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As a bottom I also feel that the pain inflicted by the top is necessary to make sure he gets off at all costs and the sore that may linger for days will bring it all back about the rough pounding I got.

To me, not retaining the top’s cum permanently it’s just not an option. I think not retaining cum is most disrespectful to the top. But maybe two factors also help me. I’m tight so it’s harder for the cum to leak out. Lastly, top’s really get turned on by my tightness and they tend fuck me deep and hard when they are cumming so cum stays deep inside.

On 1/6/2024 at 10:00 AM, blackrobe said:

I find South Asians very appealing and have given up my ass to those that have needed to fuck and breed it. 

What I've discovered is that over two thirds of them treated me with what felt like contempt or loathing. I came out of the majority of these meetups having been caused pain as a result of that contempt, either from being fucked in a way that hurt, or being manhandled in a way that showed a lack of care for my body and mind as they were using it to get off. It's fairly common to see expressions of disgust flashing on their face as they use me. In every case I told them they were hurting me and asked them to stop or do something different. In most cases they went back to doing what they wanted fairly quickly and in a few cases I called a stop and left. I've also noticed a strong leaning towards wanting to degrade me and almost punish me.

I've worked with a lot (I mean a lot) of South Asians and I wonder if the roots of how I (and perhaps by extension other white subs) get treated aren't deeply embedded in their cultures. I've had many work experiences where I saw profound homophobia from South Asian colleagues. Perhaps this is internal and external homophobia in the men that need to fuck hole, I really don't know. 

As a counterpoint, I've had some great experiences with South Asians, especially the enby who has been a regular for a long time. It makes me wonder whether all the internal work my enby friend did to accept their gender expression (they are quite femme) helped them unplug from whatever it is that made these other South Asian men treat me with such little care or respect.

As a result of my negative experiences I am extremely cautious with South Asian men now. I think the question of upfront desire for a specific race or ethnicity is only part of the equation. How we've been treated by men of that race or ethnicity has to be layered on top of it too, as it strongly affects our future choices. 

I happen to be a sub bottom that really gets into pleasing tops from different ethnic and cultural backgrounds. At times, this means just being a sexual outlet for men that would prefer women but they are not as readily sexually available in their culture. These guys tend to be on the rough side when fucking bottoms, including causing pain because they ironically despise guys who sexually submit to them. But it’s not personal, it’s a cultural thing. And it does not necessarily deter me from wanting to be fucked by them.

As others commented, I agree that breeding involves a lot more than the physical and that maybe the top’s cum left deep inside the bottom enhances a male bonding. Upon being bred I take this desire to keep the top’s load inside me as a sign of respect, appreciation, desire and submission. I also like to keep his smell on me for as long as I can and I let the top know how his fucking left me feeling which usually turns him on and to repeat hookups.

The next to the last one

I was a late bloomer and did not suck my first dick until age 23 but I swallowed his cum without hesitation.

On 10/4/2023 at 10:50 PM, VistaCaBB said:

When I bottom I like a Top to do as he wishes.  It might hurt a little if he shoves it in and starts hammering it home but just for a little bit.

I totally agree, it’s the top’s absolute choice, even if it hurts, for me it’s all about getting the top off.

While on a work assignment near the Mexican border I met a top in his early twenties on A4A. At first I was not too interested as I thought that he wouldn’t be sufficiently dom for me. But, he kept insisting on hooking up and finally relented. Man, he was hot. And he put two loads deep in my guts, all in less than 30 minutes as he had to get up early for work the next day. This experience definitely taught me to be more open minded and receptive.

On 10/6/2023 at 6:50 AM, DesertChaos said:

Agree  100% with this post.   Bottom's cock is totally irrelevant.  My cock is the one that matters, and his role is to focus on using his hole to get me off.   Nothing worse than a bottom that is j/o'ing themselves while I'm trying to fuck, and even worse are the ones that promptly cum and want me to stop.   Bottom's with useless limp cocklets rule!  

As a sub bottom totally agree that my dick is irrelevant, and my manpussy is my only sex organ. I’m grateful to the Alpha tops who over time have taught me my proper role as a true bottom and this has made me very happy .

On 6/17/2023 at 4:07 AM, Kayne said:

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On 8/13/2023 at 5:51 PM, DFWBiGuy said:

Love guys who get turned on by the fact that I’m bi.

I’m also one of those bottoms that really love to get fucked and bred by bi guys. I really get turned on thinking that when a bi guy breeds me balls deep I’m also trying to focus really hard on pleasing him more than a woman.

On 7/29/2023 at 2:15 AM, KingB028 said:

Haven't used any type of commercial lube in years. It just ruins everything really, from the smell to the taste

Spit and/cum only. Its natural and generally makes the fucking better.

 

As a sub bottom that lives to please and totally submit to the top, my goal is to take his dick with just spit and precum even if my tight hole suffers pain in the process, this enhances my faggot sub status and makes it easy to clean the top’s dick after getting pounded.

I think spit and precum is the gold standard for fucking even if at the beginning it might be uncomfortable for the bottom, and it gives the top the option to fuck on a whim, to put in when he wants to.

For me the ideal is to will my dick soft while getting used by the top to show him my total commitment to focus on his orgasm and not on mine. I’ve evolved on how to avoid getting hard and just feeling the top’s power and control over me, including denying my own orgasm. So for me, a locking device would be unnecessary.

Guys married to women have been the most reliable cock feeders, and they love for me to swallow their loads. They always connect and seldom flake out.

More than just feeling the pain, it’s really luring for the bottom to test how far he’s willing to accomplish his purpose of totally submitting to the top, including to let the top unilaterally make the decision of which whip to use and with what force to use it without any discussion.

On 4/18/2022 at 2:54 PM, DickDownDaddy said:

Is it possible to change a guys gag reflex by forcing a cock down the guys throat? Or maybe doing it several times?

I imagine that there'll be a certain amount of puking involved but will the boy finally loose the urge to gag?

I know that this sounds brutal but I'm curious to know if this is a thing?

I guess I should admit that thinking about it gets me hard.

I confess that I’m a lousy cocksucker and it may have to do with my throat turning sharply. That being said, my sub instinct to please a dom top might push me into having an alpha top brake my throat in if it ultimately pleases him. As I said before, I don’t necessarily seek pain but accept it if it’s part of the process of pleasing the top. Tops that push the limits help the bottom to be a better bottom, even if there’s pain.

On 6/6/2023 at 12:41 AM, marvel said:

The weather is consistently nice now so park cruising is back on the menu. I went late Saturday night to one of my favourite spots and there were about a dozen guys milling about in the area. Not a lot of action initially but I went into a central spot and got on my knees to let everyone know I was hungry for some dick. The first guy who approached was not very attractive to me but I knew sucking his dick would attract more guys and sure enough there were soon three more guys gathered around wagging their cocks in my face to be sucked. I got to work and pulled off my shorts to show I was wearing a jockstrap. Did not take long before I felt a finger probing at my hole. Sucking dick is fine but getting fucked & bred is always the goal. I stood up and leaned up against a tree with my ass sticking out and two of the guys were horny enough to fuck and deposit their anon seed in me. I love being a slut.

I totally agree, sucking is just foreplay, the opening act, but getting fucked and bred is the main event.

46 minutes ago, Phallarchist said:

Men have rights, faggots have duties. It's a good rule. However, men do have the bare-minimum responsibility to physically dominate, actively penetrate, and thrust to completion. Male passivity is anathema.

 

That’s exactly the natural order of things, bottoms that understand and submit to that natural order are happy bottoms.

I’m on the tight side but ideally I would like to have a top take me just with spit and precum, know it’ll probably hurt but ultimately I would feel like a very accomplished sub bottom. Haven’t had that experience yet but looking for it.

It’s the ultimate bottom’s duty to clean the top’s dick, the only exception being when an uncut dick becomes super sensitive after shooting its load and the top is put off by it. In that case, a good bottom may want to wait a few minutes to clean it. ATM is also a great incentive for the bottom to keep his hole clean and withstand a spit fuck with no lube.

4 hours ago, Faggotuser said:

No, I slap it in the face, fuck it even harder while I choke it to get it to stfu then I make sure to drain my balls in it as deep as I can. Then I spit in its face and remind it to NEVER tell a top what to do or ask him to pull out. Faggots take loads with no questions asked, simple as that.

He definitely seemed like a selfish bottom who did really understand his true role in life.  On the plus side, maybe this experience corrected his erred ways and ultimately taught him to be a better bottom. In my case, dom tops have helped me to become a better bottom and for that I’m very grateful.

Definitely born a sub bottom but did not get properly fucked until my early 20s. At age 9 when playing soccer, afterwards an older player came after me wrestled me to the ground so that I was on my stomach and forcefully lied on top of me while while dry humping my ass  through both shorts until he came. At 13 a neighborhood guy two years older  also dry hump me in a playful way and afterwards told me I had the ass of a beautiful girl. Both encounters drove home the thought I was really a girl and should be looking for guys like that but actually acted very masculine to avoid being found out so I missed a lot of opportunities. Somehow, some guys just were able to see me ss a bottom.

19 hours ago, barefucker44 said:

I think all btms want to be bred, just a matter of time before they admit it to themselves and beg for it.

This is the total truth, it’s just how a bottom is psychologically programmed.

It’s the top’s absolute prerogative to finger a hole without asking for permission. He’s not only asserting his power over the bottom but also to help him decide whether it’s going to be a spot fuck or more lube depending on the tightness and lastly to inspect it’s cleanliness.