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Going to be spending the day and evening at the Greenhouse, Darlaston tomorrow (Weds 5th March), but also in a private apartment in Walsall tonight and tomorrow night after the sauna. Be great to take some loads. Have a lovely blindfold hood for anon fun. Don't worry it leaves my mouth available for use.

The whole heath is dark at night, but thanks.

I asked *what* not *where* but thanks.

I've had some fun at the fuck tree, but what is the dark room?

Check out their site.

I am heading to Birmingham this eve (well closer to the NEC/Airport) and thought I might pop into the city to hang out in Boltz. A quick look on their site and there's a message saying they've closed again. Anyone know when this happened? Unfortunately I can't say I am surprised - I commented here late last year that I think they've wasted the space but still sad. I also mentioned some time ago (not long after COVID lockdowns were lifted) that we need to support these places. If we don't, we lose them.

I must be the only bottom that doesn't like to eat arse/ass. It's a weird dichotomy because I love having mine eaten. I think, for me, I am happy to have it done because I know I take time to be as scrupulously clean as possible - something most tops I've experienced not only appreciate but don't do themselves (why would they?) and I am not here to eat shit. Each to their own of course but it's just not something I want to do.

Well you used to pull a key out of a glass to be paired with a random top or bottom. One glass for bottoms to choose from and one for tops to choose from, with each room having two keys - one for each.

These are quite common in the UK as well though usually for things like cavity wall insulation and/or solar panels. Sometimes pretending to be from banks etc but rarely the tax man. It's more difficult for them now than it used to be. The common tactic was to steal a purse or a wallet with cards in, ideally with some kind of ID then track down a phone number. It used to be fairly easy to mask a phone number on SIP providers to make it look like the call was coming from the victims actual bank. The scammers would even then say "but hey, don't take my word for it... call us back on your banks number from a bank statement" because it used to be that you needed a CPC signal to the exchange - Calling Party Cleared... i.e. the call only dropped if the person who made the outgoing call hung up, not the called party. The scammers then popped you on silent hold, waited until they heard numbers being dialled and pretended to be the bank again. Both number masking and CPC were stopped some time ago so that it's much more difficult for that kind of bullshit now but they still try.

This is such an old scare tactic now. The more clever ones also have a password associated with your email account and whether or not it's the one for your computer/email etc or not isn't the point - it's designed to scare people into believing that the extortionist has somehow gained access to your computer. Which is never the case. There is not even any point responding because all that does is shows them that that particular email is indeed alive and in use. Just block, ignore and walk away.

Did you find a suitable alternative? It looks like my top and I might be in Manchester next Weds and we need somewhere I can be a cumdump.

My dom top wants to whore me out to all cummers on Weds evening. We will be visiting The Boiler Room first then back to the Campanile Hotel in Doncaster (ideal for slutting - motel style where the rooms all have exterior doors so no reception to worry about). I have no right of refusal when we do this so if anyone wants to pop by and drop their load into me, you are more than welcome to. I'll likely be in my blindfold hood (don't worry it leaves my mouth available).

Any recommendation for Sheffield hotels? Usual ideals - no reception worries, no keycards and a plus if it's close(ish) to The Boileroom.

Ah seems much more performant again.

It seems to be up and down at the moment in terms of performance but e.g. it took me four attempts to get the login page to accept my credentials - it kept going to a page not found error. Then once in, it takes 10+ seconds for each page to refresh/display properly. I've tried on two different machines with different browsers (Edge, Chrome and FF) and it's the same. I've tried through a VPN and no difference on it or off it. It only seems to be BZ affected and my line is a synchronous gig/gig fibre. Not a massive issue for me (UK here) but wondered if anyone else was seeing it?

Rumours? LoL I literally told you that was my actual experience when I stayed there...

You may want to rethink your hotel. That one is very strict on who they let in and the last time I tried to use it they had security guards actually checking people were guests.

This topic comes up a fair few times, so I thought it'd make sense as I said here: to have a single thread where guys can list hotels that are easy access. I think to qualify, the hotel needs to meet some/most of the following criteria: Easy to gain entry to (so no need to pass reception) No key card access (so easy to get to the room) No security that might check/stop people. I'll start with one I use semi-regularly which is the Campanile Hotel in Doncaster. It's a Motel style so the rooms are all facing outdoors with no need to even go to or near reception. There are a couple of points to note: The walls are cardboard thin, so I would avoid making too much noise where possible and the car park is only free for guests and visitors with a tablet in reception to add your number plate details to, so I'd advise parking round the corner (e.g. at the Dome or Asda) and walking in if not a guest.

I am a (divorced) single parent and one of my kids has special needs, so I *never* play at home. When I had a job that took me away from home, I played pretty much every weeknight - depending where I was, it would be (in order of preference): my hotel room, sauna or cruise. I love the Greenhouse Saunas in both Birmingham and Luton and I used to be a regular visitor at Boltz. The thing with all of those though - I found Boltz lost something around 2015 when they did a redesign. Prior to that it was full of these little nooks and crannies and had a single gloryhole at the bottom of some stairs where I took a ton of loads. After the redesign, it lost the sleaziness. Then they moved and still haven't recovered it in my opinion. Same with the Greenhouse at Birmingham - they redesigned it around the same sort of time, lost a load of cubicles and the like and it seemed to become less of a sleazy fuckfest. I haven't been to Luton in years - the last time was just after lockdown and it was dead. There were more staff than guests. And the other issue is local places like The Boiler Room in Sheffield and Zeus in Mansfield all close too early in the week (and as above, weekends are really tough for me). It's getting tougher too - hotels that used to have easy access moved to card access or gone altogether (the Britannia Hotels in Nottingham and Birmingham were not exactly the best but easy for tops to walk in and out of and get straight to your room). Which gives me an idea actually - I think I'll start a thread where guys can list easy-access hotels. It might take away some of the guesswork.

Glad you're on the mend, RT

I've been to a couple of the years and they're great fun. The one caveat is my information is a few years old now - I last went during the relaxation of rules during COVID, so... roughly four years now. As I was a late entry, I got the room at the top with only one bed (suited me, to be honest) but they usually pair a top and a bottom in a double bed per room. They also tend to have a party on the Saturday that's open to all - I've taken many a load in their sling. The ones I attended were naked events. A really great mix of guys and a great atmosphere. Paul is a super host. I can fully recommend it.

Hi guys. I've blogged for years. Like my sex life, it's intermittent but totally honest and completely bareback - even when the sex is bad or things go sideways, I've never embellished it and it was all really more about keeping a personal diary than it was about being out there but since it's public, why not take a look. [think before following links] https://thethousandloadbottom.blogspot.com/

My question was asked at the original poster because... yeah same thoughts as you, viking!

Perhaps explain what this data breach is, that you believe you have highlighted? What, exactly, do you think you've stumbled upon? I don't like to feed trolls but I think there is a learning opportunity here.

I was a late starter with anal. I loved to suck but I'd been brought up with the whole "spunk will kill you" mantra of the 80s. But I was desperate to feel a cock inside me. I always wanted it to be bare. Why bother if you dont take the load? Use a dildo! In my life I've taken two rubbered cocks and hated it... the whole point of being fucked for me was to take the load inside me. After the first dick though I was addicted. To the point that even now, if I don't get at least a load a week, minimum, I genuinely start to feel down. But of course I convinced myself that I was a smart bottom. I chose guys that only topped. I chose guys who had negative in profiles. I avoided poz guys - even, later, the undetectable ones. I believed the guys who said they were negative. Buy it just didn't properly feed my addiction. It didn't quiet the slut. It simply wasn't enough. I *needed* to be the slut that I am. So, I began to stop asking. I stopped looking at their profiles. I mean I didn't care what they looked like. A slut isn't choosy! And still it wasn't enough. Finally giving myself to every cock offered as long as it was bare was the thing that finally made me happy. Going to saunas and bending over for every guy who wanted me - but actively rejecting those who wanted to wear a rubber. Almost aggressively seeking out bb. Going to cum unions. I crave quantity over quality. I'd prefer 5 low quality, fast, pump and dumps from 5 complete strangers over one good fuck from someone i lnow. I know most guys are the opposite but it is my ethos and it's in my DNA. I am a slut. I'm proud to be a slut. I'm here to take loads. As many as physically possible. I stopped caring about what might happen and started getting what my psyche screamed for. I test regularly now of course. It took years between being afraid, to being able to accept what I wanted to be, but fuck me it made me happy when I got there. I'd love to know your journeys to full slut as a top or bottom.