FallenLad

I don't really care, they've done what I wanted them to do. It's nice to have some kind of acknowledgement that they enjoyed it, like a slap on the ass or a "thanks" but I don't get upset if they just leave.

This is my favourite way of getting bred. No awkward chat, or waiting for someone to make a move, just waiting face down and ass up for them to walk in and use me.

There's been occasions where I've not even seen their face, they've just dumped a load, muttered "thanks" and left.

On 5/5/2024 at 2:34 AM, atlfukbud said:

 -- most men would walk away when they felt my cage underneath my jock.

I've found this occasionally. I think it's either too much for some guys, or that they want to get off playing with a cock while fucking.

I've got the Mr S Leather VAC-U-LOCK Leather Harness. It wasn't cheap but tops that have worn it with my larger toys say it's comfortable to wear and very adjustable.

The only issue is that it's pretty much only for vac-u-lock compatible toys. But most of the larger ones come ready for that now anyway.

On 4/20/2024 at 1:27 PM, BigChaserHere said:

Don't take doxy on an empty stomach. You'll likely feel nauseous.

Also worth adding, don't take it if you've been drinking alcohol. I made the mistake of taking it after having one too many drinks and was violently sick (couldn't keep anything down) for 24h afterwards.

I never used to cage myself when I was getting fucked, but I've found that doing so makes it clear that I don't want my cock played with.

I've also started using Emla cream on my cock before locking it away. The effect of having a caged cock that is entirely numb is perfect. There's no distraction and I get to focus entirely on my hole.

The only 'problem' I've had is that my hole opens up really easily now, so even if just being fucked I can get sloppy pretty quickly.

But honestly I'd much prefer that than being too tight or uncomfortable. I've never had any other issues. Never been incontinent or any similar issues.

Poppers and just the slutty determination to get fucked and bred as many times as I can.

I've found being locked in chastity helps as it stops me from easily cumming and then just falling asleep.

I didn't used to, and if the guy was hot enough I would grudgingly let him use a condom. But now it's raw only. I'd rather wait for another guy who's happy to breed me.

No regrets. I've gone from a bottom who would struggle to get penetrated, and find it uncomfortable, to loving getting fucked.

While I can now take huge toys and fists, if I'm having an evening of regular sex it still feels amazing. Of course if stretching and fisting is incorporated into that sex then I'll be looser, but tops expect that.

X-lube, can mix it to just the right consistency, and it doesn't get tacky.

I've done this a couple of times, but while the visual is hot I found large anal beads easier.

As skaveboi says, just be careful and slow when pulling the chain out. You don't want to pinch or catch anything.

8 minutes ago, JamesL100 said:

Why use them in the first place? Many 'safe' guys will be so horny to fuck they will go raw .. as top or btm!

Oh believe me I rarely use them, most guys don't even ask. But there are some tops who won't be convinced, and one it breaks are happy to continue.

On 10/22/2019 at 10:45 AM, BareboyQ said:

Somebody ever tried to damage a condom by boiling/microwaving them or with some other kind of heat and was it successful?

Just curious 

I've got a batch of condoms that I've put in the freezer for a day, then left on the radiator. I did that for a little over a month each day swapping between. On the very rare occasion I get fucked with a condom those break about 2/3 of the time.

What do you crave most? Cock or loads deep in you?

Loads. I love a large cock fucking me but I don't care about the size as long as I get bred.

Do you ever feel satisfied or are the cravings insatiable?

Nope. Exhausted, but I always want more.

How many loads does it take to turn you into an “any cock, any hole, any load” guy?

Don't know bt I'm way past that point.

How old were you when you first realized it was about your hole/pussy/cunt and not your cock? Was it innate and there from the beginning or did you learn it over time?

16-17. I still liked fucking but getting fucked always felt more what I was made for.

The hottest opening line I ever heard was, “I don’t care about my cock.” Do you even think about cumming? Do you have a need to?

I only meet in chastity now, so any orgasms are from being fucked. But I'm happy even if I don't cum.

When you are home alone, do you play with your hole or your dick?

Both, but I'm always imagining getting fucked.

Are you afraid of how deep your cravings are and the levels you will submit to in an effort to satisfy them?

I used to be but I've embraced it now. I enjoy sex and I'm not ashamed of that.

Do you tell your friends about your cumdump desires or are those separate and secret?

A couple of close friends know about what I get up to but it's not really anybody else's business.

What would you choose…sucking a hot guy’s huge dick or taking a taking a heavy-set Daddy’s load up your ass?

A load .. anything else I do is to get to that.

Anonymous sesssions or do you prefer to see who is fucking you?

Don't care. Happy either way .. there's something thrilling about anon sex though.

Is there anything mor important to you than taking loads?

No. I'm not doing anything that will seriously jeopardise my health or life, but otherwise I focus on getting bred.

As a bottom sex with condoms was always super awkward and uncomfortable. Tops would lose their erection putting them on, or not be able to keep it, and things would dry out and just get irritating.

Got fucked a few times with a trusted partner raw and it was a thousand times better. No delay while he would have to put on a condom, he could just slide right in. And I could get fucked for ages without feeling uncomfortable. Have used condoms here and there ages ago, but honestly now I can't remember the last time I was fucked with one.

I'd love to say it's 4 .. but if I'm honest with myself it's really 6.

At the start of an evening I'll be 'sensible' about who I'm hooking up with. After a few shots and some poppers that number drastically shifts to the other end of the scale.

13 hours ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

It also shows a lack of respect and low self esteem for yourself.  Why would you want to spend time with someone whom you believe is so worthless?

If I'm bent over, getting fucked by someone who's name I don't know and maybe not even seen their face, it's a bit late to ask that they're being respectful.

I'm totally fine being called bitch, slut, whore, etc when in the moment. But the tone and context is crucial, it's different being called a "dumb whore" or a "worthless slut" where they are purposefully trying to degrade you.

Patience, practice, good lube ... and more patience. Continuing to gradually increase the size of your toys and playing/training regularly, while still taking time to recover in-between.

Also the position of the hands when trying is so important, too many people go with a 'praying' alignment with both hands symmetrical to each other. You're better with one slightly forward of the other so it's not as wide.

Never really cared what they look like, I just want to get fucked and bred.

Some of the best sex I've had has been older, ugly guys, who I wouldn't give a second glance to on the street, but haven fucked my brains out and been absolutely filthy in bed. Whereas some of the worst has been 'hot' guys who couldn't get hard or last longer than 2 minutes.

First time it was uncomfortable as hell. I was too nervous and we used rubbish lube which just felt like it was burning.
Over time I got more practice, used good silicone lube and started to enjoy getting fucked.

I'm nearly always limp when being fucked. And if a top can't pick up that I'm enjoying myself from my body and the dirty talk then they're just not paying attention.

Mine is always kept locked away. Less distractions and I don't really want it played with anyway.

Depends on how desperate I am to get fucked. If there's no raw cock on offer and I just need to get used then I don't care. But it's a last resort kinda thing.

Although most guys take very little convincing to go bare. Once they're fucking me I've sometimes reached back and slid the condom off. They nearly always fuck me raw straight away.. and once they are I know they're not going back.

I've had a couple of random hookups after playing with some larger toys, and they're fisted me as I was already pretty sloppy when they started fisting me.

My only concern (which I didn't have in the moment) is that all it takes is a jagged fingernail, or a guy who gets carried away, and suddenly I'll get a serious injury. So if you can check their hands first and make sure they start slow then you should be good.