splitface
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Brutal Honesty, In More Than One Way
splitface replied to HungLatinDom's topic in General Discussion
First off, I'd like to say again that I am sorry. Like I said in the other thread, I had no intention of coming across as a smartass punk as I think I have now. Alot of what you say here does make sense. This is a website that celebrates bareback and the things that go with it, one of them being HIV and others. So it makes sense that men who love bareback as much as you would take the consequences with a smile. Let alone bug chasers in the first place. Another part if all of this is that I don't know. I have never experienced that life first hand, so I am ignorant from the first. I also don't mean to be a downer, reminding you (and the rest of the community) about the shitty parts, it's just that sometimes you need to hear the shitty parts to understand. Once again, I am sorry if I have offended you or any of the other users here with my comments. It was not my intent, at all, and I fully respect your lives and opinions. Sorry. -
What are some ideas to get more young guys into barebacking?
splitface replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
That was a very interesting article. And your post is very informative. I guess I'm just scared. Also, sorry, as I didn't mean to come across as a little punk (as I think I may have) who knows more than the other members of this community. As bbbtm20 said, there is also a lack of brutal honesty. I would like to see poz guys share their stories, their information, not just the fun half of the truth. I often see and hear guys talking about how being poz is great because they get to convert neg guys, and all of the other great points, but you don't very often here about the bad points with full disclosure. Can I ask you about the negative aspects you mentioned, and more importantly, why you consider them manageable? -
What are some ideas to get more young guys into barebacking?
splitface replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Hi there. I am pretty new to this site. I am still 18 years old, but my may birthday is coming up fast. Hope that's not too old to qualify for this thread Another thing I should point out for background is that I am a virgin. I have literally never been touched by a guy. So read what I say below with that in mind. It's all speculative, and since I have never tried it out, I must admit that I am likely not the best to speak about it. Still, I think that it's valid to post here. Part of it is this. I want to bareback, as the thought and sight of condoms is just... well, lame, ever since I found bareback porn. But, I am terrified of AIDS. This is reinforced by the fact that if I get AIDS when I am 18 years old, I am fucked for the rest of my life, you know? I will always have it. Yes and No. The fact that they can live and have sex and so forth is great, yes, but the stories about the side effects of the medications (diarrhea, wasting, that gaunt look, etc), the increased cost of living, the changes to the way people think of you, all of that is a HUGE obstacle for me, personally. Another point is that I don't yet really know what role I will play in sex; never had any experience, as I said. If I was topping, you can bet that I would be in that hole bareback in 0 seconds. But if I were bottoming, I don't know, I'd be scared. I would want the top to be clean; I might bareback with unknowns or even chase later in life. But 18 feels like it is too young to get AIDS. No matter how hot it may be, it is a killer disease, no matter how you slice it. There is no cure. You can control the direct effects, but eventually, all cases take their toll, and it will kill you. As for getting more guys into it, if you took away the heavier consequences, and pushed the fact that it is natural, better feeling, easier sex, you would have no problem getting the young ones in the game early. -
Spain has a pretty good Age of Consent Law. 13 years, but if deceit is used to gain consent of someone under 16, charges can be laid. I think the big thing is education. If the Western world (America in particular) actually gave any real measure of sexual education to their children, I think that many of these points would be rendered moot. Whatever, that is just my view.
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Did he know that he was your first time? I know this is a hardcore bareback community, but that sounds kinda awful even for us, for a first time bottoming. Yikes.
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I think it is time for a general "first time" thread. Not first time anything in specific, just your first time having sex at all. So please post the tale of your introduction to the world of sex in this thread! I would go first, it's only courteous, but I have yet to have sex with anyone... /
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Don't be so sure... Growing up, I had a very distant father (worked nights, slept all day, and got shit faced on the weekends) and two brothers that made my life hell, so they were like older brothers I never had. Now, I am left with a huge desire to meet the man that my sex drive wanted my father to be, and the men that I always wanted my brothers to be. Never had a desire to actually fuck any one in the family, but, like I said, I want a daddy/older brother someday. Color you horny, I'm 18.