turn me into a rutting pig.

Funk? Aint nobody got time for that.

If i'm not eating it, i'm not fucking it either.

Just want to give my own perspectives on some (not all) of these well thought out peeves!

Let's see... Things that piss me off...

Bottoms who flake out at the last minute. Especially when I they wasted time I could have spent finding another bottom. Yes

Getting shit on my dick. Especially when it's a lot of shit. If it's a very small amount it's sorta understandable. Yes

Asses that smell dirty. "Musky" is sorta OK - though I won't do much rimming when you're musky. For me, true "Musk" is a scent and taste all it's own - sweet and sweaty - not dirty. A bottom presenting "Musk" for me had better learn the difference between musk and funk.

Aggressive bottoms who tell me how to fuck them...I call this a mouthy bottom and it's a creature I'll walk out on or send packing right quick. It includes the ones that I want to bitch slap in the kisser. Since i'm not what one would consider to necessarily be a bitch slapper, it's not a good thing and not enjoyable.

It aint working - if it isn't the right chemistry....or isn't the right chemistry "right now" I will not endure a situation that is not enjoyable. Never have I said "I find you repulsive and utterly disgusting so get the fuck out." I will simply say that it isn't going to work. Does that make me a cad? Don't make it out to be some offense that it wasn't.

Bottoms who are so tweaked that they're easily distracted. THE WORST - I will rarely enter into serious negotiations for play with someone that says they PNP because this seems to be so widespread. They want to spend all of their time on the internet trying to take on the multitudes instead of concentrating on who they are with at the time.

Bottoms who get upset with me for not remembering who they are when I can't a) make out their microscopic picture, they have a generic screename like "Bottom" c) it's been months since we chatted.

Bad breath. Sorry, this is not *minor* offense to me, nor is asphyxiating me with cologne or the taste of deodorant in an otherwise enjoyable pit.

Femmy guys. If you're femmy just be relatively quiet - it'll make you seem less femmy. See "It aint working" above!

This was fun - LOL

I would think at least part of it is biological - when you cum your sphincter is contracting with each burst so just needs a recovery period? I love to stay still inside while a bottom is cumming so i can feel each pulse. Same when I cum, if he just stays put he will feel me pulse inside and he can count the shots

Personally, i'm not a jackhammer fucker and I like to receive the same as I like to give.

If a bottom cums while I'm fucking him, I would prefer that he just stop(.) - allow me to stay inside. His previous fuckings probably haven't left him to feel he can have trust that I won't move (and hurt him). I just want to enjoy the feeling of being deep inside him. As he relaxes we can pick up fucking again.

Same when i've shot into him (whether he's cum or not) - i'll go deep as possible and want to stay there while my cum continues to flow into him. I want to leave every drop in him. If we lay still, and i slowly soften, his hole should tighten around me.

If we remain in this position, when he/we are up for more motion, i'll start to get hard again and we can do it all over.

If fucking is not comfortable for him, it's not comfortable for me.

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