TotalBottom

You could wear a ring and move it from finger to finger to keep count...

On September 12, 2015 at 1:00 AM, bottomforsize said:

I've had a few tops stop fucking me when they've reached around and felt the size of my cock - I don't know if they got intimidated or if they just weren't into bottoms with big dicks.

That's interesting to hear… In backrooms, I've had tops reach around and feel my small, shaved dick and balls while they're fucking me. I'm a tall guy and they often have a really powerful response when they feel its thinness and limpness. I find it makes them become verbal and more aggressive and the immediate reaction is usually to start smacking my ass hard. I'm not at all into having my dick stroked but having it touched can be really hot and add a lot of excitement to the dynamic.

I wear an armband and wristband on my right arm and a pair of kneepads to make it clear I'm a total bottom.  If you're wearing a jockstrap, I think it helps to wear one with a smaller pouch or a design that deemphasizes your cock.

When I have sex, my dick stays small and limp and I never touch it or cum.

I jerk off when I'm alone… I wouldn't be able to never jerk off. If I'm planning a big sex weekend, I'll masturbate but hold off from cumming for a week, maybe even two.

I don't like giving tops instructions but sometimes I'll say "slap my ass hard."  I'm curious to know how tops feel about this.  Is there a better way for me to communicate that I want my ass smacked?

I recently had a group of guys fucking me in a backroom and calling me a fucking slut and talking loudly to each other about my fucking loose, sloppy hole. My favorite part was when I was getting my ass and face slapped and a guy just said "What a fucking bottom!"

I try to focus on the top's pleasure and be mindful to serve him the best I can with my ass and my body movements.  I get in a zone where I completely embrace being a slut and total bottom, especially when having group sex.  I can get competitive if there are other bottoms... I'll get really piggy and try to "outbottom" them.  I like to stay clearheaded throughout it all so I'll have vivid memories later when I jerk off alone thinking about the sex.

My favorite position, especially in a group situation, is standing bent over grabbing my ankles.  That's the position that makes me feel  the most used.

I prefer to stay soft when I'm having sex and I only get hard and jerk off when I'm alone.

I sometimes put on a temporary tattoo of a chevron down arrow on my lower, lower back pointing to my hole. 

Once in a bar with a backroom, a guy who fucked me encouraged one of the bartenders to take a break and fuck me, which he did and then they both got other tops to fuck me.

I love darkroom sex and communicating through the touch of feel.  I love it when a guy brushes up against me, feels my limp, shaved, small dick and then turns right away to fingering my lubed-up hole and then I just bend over.  I find it exciting that a guy can touch me in total darkness and immediately know that I need to get fucked.  At that moment, I feel like just a hole.

A couple of months ago, I was getting fucked a lot in a backroom and my hole was really opened up.  One guy who fucked me brought me out to the main part of the bar and had a group of 6 of his friends feel my hole to show them how loose and sloppy it was.  It was really hot talking to them about it and feeling like the ultimate slut.

I love to play in leather and I have a few leather jockstraps but I feel the pouches on jocks are too big... I prefer to de-emphasize the front and I want to let guys know I have a small dick and small balls so I got a leather g-string custom-made as small as possible.  

If I'm getting fucked a lot over a few days, I'll eat very little and drink lots of Gatorade.

I have one of these.  I wear it around my right calf:

http://www.misterb.com/en/clothing/accessories/wallets/412600-party-wallet-with-color-piping/412610

Love getting it from both ends standing... I'm a 6'3" bottom and I love spreading my feet wide and bending over for two shorter tops.

Leather bar when traveling in Europe: harness with blue piping, armband and wristband with blue piping on right arm, small black leather g-string, navy bandana over waistband on right side, knee pads, lube holder around right calf, boots with blue socks and blue laces

I usually use a medium sized bottle of lube stuffed in my sock. I like guys to be able to see the bottle. I also have a leather holder for it that I sometimes wear attached to my jock or g-string.

http://www.slingking.eu/products/en/Leather-wearbagsAccessories/Belt-Accessory/Lubricant-bottle-holder-black.html

A g-string or jockstrap and black gym pants. A black leather wrist wallet, with a blue stripe, on my right wrist. Small bottles of lube stuffed into each sock.

My general rule is to only wear jockstraps that look like bottom gear. If it I can picture a top wearing the jockstrap, I won't buy it.

When you fuck him doggy style, make sure he keeps his knees apart, back arched and head down. I had a top who trained me to keep my head facing the mattress and I'm always mindful to stay in that position.

Have him wear a pair of kneepads.

My favorite jockstrap is a leather one that I had custom made. It's low rise, has thin straps and an extra tiny pouch.

I'm thinking of going next year though and try to break my one weekend record.

What's your current weekend record?