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There are some weird combos of interest you can find on Grindr tags and such, e.g:

• BB & CondomsOnly

And this on profiles that are probably real people and not on profiles which have obviously just pushed all the buttons.

And then there's the people who say BB but then want to use condoms (you'll not usually find them lurking on this site but I've encountered them).

Honestly, were I in or near a larger populace, it would be easier go to a SOPV (sex on premises venue): whilst people at them can also be picky and stand about etc. at least you know what they are there for and can see what you're getting, if you're not in the dark room of course.

On 7/26/2023 at 3:36 AM, Japbtm said:

No strong case of post but clarity there lol 

Yeah, I get very sensitive after blowing and unless the bottom's really gentle and knows what not to do (usually means they're a regular), it can look like I'm not interested after cumming or suffering post clarity: when it's really just animal instinct running things for a few moments.

IANAL but if you pressed the charges and got a lawyer willing, they could probably at least put up enough of a case that you didn't get dismissed out of court for wasting the court's time with a frivolous case. However, I seriously doubt you'd win the case if you told the judge/jury what you told us here: a good prosecutor could likely introduce enough doubt, if not total doubt, that you "did not implicitly give consent" to be fucked: you were hooded, knowingly hooded, you had a butt plug in, you didn't describe resistance, you didn't go to the police and possibly more.

Now a good defense lawyer would keep that part silent and hope that the prosecutor didn't get a hold of what you'd written here: the law is about what is legal, and it really has little to do with the actual truth -- it can only deal with what it can discover as true and if you somehow stuck to your guns and described a situation where it could be construed legally as rape (and their lawyer didn't introduce sufficient doubt), you could still win for sure.

But with what you've written...I doubt it. Civil case for damages? Maybe if one could invent a claim. But beyond reasonable doubt...I doubt it 🙂

Ideally, I like to get things so that the bottoms arse is gripping my cock's skin so that I can slowly pull my head into my foreskin (inside their arse) and push it back out again into their bare, unprotected hole; it's easier to do without any lube.

Did your friend score?

"I've never done it without a condom before." (after I'd just fucked him bare in a park)

"I don't like taking risks" (as he fucked me bb, after I'd tried fucking him with a condom, failed, took it off and basically told him to deal with it)

"You're big" (I'm average although on apps if I was like many other profiles I could probably claim I was - some guys think you've never seen an 8" cock/ruler before)

12 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

A blow job is sex.

Ahem, not if your name is Bill...

Honestly, whilst I'm not explicit about wanting BB, it's not clear to me how "cumming inside you doggy" could mean anything but. Not to mention the other things in my profile on Grindr (e.g. about not sharing face pics).

I swear I could:

• Give the winning lotto numbers (if I were some deity who could predict that) and maybe only 1 out of 1,000,000 viewers might actually win the lotto

GRRR.

5 hours ago, latinobb said:

Next guy was okay. Thick dick and I needed poppers but realized fast he was partying and was not going to be able to cum. While he was fucking me, an Asian guy came up and started fucking my mouth. After the first guy got soft, I asked the Asian guy if he wanted to fuck me. He asked if I was clean and I said yes (I don't know why guys ask. I'm taking loads in a park and while I do get tested every three months, that's a lot of cum). He plunged in and bred me.

I never ask that question (if I wanted to know if they had HIV or were undetectable or had an STI/STD then I'd ask that).

I just assume people mean: "Have you douched" or "cleaned out" if they ask that 🙂

I don't remember my first: too long ago.

I do remember my first known load from a guy who was - I should say is - poz. He was already barebacking me fairly often, but one day we just decided, "it would be OK if I made sure to expel his cum from my arse afterwards."

It actually was OK because he'd been undectable many years and still is.

The conservative answer, if one could get sued for being "wrong", would likely be "yes" but this likely assumes the other person had HIV in sufficient concentration as usually measured to transmit it.

My personal answer would be that: "maybe possible, however extremely unlikely to the extent where a reasonable statistician would call it negligible; we need far more information about the other person to give any better answer than that."

If it's a regular and I know they like it and I'm in the mood, I will; otherwise it all depends on the situation.

Hot! I guess burying your dick in your arse was one way to avoid mosquito bites on it!

What I really hate are "magic condoms" - you know the scenes where it looks like they might bareback, and then voila! They magically have a condom on...

Heh, the bartender probably got sloppy seconds 🙂

Finally got lucky on an app where I live: meeting up is complicated for me now but talked to someone ages ago and didn't think anything would work out. Forward a few months, and he messages me again from a blank profile which I kind of ignored/brushed off but when he sent me his pic I recognised him from before so kept chatting.

Few weeks later, after a seriously too long dry spell, I've blown a few loads (which he's swallowed) in his mouth and in a bit, I'll do his arse; can't wait. And he has the patience to suck me to completion, which can take me quite a long time...and someone has to be good at it to get me to cum that way without me touching myself.

The way the question is phrased implies the answer, "Of course no loads refused." What is the point of being a "cum dump" if you won't let people "dump cum"?

The actual answer is more nuanced - of course; some people will:

• Happily take loads in dark rooms or blindfolded but if they're not in dark rooms/not blindfolded they're more picky
• At a large enough venue/sex party (or group of people who might hook up), it's still possible to be a cum dump and be a little bit picky/a lot picky
• Most people are actually somewhat in between

The sample population on this site is likely a little biased towards being more likely to accept/give loads BB, than otherwise.

As more top these days, what tends to annoy me most about supposed cum dumps are actually the picky ones who literally say "I'll take anyone" but start rejecting people (not necessarily me). It's like: "What version of `I take all loads/no loads refused` means: `I refuse your/their load`". Sometimes I might detect that the person is into some sort of role play where the other person "sort of" forces them, with their tacit consent, but honestly I can't be bothered determining a "real no" from a "I'm saying no but you can persist" most of the time - so, for me, unless I happen to explicitly and obviously know otherwise (excuse the pun), "no" means "NO" to me.
 

If the bottom wants to play shades of grey with me, I'm unlikely your Mr Grey 🙂

It's a slippery slope, so to speak, from: "I'll just cum inside" to "who cares about the condom" 🙂

We are all obviously getting older; I remember the first time someone called me "daddy" (simply because of my apparent age), I thought: "Hang on, I'm not old enough for that..." but then realised...shit I am.

How was it for you?

Whilst there are usually nuanced, well thought out answers on these forums, I always wonder what people really expect the general consensus for a question that reads "should I fuck raw" (no matter the other factors) would be...I have seen response equating to "no" but my completely unscientific hunch [I have been around the forums for > 10 years] is that on this forum the consensus for "should I fuck raw" is usually "yes, so long as it is legal".

I find a lot of virtue signalling, to be honest; I'm sure there must be a fetish of some sort where condoms turn bottoms on - there really is a fetish for anything after all - but I'm yet to actually encounter anyone with such a fetish.

In all my years, I'm yet to encounter anyone who will claim they like the feeling of using condoms at all and even the most ardent safer-sex advocates have usually said to me that in an ideal world they'd prefer bare.

Back when I'd bottom more, they really only had to either ask or just put it in for there to be no condom; I guess I never really "insisted" - and in fact, I can't think of any people I had sex with more than three times who didn't either fuck me bare or I fucked them bare.

These days I just make it clear that if I fuck them/you, it's uncovered; to be honest I think that still turns some people away (although I suspect they would change their mind if we met up and then negotiated the safe sex thing) but I don't want to deal with the drama and although I'm mostly top these days, I don't particularly "like" dominating/forcing as such so if they're playing the game where they want "to be forced (but with consent)", it's not really my cup of tea.

On 9/16/2022 at 3:36 PM, viking8x6 said:

If you like daddy/boy, bear/cub, dirty talk, handsfree orgasm... this one's got it all!

[think before following links] https://www.xvideos.com/video62575501/dirty_talking_while_i_bang_a_hot_furry_cub#

How'd you manage to make that a link that I didn't need to highlight and click? 🙂

On 8/28/2019 at 12:43 AM, CCbttm said:

And in my youth I used to be into lubing up and inserting eggs into my ass and then watching myself push them out. Been a very long time since I've tried that though. Pretty take stuff by most comparisons around here I imagine

Boiled eggs, I'd assume; I have to ask: did you cluck whilst doing that?

I've had that happen as a top (and years ago, when I would bottom); as a bottom I'd usually take it as a compliment.

There are just some types of feelings that will make me cum fast; and others that won't. And if it's anon, or a bookstore or such and you haven't a clue who you're fucking, it's luck of the draw...sometimes it's good to feel so good you cum really fast...other times it's a nuisance.