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  1. What I'm suggesting would literally take a page from FB in that the section would update with feeds from those you've added as friends (rather than everyone) and also include feeds from thread discussions that you've participated in (aka "like") with the option to disable the feed when you're no longer wanting to follow it.

    FB's "like" feature is two-fold in that people like (or appreciate) something (or I think you might use the term I posted elsewhere "Got Wood" :grin:) the other function of "like" is that it is how you indicate that you wish to follow a topic or thread.

    Of course, I don't know your own exposure but I may a different perspective on this because I use FB extensively in my professional life.

    I think the ability of a "status update" (or some such) would help to strengthen "the brotherhood" by encouraging social interaction beyond breeding stories (don't get me wrong - they're great!). I might include a status that "wow, just toxified a really hot pig" or to share other information/ruminations that don't fit into the blog, threads, groups or forums (AND that I only want to share with my "friends").

    It probably does need to include an option for your friends with an option to "follow" (or not). Someone might decide whether to follow (or not) your updates because they're interesting, fun, quirky - fucking nuts...whatever.

  2. Without getting into too much on suggestions at the moment, I'll like to say that I would appreciate some kind of hybrid system - the part that seems to be missing is a social media feel (ala Facebook) that allows for a status update and things that feed to a timeline-esque activity feed.

    Just my $0.02...so adjusting for inflation that's not much.

  3. I'm fully versatile, but fuck at least 5 guys for every guy I get to fuck me.

    I'd be happier with that ratio!

    I've also found that having a flip fuck....sometimes turns off total bottoms to the point they won't let you fuck him that night. Surprisingly this is especially true in cities with the worst imbalances of bottoms to tops/versatile guys.

    How do these bottoms think we became poz unless we at some point took a toxic cock in our ass?

    My experience may be different from yours, since if I'm in a group I always want to both fuck and be fucked. Because of my size I can almost always find willing bottoms.

    In an ideal situation, yeah I would want that also. No bottom shortage here - can actually be quite selective :cool:

    I'm usually the biggest dick in the room, both length and girth. No complaints here. Annoying when I want to bottom and as soon as the "top" sees my cock, i'm expected to top. I DO love topping but not all the time and sometimes I just want to be a pig bottom.

    Exactly - there shouldn't be any reason we all can't have maximum enjoyment

  4. I'm reminded of the signs that they used to have posted at our local adult bookstores (when they were cruizy, sleazy and fun)...."Do not enter this establishment if you are offended by frank expressions of human sexuality."

    At least one of the "theatres" (actually an old convenience store and the theatre was a storage room filled with folding chairs) always showed straight porn with bitches moaning and screaming.....never stopped the gays (the majority) of getting it on with each other or any straight/bis that were in there. I recall one female coming in with a wrap-around skirt, opening it up and getting fucked in the front row--I noticed but was otherwise occupied.

    I would say that (if possible) an option to allow anyone that doesn't want to see the hetero stuff doesn't have to would be great.

  5. I'm with you there, samshadowxxx. I do wish people would practice their technique on themselves first then they'd know how to do things gently and know how uncomfortable it feels when done badly. I prefer to tongue a hole rather than finger it. The only reason I do it is to reach their prostate to massage it if I'm not into fucking the guy but he wants some ass play beyond rimming.

    I'll first circle his hole with my well lubed finger and gentle tease it pressing with the fleshy bottom of the finger dragging across to slowly stretch the side open a little, then I'll keep the downward pressure to keep the trimmed nail side from pressing anywhere, slowly see-sawing and soon my finger is inside. Slowly pressing at each side of the ring loosening up then stretching open enough to work a second one in and work it slowly round to get my fingers to his prostate and then gently rub across while working his cock. They usually like it, but once they've cum it's not so easy to ease the fingers out again once they clam up apart from extremely slowly. So yes, I reckon it's best overall to stick to dildoes and tongues and stiff cocks if possible.

    Sounds very similar to my technique - generally i'd be doing it in advance of replacing fingers with my cock (unless I were to be working toward fist). And there's nothing in the manual prohibiting some simultaneous tongue action. If i've excited boy to the point he cums?...well, so be it...he can either have a rest period to recover or be on his way and I'll invite a replacement.

  6. I have something against being bombarded with constant advertisements on this website. Now, to reiterate, I have no problem with it; I only have a problem with it being everywhere on this site.

    This post is too long for me to digest right now (i'll have to revisit later) but being a part of this site for less than a week, I'd like to say that I was pleasantly surprised that I was not bombarded with advertising the way some of the sites I do (or did) subscribe to (and pay for) ...a4a, bbrt, xtube, mh

    I'm still getting my bearings with how the system setup works, but so far I like it. I do think there are enhancements that could be made that would make it more enjoyable for everyone. I found a thread where I'll post my suggestions after i've had a chance to catch up on all of the related posts https://breeding.zone/threads/2575-List-Your-Site-Suggestions-Here

    Thank you - rawTOP and all other site moderators - for the work you do:clap: I know it is not easy and can be thankless!

  7. A finger with trimmed nail up to the first joint just to make sure I am opened and lubed is ok. Deep aggressive fingering is a pain.

    This is my intention in the activity, so maybe that's why I haven't seen a high level of objection.

    an appreciative fingering to check how slutty my gaping hole is. ;)

    I do enjoy doing that.

  8. I generally don't tell my tops that I'm not into it, or ask them to stop.

    Finding something else that is more enjoyable and guiding it there is definitely a better approach than focusing on something unpleasant which could spoil an experience.

    But most of the time I'll just endure it

    Have to snicker at that, although i would prefer that my bottom enjoy, rather than "endure" anything ;)

  9. This is good information to have. I can only think of one playmate that objected to fingering. Maybe the others were more experienced in the fisting arena? Fisting is not a favorite but is something I've learned to do for those that are really into it. In order to FF though, I really have to be into the bottom.

    Maybe there's something to say for technique? I don't just go poking/jabbing around with a digit, i go slowly, use plenty of lube and always keep my nails trimmed short. Will usually end up with two, possibly three and slowly massage the sphincter.

    It's something I'll definitely keep in mind that some may not like it.

  10. I've done a bit of play on camera, always turned on by it. If someone had a secret camera set up, i would want to find out about it after it was all over and would want to be given a copy or told where it was going to be posted. If it were being live streamed, I would expect that i be aware ahead of time. If i was to be blurred or edited/cropped, i'd at least want to know it was out there.

    I opened my eyes once, and saw one of the guys recording the whole room's action on his cellphone. I was too high and busy to ask him to stop or at least ask him to give me a copy of the film.

    This would just piss me off - "how about bringing that phone over here so I can shove it up your cunt you rude piece of shit.."

  11. Personally, if i'm at a club and there's a hot bottom in a sling for use, i want something a little more interesting that just to be its fuckstick.

    Who's being used for satisfaction here?

    Now, if i found him wearing one of those chastity devices, he had an interesting piercing, nipple rings, etc. that would provide me with a little added entertainment. I like to admire a nice boy, exploring him, unwrapping him - so a jock is just going to invite me to see what is underneath.

    I'm pretty confident in my oral skills so I'd have you blowing your wad before your cock even reached the back of my throat - leaving me perhaps amused but still a bit disappointed and i'd be on to the next one. And sometimes I like to just sample all the available merchandise so may leave and return for more later.

    If you really want to improve your ability to please a top, work on your ability to hold back - don't really know how I learned to do that but have always been able to do it by instinct. Practice "edging"

  12. I guess what i was meaning was more along the lines of if i (or other big dick guy) were in a group (of 2 or 20) - regardless of what I (or BDG) really wanted (such as to be the bottom on a given day) somebody would be trying to stuff their hole with the big dick.

    So largely relegated to position based on size. But, in any case, we adapt.

    Just offering a perspective that may sometimes be overlooked.

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