sluttony

My question was asked at the original poster because... yeah same thoughts as you,  viking!

Perhaps explain what this data breach is, that you believe you have highlighted? What, exactly, do you think you've stumbled upon?

I don't like to feed trolls but I think there is a learning opportunity here.

I was a late starter with anal. I loved to suck but I'd been brought up with the whole "spunk will kill you" mantra of the 80s.

But I was desperate to feel a cock inside me. I always wanted it to be bare. Why bother if you dont take the load? Use a dildo!

In my life I've taken two rubbered cocks and hated it... the whole point of being fucked for me was to take the load inside me.

After the first dick though I was addicted. To the point that even now, if I don't get at least a load a week, minimum, I genuinely start to feel down.

But of course I convinced myself that I was a smart bottom. I chose guys that only topped. I chose guys who had negative in profiles. I avoided poz guys - even, later, the undetectable ones. I believed the guys who said they were negative.

Buy it just didn't properly feed my addiction. It didn't quiet the slut. It simply wasn't enough.

I *needed* to be the slut that I am. So, I began to stop asking.

I stopped looking at their profiles. I mean I didn't care what they looked like. A slut isn't choosy!

And still it wasn't enough. 

Finally giving myself to every cock offered as long as it was bare was the thing that finally made me happy. Going to saunas and bending over for every guy who wanted me - but actively rejecting those who wanted to wear a rubber. Almost aggressively seeking out bb.

Going to cum unions.

I crave quantity over quality. I'd prefer 5 low quality, fast, pump and dumps from 5 complete strangers over one good fuck from someone i lnow. I know most guys are the opposite but it is my ethos and it's in my DNA. I am a slut. I'm proud to be a slut. I'm here to take loads. As many as physically possible.

I stopped caring about what might happen and started getting what my psyche screamed for.

I test regularly now of course. 

It took years between being afraid, to being able to accept what I wanted to be, but fuck me it made me happy when I got there.

I'd love to know your journeys to full slut as a top or bottom.

Yeah I don't care. I am always clear what I am after. And if it helps the guy get in the mood to fuck me, then... yeah, whatever.

North Notts. Interested too.

On 12/10/2023 at 8:56 PM, FFun2BB said:

@SWLondonGay those days are really over ... as most public toilets are now camera controlled ... 

therefore be careful !!!

best way to get your rocks off - go to a gay sauna , where everyone is in for one reason ..... TO SEEK SATISFACTION ... 

Unfortunately many sauna's don't seem to be anything like as close to as popular as pre-COVID and the ones that are there seem to be so much more choosy.

Good story, but... come on... no one (especially women) talk like that.

I frequently do this. I have a hood which has an integrated blindfold and it's complete - no peaking around. It has a mouth hole so my mouth is free for use as well.

I love dark rooms but none of them seem to be pitch black anymore.

My other favourite is night time cruising in the woods.

Yeah I LOVE anonymous sex.

Yeah I spoke with a top guy years ago who wanted to live a kidnap scenario whereby I'd be tied, blindfolded and put naked into the boot (trunk) of his car and driven to a cruise.

At the cruise he intended to offer me out. We discussed limits and safe words for stopping.

So far, so good.

Then he started to send photos he'd either taken or got hold of from cruising sites of used condoms. Some had clearly been there months if not years.

He was proposing to cut the ends off and force me to drink them.

When I said it was unsafe to the point of causing food poisoning types of illness - or worse - he got very angry, suggesting that as a slut, it wasn't my place to want to look after my own wellbeing, but to do whatever he, as a top, wanted without question and regardless of any negative outcome no matter how serious. Oh and he even said "and don't think you're getting back in my car if you're puking"...erm...naked, in a cruise in the relative middle of nowhere at night and possibly still bound. Not a fucking chance.

Glad it happened that way as he clearly wouldn't have actually respected any safe word.

It made me much more careful about putting myself into potentially harmful scenarios. I suggest you do the same and pass on this one and be a bit more circumspect in future meets.

On 1/15/2023 at 4:22 PM, rawTOP said:

There is no investigation. The site is generally GDPR compliant despite not being required to be since we have no business presence in the UK or the EU.

There is also not a huge problem with registrations. The site gets about 400 registrations per month. A number that hasn't changed much in at least 18 months.

However… a few people do have problems entering their birth date during registration. This has been going on for a while now. It's unclear why a few people have the problem while many others don't. I suspect it has to do with entering the year. If you have the problem 1) try a different browser, 2) wait a day or two and try again since once the cookie is st that you're underage you have to wait for the cookie to expire. But in general be very careful that the full 4 digit year is entered properly.

I don't believe physical location has any bearing on needing to be GDPR compliant. [think before following links] https://gdpr.eu/checklist/

We really need to start supporting these places again.

The handful of times I've been to the Luton Greenhouse since lockdown, there were literally more staff than members and nothing was happening. And this was on naked night.

Darlaston was busier but again there seemed to be a distinct lack of action and what was there was behind closed doors.

I don't know but the whole sleazy vibe of places seems to have diminished and/or there's lots of overly choosy guys.

Though I do accept that I probably just got unlucky on the visits. That is the luck of things with saunas and cruises.

I've been a few times to the new place but only in the week.

As with a lot of places lately, it's very hit and miss but I don't think (my own opinion) that they've made the best use of the space.

The glory holes all seem a bit too high to be comfortable (and I'm 6'1"), the cinema room upstairs is just wasted space.

The dark room isn't that dark.

I loved the old place about 7/8 years ago - loads of little nooks and crannies to get nailed in.

Honestly, I've never understood the appeal of rimming. Don't get me wrong, I am happy to be rimmed, if it turns the guy I am with on, because I won't meet if I haven't done my best to be spotlessly clean - but I won't ever return the favor. It's just a line I am not prepared to cross.

Going to be in London this Weds eve (wasn't planned so kind of last minute).

I can be flexible on location - any suggestions for a cum dump?

Thanks

I am on there as slut_tony

I will be in Birmingham on Weds eve - probably pop back to Boltz as had a fab time a few weeks ago.

Can anyone recommend any easy access hotels that don't need key cards?

Just to add to this, it's not just there/at cum union. I used to love both Greenhouse Sauna's for their Weds night naked nights. Used to get multiple loads there without even trying.

And yet I went to the Luton one a couple of months ago and it was dead - there were more staff than punters and those that were there were just walking around like they were lost.

And since then I've been to Darlaston twice and both times it's been busy but hardly anyone fucking. All walking around or stood in little groups chatting (usually bitching about the other clientele).

Something (though I admit I have no idea what) needs to change or these places will end up going under.

On 4/8/2022 at 12:08 AM, lincsbttmvers said:

Anybody been? Is it worth going? 

I have posted here before about the Sheffield one but that was all pre-pandemic.

When I first went (way back around 2016/27) it was amazing. I took so much cock I lost count and I was told by 11 different guys they were blowing in me.

But then they took some decisions which I feel made it less of an experience - primarily the frequency increased from once a month to once ever two weeks and inevitably you started to see fewer guys. Then they took the doors off the gloryholes.

I haven't been back since about 2019, so I don't know what it's like post-pandemic. I do know the two Greenhouse sauna's in Darlaston and Luton are terribly quiet now, though. Or I just go really unlucky.

I don't know if I was just unlucky but my gut tells me we are still not seeing close to the numbers we used to.

3 hours ago, antichurch said:

about to open a new sauna up north in UK and I wonder if it will draw customers....

 

Who is? Share some details.. it might help it draw people in

That's a shame but it lost it's sleazy vibe for me when they rejigged the layout a few years ago.

I took dozens of loads in the one little glory hole room that was there and hardly any int the row of them that they created. 

Hopefully they will return though as it was always a friendly place to spend spend few hours.

However... the very first topic in tips and tricks discusses it.

And there's a search function.

So you don't have to be a daily visitor to find the info.

I wasn't having a go but come on... some of this is plain lazy. 

On 4/25/2021 at 8:01 PM, 1stimebare said:

Not all of us knew that.  Thanks for the information. That was very helpful.

 

In fairness though, it has been discussed more than once in great detail. 

6 hours ago, takingdeepanal said:

When you don't know the difference between an app and a website ...

 

And feel the need to repeatedly post to say you're not posting here anymore...

(Plus a quick scan of their posts shows that the site [probably comes as no shock to anyone] certainly won't be any worse off for them going).

I generally prefer a silicon lube but I've found some can actually lead to pain during sex.

My next up would be the anal relaxing (but not numbing) water based ones but they tend to become sticky.

Just wondering what bottoms prefer (and please if you're one of those who say "spit", all good luck to you, but back in the real world some of us need proper lube).

1 hour ago, rambo13645 said:

Yeah that's a good question and point.  And a better question is why don't I suck more cock? It's relatively low risk.  Instead I pursue my cum fetish with women and try and find ones into straight mmf so I can clean up.  Once anything gay comes up and I admit how much I want to bareback and suck cock I get scared off.  I mean mostly it's health concerns there.  I know deep down if I found a stable committed couple with a fully bi husband I'd definitely commit to them if they were willing. 

 

But this is off topic... Rest areas... Haha 

Yeah sorry - I meant to add that I can't speak for the US but here in the UK truck stops aren't usually known for their random hookups like that.

Laybyes though - basically places where cars and trucks can pull it for rest, that are beside wooded areas, are where you can find this kind of action (though not at all of them) as well as car parks in wooded areas (ditto - far from all and some are more for the straight doggers).

One of the biggest complaints you see about such places is too many guys just sitting in their cars. Maybe driving around a bit, but on the whole giving no clue they're there to actually score.

For that, you have to get out and walk into the wooded areas. It is usually fairly obvious who is looking for fun.