PhoenixGeoff

I'll say this about the guys wishing their cock was a bit larger: I've been with men who were hung well who didn't have a clue when it came to how to use it. I've had amazing sex with men who were below average. Given the choice between a man who has a large cock and no skills and a man with a below average cock who really knows how to use it, I'll take the latter every time.

Always thought that Enigma made some good background fuck music. MCMXC a.D. is a good one. Yes, I'm well aware that I'm showing my age LOL

As for lighting, my ideal would be a dimly lit dungeon room with a sling. Enough to see the action (I particularly love watching my raw cock fucking a hot pig's ass) but dark enough to still feel nice and sleazy.

I'm kinda surprised Steve Parker's only gotten a single mention. He's one hell of a hot man and I love the way he works over his bottoms. I'd love to meet him sometime and buy him a beer. Looks like he'd be fun to hang out with.

Feel free to get in touch. It would be nice putting my liberal arts degree towards something useful for a change LOL.

FWIW, I'm not a fan of twinks, but definitely go for stuff with all kinds of guys over 30 or so. Kinky stuff is a big + too.

Oh and I promise that whatever you pay me will go into my "sex and drugs" party fund

Here's the latest volley from the condom nazis.

Since the IML censorship and similar tactics aren't working, it seems that the next step is pushing bareback companies out of business, or at least out of California.

Note that pressure to require condoms in porn is coming directly from AIDS activist groups. That would be the folks who think that YOU are incapable of making an informed decision about your own health and that they need to regulate your sexual activity for you.

This makes me want to go to California and shoot a bareback porno. Preferably right on the front steps of the AIDS Healthcare Foundation.

Hmm...I'm thinking of a pretty cool rape-style vid, except instead of watching a "straight" guy learn to enjoy gay sex, the target is a condom nazi instead, who learns about the joys of barebacking over the course of the porno.

Men's room of a bar last night. I'd gone to piss in the trough, and this hot bearded stud in a jock started sucking my cock. He got me nice and hard, and his ass was right there exposed and begging for it, so I bent him over and slid inside. Fucked his ass as a few other pigs watched. Came inside of course and watched as one of em knelt down and ate my load out of his ass.

Then I went for another beer.

Or they do bareback but don't want people who don't to find out.

I make a point of putting both my HIV status and "bareback only" in my profiles and I'm still surprised by guys who have "neg" and "safe sex only" who want to hook up with me and are perfectly fine with fucking raw, even taking my load, as long as it's on the downlow.

That oughta tell all those supposedly serosorting HIV- barebackers something. Guys will happily lie through their teeth, even about something like HIV, to get laid. Yes, that includes guys in "monogamous" relationships (I've had them hit me up too).

The other thing you can do is change your diet to encourage healthy bacterial cultures in your gut. Yogurt with live culture helps a lot in my experience, and I try to eat it every day, usually for breakfast. I've heard there are probiotic supplements too, if you're not a fan of yogurt.

That's actually good advice for everyone, but I'd imagine that guys who clean out regularly need it even more.

As a top, I'm pretty attuned to whether the guy I'm fucking is having a good time or not. If he's not, I'll adjust to where he is. That's not to say I don't get rough or intense...if I've got a bottom who really wants that I'm totally game.

As a bottom, my ideal situation has me getting into kind of a similar situation where I can get into pain. I'm not actually into the pain or discomfort per se (on the contrary, I'm really not a masochist at all). But I'll be damned if I'll let a real hardcore top know that he's too much for me to handle. When I'm in the right headspace with the right super-masculine guy, my competitive streak turns up and the sex becomes all about who's going to cry uncle first.

Incidentally, I can also be that top for the bottom who thinks he can handle me. It's hot finding a guy who can. But as I said, when I top I'm far more attuned to the bottom and making sure he's where he wants to be.

That's basically why I like to think that I'm a real chem pig, but my chem of choice is a huge fucking dose of testosterone

Thirteen guys in four years? That qualifies as being a slut? Jeez...what the fuck ever happened to having some standards?

Thirteen guys in a night is worth being proud of. Thirteen guys in a week is pretty good too. Frankly, I'd be disappointed with thirteen guys in a single year, let alone four.

Sometimes, you just gotta thank the deity of your choice that you were born gay.

Yeah, there's a real thrill having illicit sex of pretty much any kind, whether it's anonymous, in a public place, cheating, whatever. Hell, just being gay used to give me a bit of a thrill simply because so many people disapproved. Seeing some fundie get all tweaked over two guys in a relationship still makes me wanna go fuck in his church's sanctuary....

Just remember that slutty, cheating sex can lead to bad consequences.

My suggestion: I think it's a LOT more fun if your partner is as much of a pig as you are (especially if your tastes in other guys is similar). Lots more opportunities for really fun parties and sex.

Personally, if I were looking for a new relationship right now, I would make it absolutely clear right from the beginning that I expect it to be totally open and that I want him taking advantage of that at least as much as me.

But then, I really get off on the thought of my bf having sex with other guys.

Lots of guys talk about a "fuck flu" when they convert. Personally, I don't recall any sickness at all...it's one reason I have no clue who gave it to me...I could have been infected at any point over a few years.

The only things I noticed were (1) my seasonal allergies went away and (2) in the six months before I tested poz, I had two colds, both of which really knocked me on my ass for a week. At the time I got my first CD4 count, it was already fairly low (~320 or so, I remember they wanted me to start meds right away) so I figure I'd probably been carrying it around for quite a while already, so neither of those colds came from primary infection.

Really, an HIV test is the only reliable means of knowing and even then, there are false positives (unlikely but they do happen), so if you do come up poz you should get a second test to be sure.

Before spending the money on a sling, I tried to use the eye hooks in the ceiling. I began pulling on the hooks once installed and thought the drywall on the ceiling was going to come down on top so I immediately stopped and purchased a sling stand instead.

The trick is making sure your eyehooks are big enough and that you get all four securely in a joist (NOT just drywall). Having someone with a right tools (insert stud detector joke here) do it for you is definitely a good idea...having your bottom come crashing down is not a good scene (and potentially a really dangerous one, especially if someone's hand or a large toy is inside him at the time).

The Fort Troff design is fairly standard from what I've seen. I personally would not recommend using PVC or other plastic pipe to construct it if you are going to go that way. Steel is much more reliable, ideally welded, like likaleather says. But then, of course, it's probably not going to be easy to put it away. I'd personally recommend biting the bullet and just buying the sling from someone like Fort Troff if you want to go that way. That way someone else will have already worried about the design and materials and you'll feel more confident about your setup.

I never asked while I was neg. I didn't really care whether I converted or not and figured I wasn't endangering who I was with.

Now that I'm poz, I'm very open about my status. It's on all of my online profiles, and I usually bring it up when setting up a hookup as well, whether that's online or in person. I always answer honestly if asked as well.

There are a few situations where I might not mention it...anonymous sex being the obvious one (like fucking through a glory hole). I figure if you are having truly anonymous bareback sex with no questions asked, you're either poz already or chasing or don't care.

I am thinging about bluiding my own sling and frame do you guys have any ideal of what size Pipe I should use I was thinking sch80 1" pipe ?

I've seen and been in slings built with frames of varying kinds before and I have to say that I really don't like them much at all. Even if the frame is well built and can support plenty of weight, they usually feel less than safe, which can be a real distraction.

Remember, a sling not only has to support the weight of the bottom but also will be subjected to forces backwards and forwards (when you get a reasonably active top fucking) or even side to side. It's very difficult to create a rigid structure that will stand up to all of that force and still feel (and be) solid.

IMO, you're much better off going for the eyehooks in beams if that's at all possible. It's still fairly easy to remove the sling when its not in use and the eyehooks themselves can be camouflaged pretty effectively if you don't want to have to explain what they're doing there (hang potted plants, suspend lamps, whatever).

Yeah, I definitely like to fantasize about a world where all men are forced to turn to each other for sexual gratification. Frankly, I believe that if straight guys could get over the whole gay stigma, they'd rapidly reach the decision to fuck other men because (a) in general, we're much fucking easier ( NSA with guys really means NSA...you can fuck a man and never see him again if you want © we know how to make a cock feel good, after all we have one of our own, and (d) sex with guys is MUCH better...from real blowjobs to holes that feel much better to sex partners with a lot more experience and skill.

Reproduction could be fixed through technology...maybe a method of combining genes from two guys and implanting the new DNA in a clone or something.

AD here. Being POZ doesn't get you kicked out. I know, I treat them. Just FYI.

Out of curiosity, assuming the ban is lifted and the bar to reenlistment on my record goes away (I was kicked out under DADT), would it be possible to go back on active duty even though I'm HIV+?

Question's kind of moot, since I'm 38 here (although still keep in shape...I could probably pass an APFT fairly easily)

Glad your maximizing the positives of being positive... A lot of guys fail to do that and then all that's left are negatives...

Personally, I gotta say that all of the really sick, twisted, perverted, cum-swapping, poz pigs out there is a HUGE plus to HIV! It's good to really feel like your among your own kind

Incredibly hot, but not quite perfect....needs some cum leaking out of it, preferably mine!

Honestly? Practice, practice, practice.

The more you get fucked, the more you learn how to open up and take a cock. Eventually you'll get to the point where all you have to do is bend over, use a little spit and that raw cock will slide right in.

If you want a loose and sloppy hole (not exactly the same thing as a guy who can easily take a cock up the ass), then get fucked and bred multiple times in a night (at a bath, party, whatever).

I guess you could open it up with toys and lube or whatever first. Personally, I love fucking a sloppy ass, but I want it to be that way because the bottom I'm fucking is a slut who's already been fucked by other guys.

I make a pretty decent ws bottom...love to drink it, get it up my ass, have a guy piss all over me...very hot!

I wish I can be a good piss top too, but the truth of the matter is I generally get stage fright and can't get things going. Closest I ever got was when this bottom guy followed me in to the man's room at my favorite bar. I was a little drunk (which helps) and started pissing in the trough they have there, then let him wrap his mouth around my cock. Very hot! So I'm working on getting more versatile there too.

I've had a major crush on Titpig ever since I first saw him in the '90s. He gets bonus points for being a big part of getting bareback porn started again.

My favorite is for the top to cum in my ass and then I push it out and he feeds it to me. Best of both worlds

Bingo...we have a winner!

In the last 10-15 years or so, I think I can count on one hand the number of times a condom has been involved (the most recent time and the only one in the last five years was when I got fucked in a video).

It takes a seriously good reason for me to even consider allowing a rubber to touch me. With so many hot men out there who really love to bareback, why would I ever want to settle?

If a guy wanted to fuck with a condom I won't say no.

Interesting point. Lots of bottoms here have emphasized their submissive side (taking loads from any top, getting fucked in whatever position the top wants, letting themselves be whored out, etc.)

Does that submissiveness extend to allowing the dom/top to decide whether the bottom has sex with or without condoms?

Personally, I don't see myself as submissive, so I have no trouble with telling a guy to GTFO if he doesn't want to fuck raw