orpheusboi
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Should I take his POZ load?
orpheusboi replied to 100000489's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I think the key point is to be honest about the consequences of bare fucking. If you take loads you WILL take poz ones, even if you attempt to serosort. You have to be able to accept that there is a chance you will get pozzed. My view is that the best solution is to embrace that outcome well in advance of it happenning. If you are not okay with being poz use condoms, even then not perfect protection, or better yet don't have sex. The idea of converting was initially scary, if a turn on too. I made the decision i wasn't concerned about converting and stopped worrying futilely about status, given you have no reliable reason to believe the guy giving you his load. If you understand the facts i can't see any other rational course. You don't have to go to the extent of actively chasing the bug to rationally accept the consequences of your action and prepare. After a while of taking loads i became more than accepting and actually wanted to be poz. When it happened it wasn't devastating or scary and i have no regrets. It has made being a pig easier, and hasn't affected my life much at all. My personal experience has been, ahem, rather positive! -
Ever Think About How Different Gay Life Is These Days?
orpheusboi replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I certainly don't think the much more widespread acceptance of gay people is a bad thing, but i certainly find the incredible conservatism of mainstream gay culture rather disturbing and regrettable. The main aim seem to be to get recognition and rights to marry, which is hardly a radical step, if anything its deeply backwards. What happened to being queer and the attitudes that came with it. Its not just about gay or bi people, or even trans, but everyone should be questioning and challenging the institution of marriage and the rigid attitudes to sexuality and gender. I still describe myself as queer (at 25 so i missed it all!). You can be 95% straight and still be queer, that the point. Its a recognition and celebration of the wonderfully messy, transitory, fluid and fabulous human condition where we should be able to fuck who we want, how we want. Where sexuality isn't fixed or binary, gender is an identity not a prison or a set of expectations of personality and working life, sex is varied, fun and with as many or as few people as you like. Nobody gay or straight, or wonderfully imbetween, should be forced into the restrictions of a single legitimate relationship structure of one man and one woman, or even two men (where the assumption is always that one is 'kinda' like a woman anyway). -
Any plans for a chatroom again
orpheusboi replied to orpheusboi's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
sounds good - do enough of this web stuff myself to know how annoyingly temperamental and hard to get stable almost anything non static is! Good luck with the tube site rawTOP, hope its a success for you. -
Had some great chats on the chatroom here even if it was very unreliable at times. Any plans for getting a new version working on this site again. That or any tips on where a good chatroom is with a similar ethos to this place.
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have a similar thing, can take any thickness but prob over 8 or 9 inches seems to bottom out, doesn't hurt just takes getting used to, and as said above getting past the second sphincter takes a bit of time. I really enjoy being stretched so my ideal would be girth over length, just does it for me.
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i topped first time (probably badly as I was about fifteen and had no idea what i was doing) but have been a bottom pretty much since. It was in the locker room at my English public school which i had some awareness was a rather brilliant and iconic locale for a first time!
