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PEP is different than PrEP.

PEP is post exposure and prep is pre exposure. pep is basically the morning after pill for hiv (though of course more than one simple pill) so the does are higher and there are several different meds that are prescribed as pep. 

PrEP is pre exposure. It is a this point only Truvada, and is a lower dose and one pill per day. Takes a few days (I've herd from 3 days to 2 weeks..my doctor recommended two weeks to be safe (lol) though I think most say a week) to build up in your system. After this as long as you keep taking regularly your risk for HIV is drastically reduced.

At a small pool party. Guy started slipping in bare and I went with it...then got fucked by the other guys there bare after. Haven't used a condom since.

So I've always heard that when a guy first comes out (or moves away to college) he goes through a slut phase where he basically fucks/gets fucked by anyone w a dick. I had that in high school and college and settled down a lot (not a prude just not so much so often)

But since I've started playing bare and prep, i seems like i'm having a second even more intense slut phase. Or maybe not a phase but who I am? 

Has anyone else had this either when you decided to go bare only and/or started prep?

I love having a variety of colors and brands like Andrew Christian (lots of colors and diff designed...some i don't like so I love though they aren't really so supportive or durable), Timoteo, 2xist, cin2, and others. really like some of the Addicted and ES stuff though pricey. 

I like classic white or black too...white to appear more tan, black to appear more slutty (at least in my mind).

My two favs right now though are CellBlock (which is made by Timoteo but is a bit more dark/fetishish/harry vs swimmer) and Pump...love the name, colorful, and very well made.

So do you find it a turnoff if a guy is upfront and ready for sex/eager or is it better if he acts less interested/standoffish/has other options?

I guess this might vary by top/bottom and also if you are wanting some kind of relationship or just a one off fuck.

I tend to just be...you're hot...you're hung...i need fucked...let's go and i've had some guys say they like the chance more. So what are your thoughts?

my dr when I had the original said that they vaccinate girls but don't usually boys...and even then they try to do younger. the reasoning is that hpv is so common that by the time you have been sexually active you likely are carrying hpv.

However, he said there was no real reason to not give to people who are concerned since it won't do any harm if you already are infected, and you might only have one or two of the original covered types so you would gain protection from the others. He also said part of it was the medical cost/insurance doesn't want to cover after a certain age for those reasons. But he was fine with prescribing it and administering even though I was 24 (I think the standard cut off is 21? though i've heard 25 also) and said he would prescribe for anyone who wanted even though it would be private pay since insurance probably wouldn't cover it. Involved three shots over a few weeks if i remember correctly. 

So I'm guessing this will be the same.  Appt w doctor soon for prep checkup so i'll talk to him about this.

22 and a virgin? How have you not hopped on a ridden a dick yet?! That's some self-control!

Oh, answer is yet. You can try. Practice makes perfect...and part of the fun is in the challenge.

this has happened several times to me. due to my insomnia i have ambien and lunesta prescriptions. the ambien is controlled release to knocks you out and keeps you asleep. The thing is you can sometimes sleep walk/talk/sex and not really be awake or remember anything the next morning. so i have been fucked while i've been unconscious, but i've also actively participated even though i'm not really conscious and don't remember the next day.

Apparently when i'm sleep sexing i'm more demanding/dirty/rougher...so that's always fun. usually wake up after those times with a soar leaking ass, bruises, a sore throat, rug burn, and swollen lips lol. 

so this sound like something we should have prescribed/administered even if we have already had the older version? I'm assuming that would be ok? I'll need to talk to my doctor about this. Thanks for the info!

i didn't have dreams but then i've had insomnia for years so basically sleep on ambian / lunesta or not at all (and try not to take all the time...only when i haven't slept for too long)

only those that have fucked me recently except for really close friends. most of my close friends admit to bb at least sometimes, and a few have started or plan to start prep

Well i've only been on for five months, but can address some of your questions. I had slight stomach issues for the first few days and a headache (may not have been related since I do get headaches pretty frequently and other meds also cause them). After that nothing noticeable. 

I have been going raw with more people - only fucked bare with bf before (actually only fucked with bf before...)

Had my three month checkup and was clear. Also tested for other STI (been every month since I've been fucking around) and surprisingly haven't caught anything - fingers crossed.

So so far has been great...basically all the fun without the worry. 

Had a business dinner tonight (well boss did but I was along to take notes/etc...the etc coming later

Client from out of town was there. Mid 40s older guy...kinda coach type hot. Had wedding ring and was talking about his wife/kids etc so didn't really think anything of it...basically eye candy and didn't expect anything else until after with boss.

When we got in car to go home, boss mentioned that I gave good head...which kinda embarrassed me since I wasn't expecting this. Told me to show him and I looked over and he just nodded. Pulled out his dick, which wasn't really all that long but very thick. Didn't really get to finish since driver got us to hotel really quick. As we were getting out, driver had a smirk on his face so pretty sure he saw everything.

Went up to his hotel room and boss and he ended up fucking me while I sucked the other, then tried to DP me but client was just too thick. Did get two loads up me though, then dropped off at home after. Had to run and take a shower so bf didn't smell the sex when he got home.

Pretty sure I sealed the deal though

So a few guys have said to wear a cockring with my swimwear to fill things out/make bulge more apparent. I've used cockrings a few times, but since I'm a bottom I never really thought it was a big deal for me (though i do love tops in them, either just for looks or to fuck).

So is this a typical thing? Would you (especially tops) prefer that? Or is that a turn off?

Exaclty. New doctor

well I don't want it to stay on too long...but there is something fun about being just slutty enough to tease some guys for a while before I decide

So, we have the discussion about underwear, but what about swimwear? I'm heading to a beach the coming weekend to get away from winter weather...and love swimwear nearly as much as undies!

So what do you prefer to wear yourself? Might be interesting to see if there is a difference in top vs bottom on this...so i'd be interested in what you like your partner to wear also.

I'm a bottom and love to wear speedos or tight short squarecut suits (my fav since they still emphasize ass but not dick so much).

For tops I love speedos since I wanna see what I'll have to work with I also like the short trucks that look like running shorts if they are thin.

I'm a personal assistant. And my boss fucks me...so I'm really personal

I only have a BA so far but taking some classes for hopefully a masters in HR.

I have a PhD, and am a 6 figure executive in a blue chip company

...yesterday i was fucked raw and bred by an escort...I stumbled across his real name in the process....he also has a PhD and is an executive in a biotech company. he had been trying to breed me for a year now...I'm trying to figure out why he is an escort!

I would think he's an escort because it's hot to get paid for something you love...I've only done that a few times but it was really hot even though the guys weren't quite my normal type...something dirty/kinky/wrong but so right about being not a slut but a whore.

Daddy stayed home from work today with me. Slept most of the day. He did fuck me twice during the day. Was nice but slow.  Then helped me shower and ran to get food. Just cuddled tonight and he sucked me off (I was too tired to really do anything to him and he was ok with that.)

Slept for a bit but woke up with fever again so on internet for a bit until drugs work and in living room so I don't wake him up.

So it does seem it's just the flu that is causing decrease in sex drive and loss of energy. And that I guess I wasn't quite over it and pushed too hard so now sick again and worse

So I guess sex drive is finally coming back. BF left Saturday for Christmas with his parents. Daddy wanted to mess around by I told him I was still feeling a bit sick and tired, so he came over to take care of me. Helped me to the shower and was just a slow wash and kissing. Carried me to bed and had a slow fuck. Lasted a long time which me on my back and him doing most of the work (which is not our normal at all). As he was getting ready to cum in me has jerked my cock so we came at the same time.  Then he slid behind me and held me until we fell asleep. Been up for a bit now and he's still in bed.

Not the hottest story, but was very nice to slowly get back to having some fun. And nice that he cares enough about me to come take care of me too.

I don't think it's the antidepressant since I've been on basically the same medicine for over a year with only slight dosage adjustments and not even any of those recently. 

The flu was pretty bad and Seattle is close to Portland so I'd assume if it's peaking here it is here too. I have several friends that are sick right now too or were before me (including girls) so I think just normal flu. I did have flu shot but like seaguy said it isn't as effective this year as it has been in the past. 

I think maybe I'm just recovering from the flu still. I still feel tired/worn out just doing normal things so I guess I just need to give it a week or two to clear.

I should be tested again in about a month i believe so will confirm it was just the regular flu.

I'd try to find a good gay doctor. With mine I'm comfortable telling him everything.

Oh, I guess that could be it. Normally don't get like this after being sick but this flu was pretty bad so maybe that's it. Thanks.

So I've been on PrEP for six or so months. Once I started taking loads was having lots of sex. But in the last week or so have had very little sex drive. I was sick for a few days with the flu, but even since that basically no desire. No change in other medications (depression/anxiety) so wondering - has anyone had PrEP cause decrease in sex drive? I know antidepressants can sometimes cause this, but since I've been on for nearly a year seems strange that that would be the problem.

Messaged a guy on A4A two day's ago, he said he was safe but talked him into fucking me bare.  drove over to where he wanted to meet then he took me to his place and found out he had a bf who was out of town.  I blew him a bit before he fucked me from behind.  He shot a thick creamy load in me and then I left holding his load for around 4 or so hours.

"Talked him into" lol....he had a bf out of town. I think he was looking to load you up and just said safe to get you over. He's fucking his bf bare and doesn't want to use a condom if he's used to it.