SFCumdog

I know that relationship advice is not really what anyone is on here for for, per se, but I also know that all you guys have been around the block and have experienced a lot too and just feel that I couldn't find a better bunch of guys to ask advice from, so here goes...

I'm about a year and a half out of a 30 year relationship with a guy that was just slightly older than me. (i'm early 50's). Though close in age, it turned out over time that we really were two very different people and we eventually grew apart. I was a naive college boy when he met me, but he turned me into a pig who just can't ever get enough. Then he proceeded to hold that against me after he did it. And then I got pozzed in the process. But ya know, it's kind of like Pandora's Box, once that lid gets lifted there's no putting the pig back in the pen again. And his being older than me, though not by much in age, but by a wide gulf in experience, always made me feel like the boy in the relationship, and him the older, more experienced, man.

Since it ended, I've been enjoying myself... a lot. There's been lots of hungry bottoms out there that have kept my fat cock happy and who've begged me to load them up. And a few that have loaded me up too. But I've been feeling like I'd like to find a real partner in crime. Recently I met a guy through a popular online dating app. He's cute, he's sexy, he's European (though in the same city as I am), he's got a great sarcastic sense of humor like I do, he professes to be a pig like me with the backstory to prove it.... and he's half my age. There are times when I'm with him that I feel like there's no age difference between us whatsoever. And then there are times when I feel like I don't even know what the fuck he's talking about as he goes on about trash TV, the latest "celebs" in US Weekly, internet memes, stuff that he wants to go to see and do and clubs to go to, etc... 

It's not like I'm not open to doing any of this. And for once I feel like there is somebody who actually gets me, and I get him too. I'm incredibly attracted to him and it seems he is to me too. I guess what I just want to know is can a relationship like this work or is there just too much of an age/culture/experience difference between guys like us? And I'm also having the additional mental hurdle of now being the older guy/Daddy in the relationship, which just feels so different to me. Have any of you made that switch and was it difficult for you too?

Thanks in advance for whatever advice you're willing to give me. I know my pig brothers will be real about this with me, unlike most anyone else.

You'll be amazed the older you get, the more of this type of stuff that will keep happening to you. I have more fun now with hot twinks than I ever would have thought possible! But I guess the whole Daddy issues thing makes sense when you think about it. I like to think that I'm giving them a positive experience with a guy that's older than them. It's likely something they've never had in life. We all need that sometimes.

Geez, I got 294! I knew I was fun, but I had no idea that i was THAT much fun  

Kurt Russell in all those early 1970's Disney movies. He had the most adorable smile. And guess what, I still think he's sexy.

I gotta say, I usually need to be into the guy for the equipment to work properly. Or else it just doesn't happen. But I've also come to realize that some guys just don't photograph well, or else can't manage to take a good picture of themselves. At least twice I've had guys on BBRT chase me and keep messaging me, but there was just something about their pics that wasn't doing it for me. I just didn't wanna take the chance as that situation is even more uncomfortable then.

With both of these guys I finally gave in to each on separate nights when I really needed to get off and there'd be no chance of equipment failure. And fuck me... they were both the hottest, horniest, perviest, sexy fucks I could have hoped to find. In both cases we played for hours. And then we met up to play a few more times afterwards.

But in both cases also, karma came back and bit me in the ass. After being pursued by both for a couple years, once I finally connected and found that I REALLY liked them, both ended up leaving town inside of three months after our first hot session.

And one other thing, they both ended up being really great guys. It was my loss and I still regret it.

Have there been any outcomes reported for people who achieve daily adherence, and whom have sex with poz guys who adhere daily and are undetectable?

where exactly in vallejo is it?