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I had a bottom on Grindr hook up with me this afternoon. He just wanted cum in his hole, not a relationship, which is fine with me. I just needed a hole to breed with no strings attached. Turned out he was shorter, slimmer and younger that I expected but he didn't waste any time getting naked and face down on my bed, pulling his ass cheeks apart to show me his pucker. I slapped some lube on his ass and just pushed my cock in. From the groaning and moaning I could tell I was doing it right for him, but he used his inner muscles to squeeze my cock shaft too. Soon enough he had me shooting my load in his hole while he used his muscles to milk out as much as I could produce, and with me staying hard he just didn't want me to pull out.

At least now I have a good regular again. He told me to call any time I need to dump a load, and I know I'll be doing that more and more often.

It seems like the strangest thing to say you're sexy but I don't want to fuck you. The only good reason I can think of for that is that their profile is either fake or decades out of date.

On 7/26/2021 at 1:57 PM, BootmanLA said:

I think that's horsecrap. We live in a world where we have to all interact with each other, and while we have laws to regulate some interpersonal behavior, we rely HEAVILY on customs of decent behavior to fill in all the gaps where the law can't reach (either effectively, or not at all). We hold doors for older people, or people whose arms are full of packages. We step aside on a sidewalk for someone coming through in a wheelchair who can't herself  turn sideways to take up less room. We let that wheelchair user get onto public transit first so that the bus or train doesn't leave them stranded repeatedly, since we can move faster after they're aboard and still make it on. We let the disabled have priority for seating on that transit. I could come up with a thousand examples of things we expect decent human beings to do even when they're not mandated by law, or even when they're mandated but can't be enforced readily.

If we normalize people breaking their word and cheating in relationships because it's "hot" - if we say "not my business" and treat those shitholes as though they were decent people - we debase our society as a whole. We tell people that it's okay to do whatever you want, no matter who you hurt, if you can find some self-justifying reason to do it. That's a world I don't think most of us want to live in.

And look - I'm not moralizing that sex is bad, or sex with lots of people is bad, or anything like that. I'm for people honestly enjoying themselves as much as they want. But not at the expense of lying to someone about behavior about which you've expressly promised otherwise.

The 1st Amendment already normalizes lying and cheating, so Americans might not fully grasp the concept of loyalty and honesty to a single person.

When I'm in the mood I'll pull out and let the guy swallow my load, but even if I stay inside I love having my cock sucked clean.

I can also contribute that one in three women of the 50-something women I fucked took it in their ass, but trying to count up the number of men I've bred or been bred by and I gave up trying to count years ago at well into the 400s. Must be close to 1000 by now

The ones who made sex a dismal failure for me all claimed they were experienced bottoms although I think most of them maybe had a pencil dick in his butt and convinced himself that all dicks were much the same. The one thing I hate hearing is "Stop, please, it hurts too much". especially if I haven't bottomed out in his ass yet. I finally reached the position that once my cock is in your ass I'm not stopping until I cum, not matter what happens. So yeah, I've had a few guys shit all over me.

I've never thought of myself as attractive, except that I attract a lot more attention than other guys do. I've been told that if I could get my teeth straightened out I would fashion model level attractive, but even without the dental work I've been told I'm anywhere between 8 and 9. I'm the kind of slutty guy that will fuck almost anyone regardless of attractiveness - anyone except the gut hanging over his belt kind of guy.

As much as I love sex it's the thrill of the risk that turns me on. That's what made me decide never to wear condoms, whether I was fucking men or women. Once I decided to fuck and be fucked only by men the decision to bareback satisfied my need for risk, and it explains my preference for guys who take a lot of cock and cum from as many different tops as possible.

I was 13, in the toilet attached to the school sports pavilion. I'd been finding stroking my erect dick since I was 10 and had something like an orgasm except what came out was more like piss than cum. That day it just felt, looked and smelled so different, so I knew that was my first ejaculation.

14 minutes ago, TotalTop said:

Where did this happen Los Angeles, SF, NYC, Paris, Rome, Milan, or West Berlin?

The district of Chelsea in London, England. The man who arranged the event had the power and/or influence to have several recognizable British 70s personalities in attendance - a former Prime Minister, the leader of the Liberal Party, members of British pop-rock band Slade, and one particularly famous rock legend and his lead guitarist popped in on their way to Wales to record an album along with many less well known TV actors and characters.

20 hours ago, TotalTop said:

What sort of auction was this? A consensual male BDSM or sex kink "sex slave" auction where wealthy men bid on other men they pay and who are "kept" to have sex with the older man for money like a Master/sugar daddy?

 

It was a very high end "sex slave' auction, with a one year contract. Apparently in late August 1975 an 18 year old wannabe fashion model with crooked teeth was worth around $160K, except I don't react well to authority.

13 hours ago, Chirpy said:

I graduated from a 2 year AudioVisual production program at a local community college way back in '89.  I've lost all those skills since.  I do however have many years in marketing, so I could promote porn I guess?

You never know until you meet porn-makers. I was shit-faced drunk when I was offered a change to appear in German porn. Even porn needs advertising and marketing, and there's probably contact information on any porno DVD or magazine.

1 hour ago, BootmanLA said:

I can understand the chuckle. But good porn often is good in part because of attention to details, and sets can be part of that (and conversely, bad porn can be worse because of the sets). I'd imagine that the proliferation of amateur porn, there are fewer "behind the scenes" jobs like this available, though.

The closest I got to getting involved with porn was pure chance. I was drunk as fuck one night while serving in Germany and accepted a ride back to barracks from a total stranger in a shiny black Mercedes, who proceeded to give me a ride back to barracks while explaining that he made pornos and gave me his business card before inviting me to call if I was still interested once I sobered up. Sadly I was due to be moved to a different country a week later, so the only fun I had was the actual auditioning. 

Just for the hell of it I've attached an ID photo of myself taken - mainly because it's the oldest photo I still have of myself (ex-wife took everything, including carpets and curtains, when she walked out on me). I would be interested to know how old you think I was when the picture was taken.

12 hours ago, pervinmt said:

I'm sorry, but that really gave me a big chuckle. "Do we put the couch against this wall, or that wall? Do we need a fake plant beside it?"

I don't blame you for chuckling, but that really is how theaters work according to a workmate who did theater work in the evenings. His entire job was scene-shifter - where someone painted a backdrop and his job was to position is between scenes. 10 minutes work for $140 ain't bad.

What cinematographic experience do you have, or make-up experience, or set arranging? You still probably need to get in by word of mouth, but you've got to have a sellable skill.

If I'm fisting someone I use whatever lube they have, usually J-Lube but some prefer crisco. If Im fucking , or getting fucked I like coconut oil.

On 8/30/2021 at 4:22 PM, m4u said:

Hi guys.  

I am very much a cock sucker and love sucking cock.  When it comes to getting fucked I have usually got his dick wet before hand but as I am rather tight it can be difficult.  I usually need lube to help, however, I love to suck the cock after, but the taste of lube makes me feel ill.  Anyone got any suggestions for a good tasting lube? Also its handy if its not too messy too as with hookups its awkward. long lasting might help too...

Coconut oil is a really good lube that tastes of - well coconuts. The coconut taste isn't overpowering and you can even cook with it if you run our of cooking oil.

In my youth I wasn't even looking for it but it always found me, and when it did I couldn't say no either. The problem with that was it was a criminal offense to be caught engaging in gay sex, and a firing offense just to be gay, so I was screwing women as well for cover

I have a buddy who introduced me to role-playing the broken condom when I fuck him, but that is the only time I use condoms. Basically we cut the tip off the condom and act like we're playing safe, although of course the condom slides down almost immediately and acts like a cock ring more than a condom.

The only time I think about shit like NNN is when other people bring it up, but I would much prefer to not think about it at all.

Somewhere in the world someone probably has digitized copies of the movies I did in the city of Detmold in Germany as a 19 year old in 1976. Nowadays with everyone having a handheld movie camera on their phone my dick and ass have been photographed and filmed multiple times.

On 11/12/2021 at 12:30 AM, Hairypiglet said:

Yes, in the early 20th C the US medical field pressured parents into circumcision and it became the norm as most fathers want their sons in their image. So for us it's mostly circumcision despite race, ethnicity, religion, etc. However, having lived in the UK. I have experienced some stigma against my circumcision, I received a semi-circ. I still have a fair amount of foreskin to work with even when hard, but it doesn't cover my glans when soft either.

Personally, I hate circumcision. I hate my parents for doing it to me. They mutilated me for no reason without my consent before I could open my eyes. But I don't have a preference either way for a man who is cut or not. I have played with both.

Personally, in the States, I've never experienced any negativity toward being one way or the other. No one has ever turned me down for being cut and I have not turned anyone down for being cut, uncut, crooked, or hypospadiac.

Difference is polarizing to the ignorant. Try not to take it personally.

I owe my foreskin to the (Army) surgeon who told my (Army) father to fuck off when daddy asked for me to be circumcised. Since he had no religious reason and there was no medical reason the surgeon refused to perform a circumcision. Mine at least is short and tidy, and retracts so completely when I'm erect that you might think I have the perfect scar-free circumcision. All I know is that a lot of guys didn't even ask before sitting on it, so it can't be that ugly. Personal foreskin hygiene is so easy that there's no good reason for having stinky dick. To me the bonus is all the intense sexual feelings my circumcised brothers will never experience.

The whole idea of abstaining for an entire month is so absurd that I've decided that I'm having an AllNutNovember instead. Only at two so far so I need to step my pace up.

One thing I've found to work is coconut oil. It's solid at room temperature but turns to oil on body contact, and it lasts longer than water-based lubes. It's other benefits are that it is edible, and it washes off with simple soap and water.

From an unspecified age until I was 21 I fucked a lot of men as well as women and I have some tales to tell about that period in my life, but at 21 I married a woman because she loved fucking and I needed a beard. It wasn't until I was 41 that I had an opportunity to have my mid-life crisis without risk of being found out, and among the things I wanted to do was fuck a man again because I wanted to know why I could never put it out of my mind no matter how many women I fucked or how I fucked them.

I was 43 before I started barebacking regularly, and I knew that eventually I would get pozzed up, but I carried on regardless, listing myself as "Don't know, don't care" and sticking very strictly to a condom-free sex life. I don't know exactly when I got infected or who by, but I wasn't testing so the first I knew of my HIV status being positive was in hospital with an AIDS related double pneumonia that cam uncomfortably close to killing me.