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So far, all the replies seem to all be of like mind. Some have touched breifly on the real danger of anon blibdfolded hookups.

Being blindfolded and powerless, hearing a total stranger cum into your hotel room with complete command of the situation... Knowing that he could be violent... And doing it anyway because I am DRIVEN by my basest animal needs...

To me, this level of commitment; the complete abandonment of the self, makes my dick leak as much as the fuck I'm gonna get.

For fucking, I have no strong preference...as long as he is willing, I'm good! 

One exception:  I am much more likely to eat out a smooth hole than I am a hairy hole.

For me, it’s either Rocco Steele or Jack Dixon.

Given his generous endowment, I can understand the laws of supply and demand coming into play.  Hs acring like a dick may be a result of that...or he might have become a dick without a generous endowment.

On 10/26/2019 at 5:13 AM, Sighthound51 said:

I live with 4 black guys hung and always horny my hole is permanently gaped. 

You lucky fuck! 

The hottest compliments I've ever gotten are the ones not directed at me.

I'm talking times when I've been cumholing at some bathhouse, and the fuckers egg each other on, speaking about me as an object, ignoring my needs entirely. And i becum nothing more than a hole to use...a cumrag and nothing more. 

To me, that is a compliment beyond words.

Emotional Monogamy - YES.

Sexual Monogamy - NO

I hooked up with a guy like that in Kansas City several years ago. I posted a story here about our encounter in the cocksucking thread under “Firehose Frank”.  He was amazing.

I've had some very hot on-on-one sex  both as a top and a bottom. But when I stop to thiink about the hottest sex I've had, I always recall scenes that took place where I was being watched (usually in bathhouses, aex clubs, or dungeons) fucking or getting fucked. Being watched enhances the heat of the scene exponentially. Knowing that other men have seen me shamlessly taking cock up my hole, on my knees sucking dick,  or slamfucking a hole turns me on. I consider it free advertising...and I've gotten a lot of offers because of it. 

Anyone else have thoughts or experiences to share on being a sex exhibitionist?

Some botoms cum just from being fucked. Others have no self control and jack off resulting in their cumming. 

I always swat the bottoma jand away from his dick as he should solely be focused on my cock fucking his hole.

But you did right by continuing your fuck to cumpletion regardless if the bottoms discomfort. 

Next time, warn the bottom that if he cums you arent gonna stop. Then take perverse pleasure in his discomfort....in essence, makr it part of the scene to "teach him a lesson". Seems like a good way to stay in the moment.

My favorite moment is when the Fucker crosses the point of no return. When his bidy tenses, his balls start their boil, and the cum is about to shoot...that moment when all semblence of control is surrendered to the primal scream within.  Then cums the glory of cum being injected into the bottom. It is sublime.

The sound of a cum-sloppy manhole being fucked is unmistakable. Whether at a sex club, bathhouse, or fuck party; that sound is a siren call for every Fucker in the place to line up and have a turn. 

Its been my expwrience in these sertings that once i get two or three loads up in me, the rest of the Fuckers cum callling.

On 12/5/2013 at 3:52 PM, Pigmansex said:

When I am in bottom mode it's all about being compliant and makeing sure the top is getting off. I have a very hard time saying that a position or the way he is fucking me doesn't feel good or even causes pain. I just like to keep my mouth shut and take it. This probably has a lot ot do with why i started bare backing. ...  Do other bottoms feel this way? ... Sometimes I've had tops who I thought were being rough just to see how much I could take.

When I bottom, I get in a headspace where I consider myself nothing more than a fuckhole with no say in how the Fucker will use me. Part of the joy of fuckholing for me is giving everything up to the Fucker, to his hard cock, to get his sacred seed. I NEED the Fucker to use me as he needs to give me the hottest, biggest load he can. My needs do not enter into the equation. 

The shoot on the hole and plunge is really great for porn...i must confess, seeing it is a thrill. 

But whether I top or bottom, I ALWAYS want a core deep injection. I cant imagine anything more satisfying than feeling your cock pulsing deep inside a willing fuckhole...then lingering as you fully empty yourself and revel in the cumjoy...until finally churning the cream before pulling out. 

Hottest Ginger in gay porn!

My preference is for more mature men. But when I go fuckholing, I've never turned down a twink thats willing to fuck and breed me. 

On 9/22/2019 at 12:55 PM, ErosWired said:

There is a body of research out there on the chemical changes that occur in the bodies of two people having sex. Release of Oxytocin, Vasopressin, endorphins and other biochemicals have been found to establish and strengthen emotional bonds between sexual partners...

It’s interesting to me, however, to wonder about the effect of this biological system on homosexual men fucking each other, and especially those fucking random and even anonymous parters serially and in large numbers. What happens, for instance, to a cumdump who is subject to 15 strong chemical bonding experiences in his body from 15 different men in the course of a single night...

 A cycle of bond-rip-bond-rip-bond-rip-bond-rip-etc... What is that doing to us?

*Lee Ann Obringer "How Love Works" 12 February 2005.
HowStuffWorks.com. <https://people.howstuffworks.com/love.htm> 22 September 2019

I am aware of this phenomenon. Speaking only for myself... When I fuck with my husband, i experience that bond. The fuck becomes an expression of that bond. And the feeling that pass between us transcend simple physical pleasure.

I also go out fuckholing (he knows this). And I will take on all cummers, getting used like meat and cast aside like a dirty cumrag. In all those times, I have never - not once - felt any kind of bond with those men (beyond that of the bareback brotherhood).

Similarly I've fucked plenty of random fuckhole pigs with nary a care for their feelings. 

I imagine there could be some men that mistake sex-for-sport with true intimacy; but I believe men are naturally wired to separate those feelings...much to the consternation of women in str8 relationships who cannot even conceive of such a thing.  

On 10/11/2019 at 3:47 PM, drscorpio said:

The two bars that had them (Rawhide and The Phoenix) are both on their best behavior right now.

I visited several years ago and let me tell you, The Phoenix was LIT UP!  I got passed around and fucked by easily over a dozen men in that place. No idea how many loads I got but i tell you; I WAS FLOODED.  

By the wee hours of the morning I found myself at an after party in a nearby house, poppered up, in a sling, and taking on ALL CUMMERS.  I have no idea how many cocks and loads were in me that night/morning.

Somehow I wound up back in my hotel room fingering my completely distended, sore pussy lips before passing out until well into the evening.

If New Orleans is even a 10th as hot as that today; I say go get yourself some cock and cum.

Just one: STONE COLD STEVE AUSTIN

Im a switch...but there are times I only want to bottom.  That when I'll wear a jock to the baths - it sends the right message: Hole, yes - Cock, no.

I'll take a load any way the fucker wants me.  But as I usually go for pump & dump scenes - being on my knees at the edge or corner of a bed is my default position - mostly because it is expedient. 

Do I like going legs up? Sure. Especially when the fucker is hot or agressive.

Long hard fuck sessions are great if I dig the fucker. But the truth is, I rarely am into the fucker using me. Maybe one out of 10 times do I say to myself "this guy is woofy". Most of my hookups are quick pump & dumps or gang bangs...but if one should turn into a long fuck session with a hot guy; I'd be good with that.

My preference is to do whatever the Fucker wants/needs to get him turned on, heated up, and breeding my cunt. 

If that means putting on a blindfold: fine. Whatever gets me banged and bred.

12 hours ago, Ozpig said:

I have one "straight" (well he is married) top who fucks me every month or so and he is the roughest top I have ever had. He is verbal, he punches me , slaps me that hard I have often been bruised, chokes me if I make a pleasured sound,  spits in my face. There has never been a tactile moment between us in the four years he has been using me - just making me gag on his cock and he fucks like an animal. Very little conversation unless it is to humiliate and abuse me. But I have never not been available when he wants to come over, as he is always good for a 20 minute pounding and he then drags me in the bathroom and pissed on me.

You lucky fuck! You are wise to keep your mouth shut and take his exquisite abuse on his terms. I envy you this arrangement. 

I get off on rough fucking too, but hookup/pump-n-dump culture has complicated making these connections. 

I make my preference plainly known in my profile/ad/chat and try to encourage the fucker using me to get rough...with decidedly mixed results. 

I agree that RECON caters to men with a higher kink qoutient, but I have found that it does not lend itself particularly well to immediate, random hookups (which are my preference).