TightBott7

Now looking back at my high school years, I do recognize and sometimes even regret missed sexual opportunities. But I’m not too hard on myself, as I also now realize that it might not have been the right time in my life to start having sex and all the consequences that might have triggered.  Nothing wrong with having dessert but only after dinner.

I’m not sure why this continues to be a topic of discussion. If a bottom takes a raw dick in his ass, it goes without saying that he will willingly clean his top’s dick after the deed further enhancing his commitment to please and serve the top.

On 4/24/2021 at 12:29 AM, fskn said:

You hit the nail on the head! Convincing a reluctant bottom to take my cock bare is a big part of the fun. I don't always win, but if I short-circuited the process by meeting avowed barebackers only, my dick would miss out on those delicious, tentative, warm, wet negotiations. The pleasure of winning justifies the occasional loss. (Consent is sexy, and if the bottom is a holdout but a nice person, I'll happily pivot to fucking his throat, making out, or even just chatting. The next one will take my bare cock up his ass.)

A counselor for a PrEP study in which I participated years ago was eager to talk frankly about my bareback encounters. He shared this insight: most bottoms want to get fucked bare even if they say they don't. So that they will feel less fearful and less guilty — less responsible in general, for the outcome — they want to believe that going bare was the top's decision, not their own.

"Just the tip" works surprisingly well. Or maybe, "don't worry, I'm just teasing your hole with the head of my dick", if the bottom is likely to recognize "just the tip" for the cliché that it is.

Having a condom out, visible, and within reach, and saying, "I can stop and put this on whenever you like" really puts a bottom's mind at ease. The readily accessible rubber becomes a paradoxical prop. Before he knows it, the bottom is getting fucked bare, and it just feels too good for him to stop.

Sometimes a bottom will let things go quite far, but still insist that I pull put before cumming. I'm fine with that because (a) I produce lots of precum, which is already coating his insides and (b) if his ass is good it's hard for me to time the pull-out perfectly, so the first spurt of cum might accidentally end up inside him. 😏

I'd love to hear more ideas for helping bottoms overcum a fear of bare cock...

From the bottom’s perspective, being talked into taking dick raw is the biggest turn on. That being said, no matter what is discussed or agreed to ahead of time, in deciding whether I will even hook up with a guy I have to always consider that I might ultimately get caught in the heat of the moment and take his dick raw. If getting fucked raw by a particular guy overcomes my risk threshold, then I just decline the hook up.

As a bottom, I don’t necessarily enjoy nor look forward to pain for the sake of feeling pain. But, when engaging in the activity of giving an alpha top pleasure, pain has a deeper meaning.  Tolerating and accepting pain inflicted by the top is validation of my commitment to please the top, to totally succumb to his will.  Similarly, a top gets turned on by the bottom’s willingness to withstand pain just to make him happy, enhancing his alpha top status, a win-win situation for both.

Overlooking as already discussed that pulling out does not prevent HIV transmission, asking the top to pull out is so wrong for two reasons: First, the bottom is inappropriately topping from the bottom when making this request: and second, can any bottom really expect to comply with this request just instants before the fucking gets best?

I had Covid-19 last December and it was not pretty. I very strongly recommend all consider being vaccinated. I’ve just had my second Pfizer shot a couple of days ago, had some symptoms as already described by others here, but believe me, the actual illness is much worst.

My sub bottom nature would make me inclined to dutifully accept any forceful throat fucking the top wants to lash out on me, I’m only there to satisfy him. Unfortunately, my throat naturally curves sharply and makes it very difficult to accommodate large dicks. What saves me from major torture is that tops usually pick me to pound my tight ass, not to throat fuck me.

Mine happened at 24. I had previously sucked off my best friend and swallowed his cum, but he never fucked me even though I had been fantasizing about getting fucked since I was like 9.

At 24, I went out to a Gay bar in a Chicago suburb with two friends. Then a guy about my age approached me and went right to the point: he wanted to fuck and get sucked. He was not particularly good looking, kind of thin and nerdy but it was his dom attitude that seduced me. I said yes and went to his place. The actual fucking was not very pleasant. Even though he had a small to average size dick, it hurt like hell. He took my ass raw and then he just sent me on my way. I could not have been in his apartment more than 30 minutes. A few days later on a Saturday, he called me and asked to come over to get fucked again and to buy some lube. I went as asked. The second time he fucked me I withstood the pain better but again he sent me home right after he shot his load in my ass. In all this I realized that at that point in my life I wanted a BF not a fuck buddy. When he called me again, I declined and he got pissed off. Never heard from him again. All in all, this experience reinforced my notion that I was a total bottom. To this day, I wondered how this guy knew I was a total bottom before he approached me even though I look very masculine.

On 12/28/2016 at 3:14 PM, piggerytales said:

I get annoyed when a bottom tries to wank his cock as I'm fucking him

I think it’s more than annoying, it’s outright disrespectful, it’s a strong message from the bottom that he is not getting enough pleasure from the top and/or that the bottom is selfish, making his own pleasure a priority. Not a good attitude for a bottom to have, rendering him undeserving of the top’s attention.

Married, straight guys looking for sexual relief they are not getting at home are the horniest, not only do they cum quickly but also very abundantly. I have no problem with quick cummers, I’m on the tight side so it’s sort of a compliment of my ass.

1 hour ago, BreedingTop71 said:

The sub is there to be used by Men like Me. The sub bottom needs to know who is in charge and as a Dom Top it is my right to assert myself in any way I see fit. 
 

I have stopped the bottom to spank him or even beat him (for recurring laziness) if he is sucking me in a way that is less than devoted. The sub should be 100% devoted to Me, and his pride and joy should be when I release in his mouth or ass. 
 

mine is Alpha seed. It is SCARCE and I know it. 

I agree. While pain might be temporarily uncomfortable, a good sub accepts it unquestioningly as part of his duty to obey and give absolute pleasure to the top and a bottom who falls short of the top’s expectations should be ready to take submissively the physical corrections applied by the top.

Is this a gay variation of the oedipus complex? Sure sounds like it ...

I think that for a sub bottom who’s really in love with his dom top, a permanent relationship could be worked out if structured with the sub agreeing to be faithful to the top while accepting that a top has different needs that involve fucking and using as many bottoms as possible. The only sex the bottom could engage with others  outside the relationship would be in obedience to the directions of the top. A good sub bottom would not be possessive of the top and celebrate the top’s sex with other bottoms, and this would only enhance his submissive, subservient status.

On 2/19/2021 at 12:12 AM, TightBott7 said:

Thanks to this and other threads, today I ordered a number of jockstraps to enhance my sub bottom status.  Can't wait to to get them and post some pics.

Just got my first jockstraps...I think I’m getting an urge to be a slut...

26 minutes ago, BreedingTop71 said:

Theres nothing wrong with that. Shame though that you cannot connect emotionally. There are many aggressive tops out there like me, who like rough aggressive sex and deny the bottom of orgasms (you guys do not need them! Only the Man should cum, not the fag) but that doesn’t keep us from having a relationship. 

“Only the Man should cum, not the fag...” boy, how true, a whole universe lies in that statement 

54 minutes ago, BreedingTop71 said:

It’s hard to get proper training without a long term Master or Superior in your life. Reason being is simple: bondage is about trust. Period. As a Master I can tell you there is a ratio of 1 Dom/Master for every 10 subs/slaves. At first sight it wouldn’t seem that way, say looking in Recon. Eventually you realize that most self-proclaimed “Doms” are not really doms. They are more like “switch” or even regular guys who enjoy the fantasy of having someone at their service but are unable to know what to do with them. 
 

for me it was easy to know what I was, as a gay man I always wanted to top. Then I realized I enjoyed the feel of sexually “using” the he bottom. Then it progressed into being rough and the first time I did impact play, I came in 10 seconds, that’s how much I liked it. I was ready for seconds in less than 5 minutes. 
 

for you, the road is harder but my advice is not to focus on looks, race or age. Focus on chemistry and comfort level. You have to feel connected at one level, have the same goals. For instance I am a key holder (need my sub in chastity. Won’t have him any other way) and I tend to enjoy inflicting pain. I have to know my sub very well before I use him and tend to get romantically involved with them because I tend to be very controlling and protective outside the bedroom. I also like to breed and guys whose main interest is to collect loads do not turn me on (not passing judgement, just not my thing). 
 

my sub will never have to use the safe word because I know his body well, I progressed into the things we do, starting from basic stuff like handcuffs all the way into whipping and predicament. 
 

progression is what you want. Don’t jump off the deep end of this pool. Especially not with the wrong guy. It may scar you either physically or mentally. Maybe even both

Thanks fir sharing your insights. I knew always that I was a bottom but only recently began realizing that being a sub was something different. As I’m also of a very submissive nature always seeking the approval of my alpha top, and I’m now slowly starting to give my sub nature more actual experience.

It’s what position the top prefers, but I really love being on my stomach and feeling the power and weight of the top all over my body, but in this position I run a high risk of cumming without touching myself while getting pounded and pissing off the top for cumming before him

Thanks to this and other threads, today I ordered a number of jockstraps to enhance my sub bottom status.  Can't wait to to get them and post some pics.

On 9/20/2020 at 4:58 PM, endowed said:

I love to get rimmed but I can't find anyone who is willing to do it.  I would never force someone to do it, though.

Initially, as a confirmed sub-bottom, I never thought I would have any use in licking a guy's asshole since I would not be fucking anyone.  Then, I cross paths with a dom top who insisted that I rim his ass under very unusual circumstances that maybe I will share in another threat.  The top presented his request as proof of my submissiveness to him so I just did it not sure what to expect.  I was pleasantly surprised by the manly, musky, sweaty scent of his asshole and I rimmed him with enthusiasm.  I question how true bottoms would take raw loads deep in their asses and then flinch when requested to lick the top's hole.  

I think it's fair to say that opposites attract.  So, being a committed sub-bottom, I'm better suited for a total  dom-top. This way be both know what to expect sexually and by our actions we reenforce each other's roles:  the top enhances my submissiveness and I enhance the top's dominance.  Versatility it's just not going to do it.

The closest I’ve had to real incest was when I was 13 and some guys who worked with my dad stayed overnight. It was decided that one, a Latin guy, would share my bed. He must  have been in his 20s. He slept in white boxers that really made his dark brown skin stand out. I had no idea as to really why but everything about him excited me, especially his man smell. Eventually we fell asleep but then I woke while being spooned by him. Feeling his strong and warm body engulfing me felt incredible, like I found my place in the universe. Then I noticed that his bulge was perfectly resting against my ass. I’m not sure if it was already hard, but I loved the contact between his dick and my ass. I got really hard and started to very slowly push my ass against his dick. Next he started to push his dick against my ass as he grabbed my body harder. I felt his dick getting harder and I loved it. Unfortunately, he either woke up or had second thoughts and abruptly got out of the bed and went to the bathroom probably to jerk off. When he returned to bed he just turned over and fell asleep again. And nothing else happened the rest of the night.

Now as an adult I’m tempted to think as to the possibilities lost in not having lost  my virginity at such an early age. I know that for many on this thread it was a positive, eye opening experience, even with trusted family members. But in my case, I wonder if it would have been the right time and or person to do it with, it may have set me off in a totally different direction and not an overly entirely positive one. So as hot as this near-miss was, I have no regrets. 

If one is going to crave to get fucked, might as well go for the whole enchilada and crave for bareback it better be bareback 

I agree, the bottom has consented to take a dick raw, no further discussion is required with the top, the bottom just takes the load.

Do tops usually prefer for the bottom to have an anal orgasm instead of cumming while the bottom is being fucked?

I’m tight so an average size dick is most welcomed, and it also means I can better take a rough pounding without leaving my whole wrecked