MuscledHorse

If you are just sticking to basic fisting you will be fine. If you are a high use size driven pig like me you may have a few issues around multi-day high use events--I am hosed out everyday in any event. The only meaningful "problem" I've had so far beyond needing to sleep on towels or in a diaper during and through a week after a multi-day event is that I don't enjoy real penis as much anymore because normal size toys for me are dildos the size of a pony and plugs that are 11 inches or more circumference and I use them nearly everyday. But that's life for those of us who train to take as much as we can. We are the exception, though, not the rule.

Lie so many other things, rightly or wrongly, the idea of self-worth and being a bottom has been fetishized, though in reality, much of that relationship is vastly overstated. Yes, there are some self-loathing males who view themselves as worthless--to the point they want their genitals permanently caged as if they are a Southern Baptist and feminized by being forced to wear women's panties and stockings. Most bottoms, however, are in it for the Pleasure. I am a life long lover of being a bottom pig. I have solid self esteem, no problem stripping down in front of other guys or sexually engaging with them as the top. taking a guy's load has nothing to with value or self esteem for me. Rather, it is the sacred act of one male sharing his warm essence, his Elixir of Life with me purely for sport and Pleasure. I enjoy the taste of his nut juice and savor it like fine wine before I swallow it, or I savor the knowledge that his DNA is sprayed all over my fuck guts and his DNA is absorbing and becoming part of me. Unlike too many males--gay and str8--I can engage in sex play without the shame and guilt that's drilled into us from almost the moment we are born. So, for me being a bottom and taking loads is purley about the Pleasure of feeling another male's erect penis in me and him unloading his baby batter in my fuck guts.

That's the way to do it brother! I plan my vacations around sex opportunities in destination cities and sex events happening where I'm traveling. Ensures I experience heavy sexual use all year.

11 hours ago, TaKinGDeePanal said:

What is the general date for each of these?

"So he stuck his hand in me alongside his penis and jerked off inside me. " Love being a Jack-in-the-Box recipient!

All of these events have website s you can get the latest on event dates an activities for that year

Pig Week: starts the Friday of Thanksgiving weekend (late November)  and runs for 10 full days in Fort Lauderdale FL

Fist Fest: held in April, July and October at a sex resort in Augusta GA (a couple hours outside Atlanta)

CLAW: in Cleveland OH in early April

IML: in Chicago IL over Memorial Day weekend in late May

Palm Springs Leather Pride: In Palm Springs CA at the end of October

Folsom Street fair. San Francisco CA  end of September (it's dirty cousin, Dore Alley is in late July) 

MAL: Washington DC in mid-January  

GayDays Orlando (June). Orlando FL beginning of June

15 hours ago, lecheroxxl said:

This is a good list. Of all of these, which ones would you say are your top two events?

Pig Week is top, no question. After that i'd have to say Fist Fest or MAL if you're not  fist pig like me.

if you're a Fist Pig like me, Fist Fest (3 are held each year in Augusta GA at a sex resort). is a must (and yes my slutty ass goes to all three)

Pig Week: 10 days of sex parties that give new meaning to sexual marathon. Between the daily parties and the private ones my husband arranged or got us invited to, my hole took almost two weeks to finally close up.

CLAW: kink and fetish event with piles of sex and lots of education and kink skills workshops (i do several of these)

IML: last time i went I never made it out of the host hotel. My legs spent most of their time in the ar. Highlight was the closing party at House of Blues and being up in one of the viewing boxes bent over on the railing and watching the dancers below as two guys took turns fisting my blown out ass

Palm Springs Leather Pride: If you stay at a sex resort like CCBC you never want for use any waking moment

Folsom Street fair. My penis and ass got lots of exposure and piles of use between the event itself and the parties before and after. I was so used by the end of a CumUnion party the last guy--partner #33 of the event--couldn't feel my rectum walls I was so gaped by that point. So he stuck his hand in me alongside his penis and jerked off inside me. 

MAL: if you can take January in DC you will now want for sexual use at this piggy event.

GayDays Orlando (June). Get super heavy use at that event every time I go. I lived in Orlando when it started and get plenty then. It's a sex well I keep coming back to and am never disappointed.

wow! looking at this list I know why my partner counts are so high. Got to love promiscuous living

if you've got the $$$ my husband and I  just got the FuckYeah! machine. It is amazing. I may never leave the house again...just hookup my huge bad-dragon and twisted beast toys, popper up and work to outlast the machine.

Night person here, which is great given my appetite for sex and group use settings since that's when guys are most sexually active.

It means another male's nut load is being spilled in the lucky bottom's ass. HIV status is immaterial to the breeding process.

On 12/21/2023 at 8:34 AM, hermarbi said:

Having been invited to one in the past, I was wondering how many others have spent the New Year’s Eve fucking or fucking in the new year?  I fondly remember the party I had been too, as the chat was, it will soon be the bells… followed up with someone saying it was 3am.   Any others got a party lined up this year?

i've spent NYE into New Year's with my legs in the air in a a group use setting most years. Some have been parties I was invited too--weekend long if NYE was on a Fri, Sat, or Sun--while others have been spent at sex resorts or sex clubs or bathhouses. The last few years my husband has arranged the parties we go to so all I have to so is show up strip down and be a good service bottom taking cocks and fists until the guys are satisfied.

8 hours ago, KingB028 said:

1000% agree with you. Nothing to regret or be ashamed about. I have so much respect for cumdumps. Once you submit to your desires, and allow yourself to be controlled by lust, you will start living your best life. 

I gave myself over to Lust at  young age and my life has been happy and heathy as a result--plus being a gym rat helps. I wear the sigil of Asmodeus, demon of sexual Lust around my neck and have Lust themed tattoos on my body. Living with my legs spread is my ideal experience around other males.

Another thing that I think has hurt the CumUnion brand has been overexposure. Here in Atlanta we have the Atlanta Dominion BDSM-kink party, which only occurs four times a year. I once asked why it was only four times a year and not every month and I was told that when it went to every month, attendance dropped significantly. In the less-is-more approach, the turnouts for the event are large because they are only held four times a year. In some places, CumUnion not only occurs monthly but multiple times in a month between several locations, essentially diluting the event because there's always one happening.

5 hours ago, VersAlwaysLooking said:

Did something I've never done before.   Checked in and posted the Room number on Sniffies, BBRT, Twitter and Grindr.   No screening of guys, just told the world the four hour time window that I'd be taking loads and asked that only guys 8"+ come through.   I got 14 loads, all but two were hung and I had three over 10" that dug deep.  Only trouble I had was a bottom showed up and tried to setup on the bed next to me and then gave me grief when I asked him to leave. 

After that, I went to Slammer to top.  Took a viagra (don't have ED - can just go forever when I take one).  I fucked over 50 guys (lost count) and shot six loads.   I stuck my dick in every presenting ass and there were some nice sloppy holes.   Was fucking a hot guy aggressively out in the open towards then end it made cum start leaking out of my ass down my leg.   A hairy muscle guy with a big old dick pushed me down on a fuck bench and blasted his load in me.  

I was spent and went home at 3 am. 

you are a sex pig after my own heart...though i occasionally top with my extra fat cock, I am a huge high use bottom pig here that lives for that level of indulgence and use.

On 11/26/2023 at 5:05 AM, VersGuyAnon said:

I love them!

I'm actually looking for someone to use mine on me again, ideally for a proper session. Quite a few years ago now I have a few guys into using it on me. One guy thought it was a bit scary, but i still managed to get him to open me up and piss in me. Sadly he didn't fuck/cum in me with the speculum in me. 

The type I recommend, which is what I have, is a Collins. It's a basic two lever, which gives complete access to your hole. Others have a fixed base, which doesn't provide as much flexibility. The type in the pic above is a for major players, so I wouldn't even think about that for a while, if you've never used one. 

The main things when using it - warm it up with your hands or by running under warm water. Lube it up the arms/blades and, with it closed, slowly ease it inside you. Important - when removing it, make sure it is still slightly open. If the blades/arms are completely closed, there's a chance of of nipping the skin inside you as it pulls out, which hurts like hell. Anyway, once it's inside, slowly start screwing it open. You'll feel the resistance of your hole, which for the first time might feel weird, but as you go further and it starts stretching you open, it's incredible. The feeling of air getting inside you and the knowledge your hole is gaping are both fucking horny.

SOLD! Feeling he air flow on and around my gaped rectum is always a high. Now for a loose fist pig like me, what one would I want to start with? 

I can take a small/medium hand with no warm up, just lube up and slide in. A large hand can get in under 60 seconds. XL pays are fatter and take longer to get in but they are in me in under five minutes. As for toys, my starting toy is currently the large Svein the buck from Bad Dragon, which is 8.5 inches (21.6 cm) around at the top of the shaft and 10.75 (27 cm) inches circumference at the lower shaft, with a 12 inch (30.5 cm) length. I can lube that up, shoot some lube into my ass gash and sit right down on it, which I do most mornings. Such as satisfying way to start a day. I am getting the XL version for Christmas so I can start stretch training my hole to go even wider and deeper until that can be my starting toy.

On 11/26/2023 at 10:23 AM, ErosWired said:

Fisters - Assuming you’re dealing with an average somewhat-conditioned hole, not a complete unstretched fisting novice, and not a totally blown-out meat sleeve, but someone who needs an undetermined amount of handwork to relax the hole before you make full entry, how much time do you devote to the preparation?

 The two times I’ve taken a fist, by the same person, I haven’t particularly enjoyed it. The entry felt somewhat traumatic both times, and though I wasn’t watching a clock, I’d say he probably worked his way in in under 15 minutes both times. This strikes me as possibly hasty. I’d be interested to know if this is considered a usual amount of time in which a fistee should be able to adjust to accommodate the intrusion (bearing in mind some intrusions are bigger than others), or whether one usually expects a bit more preparation.

I’m curious to know whether I’m just not responding as I ought to be, and thus not really suited to the activity. If not, I can live with that; I don’t have to try another one. But if my experience so far has not been what it should have been, I can’t really say I’ve been properly fisted, to understand what that feels like. As it stands, after two tries I still don’t get why anybody likes it, let alone prefers a fist to a cock.

If you are new to fisting or taking larger than regular penis stuff through your anus and into the rectum, you are going to need some relaxing anal and rectal muscle massage to get things relaxed and get receptive to the hand. A good relaxing environment is a must to get you in the "I can take this" headspace--much of fisting is also mental. Most guys play what I call the thub thub club music which can be really distracting when you're trying to relax. One of the guys with whom I have done depth training on my manCunt, always plays the kind of mellow music you'd hear at your massage therapy appointment. And it really works in getting you to relax. Even as loose as I am--a guy with a small or medium hand can lube up and slide right in, a large hand can get in within sixty seconds--there's still training I am doing to be able to take more, so the principles of advanced play training are no different from the principles of beginning training. 

On 11/24/2023 at 4:22 PM, GFF92 said:

The feeling of getting through the sigmoid colon is probably the most incredible feeling I've ever felt in my life. Takes me a huge amount of playing to get there but damn is it worth it.

It sure is. That area is sooo super sensitive on me and I start pissing myself uncontrollably as a guy's hand begins to play with it and stretch it more to get the hand through it. I'm not there yet with the hand (right at the crest of the thumb knuckle on a small-medium hand) but the toys seem to slide through pretty easily. I cannot wait til that area finally stretched and gives out like the rest of my rectum and anus have so i can sink easily to the elbow and start training to go beyond: goal is the shoulder so I can feel a male's armpit hair against my giant anus.

18 hours ago, SoCalBBversbttm said:

Wow!  Would love to see a picture of your huge gaping hole!  So do you wear diapers 24/7 or just when you play heavily (which sounds often)?  Are these pull ups or adult diapers?  

happy to share. DM me on what other platforms you are on like Telegram of Discord so I can send you pics of my slack ass. I also do porn so there is my X account JaredEriksonXXX.  I wear whatever type diaper I am given. I am preparing my body for the 10 days of Pig Week that starts Nov 24th. Goal is to be sloppy and open for at least a week after i get back. End goal is to be so stretched out, loose and prolapsed I need them 24-7. I hose out nearly everyday so i haven't taken a "normal shit" in a very very long time. Maybe it's time to stop for a few days and see how much function I have left, if any.

On 11/6/2023 at 11:10 AM, LeatherScorpionFF said:

👅 My personal preference. The looser and sloppier the better! 🐷

That's how i try to keep my hole. I am so loose that I can take a fist in my slack ass in under 60 seconds. And still want to get looser...but that's the FistPig life...

You're not going to find a date worthy guy on the hookup apps. They will be found in other places. I met my other half at an event called Furry Weekend Atlanta. Our meeting was totally by chance because we knew some of the same people in League of Atlanta pups. I was a few weeks from moving to Atlanta and he wound up being one of the guys who came up to TN to help me move, and afterwards, we started hanging out. By the time we decided to call it boyfriends about 3 months later, every guy who knew us said "it's about time you two figured it out." We've been together ever since. We both work hard and play hard. We reject sexual monogamy as a basis for a meaningful relationship and he is genuinely my best friend. We have things and interests we do and pursue separately and we have things we do and pursue together. He is not the "romantic" type (waving crucifix at Hallmark Channel) while I enjoy the cuddly-kissy stuff, which he indulges sometimes.  our ideal relationship is going to be with the guy who turns out to be our best friend and cheerleader and you, theirs. Hookup apps are not the places to meet. See what kinds of events your community has (pups, leather, gaymers, etc.) as those are the places where you're likely to meet guys you can actually socialize with, who will be more than just a hookup.

Doubtful. the number of guys I've encountered who will fist me  or watch me get fisted and then plunge their erection into my gaped hole is amazing to me. So many guys get off on fucking an ass that is so open they barely feel the rectum walls. A few are turned off by this level of loose and are very outspoken about it, but most get into it, some even put their hand back in and masturbate their penis to orgasm inside me.

HGH grows your hands and jaw and feet more than anything else once your growth plates have sealed. Big hands have zero to do with cock size but for us fist pigs they mean we are going to get stretched and filled to the max when they grease up they paws. 

I have totally inserted my plugs a few times. The sensations are awesome. All my toys save for one have big bases on them (bad-Dragon and Twisted Beast) and can't be fully inserted

Of the choices, I have to say I was born a bottom. Yea, I was masturbating at a very young age, but i saw penis and new what  wanted to do with it . I wanted to taste it. i wanted to feel it in me. First time I had a penis in me, I was hooked. Even though i have a sizable penis that gets milked daily, my ass is always wanting to be filled with cocks and toys and hands.

11 minutes ago, EuRawBull said:

For fisting my best personal experiences have always been in Amsterdam, Hamburg and Berlin (in that order). However, when you add fisting to the mix, you need to do a helluva planning beforehand. And again my personal experience, is that fisting parties tend to be a more niche affair, so one need to plan for parties specifically themed on fisting. As one can imagine, there is a smaller crowd but definitely more engaged than the regular vanilla fuck parties. Eagle in Amsterdam as well as Lab in Berlin and Mutschmann's used to throw now and them some really good parties. And, I must add, some really nice fisting sessions can be had in Milan or Rome. Some of the best and experienced fisters were Italians, whereas some of the nicest holes I fisted were in London. Barcelona has emerged in recent years as a serious city for fisting, although you have to check out beforehand their party schedule. 

Thanks for the info. My slack ass ill be seeking out paws to fill and stretch me good. I have Berlin on my list but i will add Amsterdam as well