TotalBottom

I love getting slapped in the face with a Top's HAND and his DICK! But, then I like it rough!

I love being slapped by a dick and a hand, especially when the hand slap comes by surprise.

Right! As many pump and dumps as possible in quick succession.

I agree, and sometimes it makes me feel good when the tops come really quickly.

Drinking lots of water and a high fiber diet might help you tighten up. I'm not sure exercises would help.

I've gotten to the point where I'm proud when my hole becomes looser. It can be really hot when guys comment on it, I feel validated that they know my hole is used a lot.

I love being fucked by a top with an average sized cock, especially after I've just been fucked by really big dick. When I get fucked by someone with an average cock, the sounds of the cock thrusting in and out of my hole are a lot louder and sloppier sounding, which can be very hot, especially if the top is very verbal.

My hole doesn't become a gaping hole, it becomes a longer slit and gets pinker.

I definitely get into being just a hole. One of my favorite things is getting fucked in a backroom totally bent over, grabbing my ankles. When I'm bent over like that, people literally only see an ass getting used. If I can, I try to stay in that position as long as possible, with guys taking turns, and embrace being just a hole.

personally, I love that... thats how i want it. slam it all in, pound a bit... it only hurts me for like 10 seconds and i enjoy iy... but then again i know alot bottoms maybe aren't as dirty and submissive and willing... or if they are, they still have some pain threshold. i used to but for some reason now i like the initial pain... i only need it to go slow if its over 9.5

but then again.. i do get fucked alot and am def kinda used lol

Yeah, I love when guys slam it in too. I'm usually prepared for it though. When I'm getting ready for the night, I'll ram a dildo and thick buttplug up my hole. Part of it though is I also try to signal to tops that they can slam it in. When I'm in a dark room, I'll sometimes stand with my feet bar apart, my back arched and my ass sticking out, I'll even do that for the first fuck of the night. When a top sees how available my ass is, he knows he can slam it in hard. I like the energy when it starts hard and fast, especially when I'm in a group and I'm the first one getting fucked that night. It's such a release for everyone, the top, me and the guys watching, when intense hard fucking happens quickly.

A good way to break a bottom is to slap his ass really hard over and over in the same spot. I like it when it's gets to the point where I just accept the pain, I have surrendered to the moment and feel completely submitted to the top.

Yeah, I've recently started flagging again via the hanky code to let the bar know what I'm interested in that particular night. Things kinda went crazy there with way too many colors, but most people know the basics: dark blue, red, black, yellow. I've seen guys with colored leather worked into their getup too. Seeing a guy with a red armband on his right arm will generally attract my attention

Yeah, my wristband has a blue stripe and my armband has blue piping, plus I'll wear a blue bandana. I like the knowing looks that I get when I'm in my gear. It's hot when I meet guys and the conversation starts on the topic of fucking.

So I'd be curious to know if a lot of the guys who have it wear leather because they just like the look, or whether they wear it because it signals a greater than usual level of sexual deviancy.

I like the way it looks but I especially like signaling that I'm a bottom with my leather gear. I get a rush from guys knowing right away that I'm looking to get fucked.

Mind if I ask what city this was in? Sounds like my kinda place!

It was at the Hoist in London. I love getting fucked there on a night when it's really crowded.

Do guys who hang out in glory hole areas know that sometimes the dick they are presented with might well be right from some other dude's hole? Do they care? Do they like it? As a top, I loved knowing that I was presenting a dirty cock to a mouth for cleaning and that my cock had just been inside an ass that was already loaded with cum.

Yes! It's very humbling for the bottom and that makes it hot.

I agree. Was at a fuck party some months back. I was fucking a bottom. I stopped for a while. Another top, who was much bigger than me, started to fuck the bottom. When I fucked the bottom after the hung top it was pointless. Couldn't cum in the bottom as his hole was too loose for me.

I find that getting fucked standing is the best position for resolving this. I like getting fucked bent over with my feet apart and working the top's cock with the muscles of my hole. However, when my hole becomes really loose and I'm getting fucked by a top whose cock is not as thick as guys who have fucked me earlier, I'll switch to keeping my feet closer together and bending me knees more. I have a fairly deep crack and when my hole is really loose, I'll change from using the muscles of my hole to using the muscles of my asscheeks and flexing them more. I try to determine whether the top wants a loose fuck or a tighter fuck and I adjust myself to accommodate his cock.

Usually I say always "thanks for the load" when I'm able to do it, but in Backrooms or in a gangbang is it not always possible

Yeah, I usually thank the top but I don't when another top moves in and starts fucking me right away and I haven't even had a chance to stand up straight.

It feels a little a funny when a top thanks me. I'm fulfilling an obligation so I don't need to be thanked.

As for making their dicks, look bigger, I don't agree with that at all.

I shave because I think it makes my dick look even smaller. It's important for me to let tops know there's an inadequacy and for them to see my need for real cock.

The responses in this thread were great to read. I used to aim to keep my hole tight because I had always thought that's what tops wanted. But I've since gotten into having a loose hole. I like a top's reaction when he fingers my hole and he gives that look that says he knows I've already been fucked. I think it can also be very hot to openly discuss the looseness of a bottom's hole, particularly in a group situation. When everyone knows this information, I feel a mix of embarrassment and pride but also a sense of appreciation that my hole is being both used and talked about.

From my point of view, it's Berlin and Amsterdam. Have always left loads when over there. Mind you Melbourne and Sydney, Australia have some very hot sleazy venues.

Berlin and Amsterdam are my picks too.

As a rule, all of the leather gear that I wear signals that I'm a bottom. I currently do not have a leather harness and I'd like to get one that only a bottom would wear. I'd want one that would be good for a top to hold on to and at the same time, has a look that communicates my need to be dominated. Any suggestions for a harness that looks really bottom-specific? Or do you think it's better for a leather bottom not to wear a harness?

I'm not into scat at all, major turnoff personally... no disrespect to anybody who is, but man that's fucking gross in my opinion.

But as to the original question, here's some stuff that I like to do to a slut bottom to degrade him and make him know he's a worthless cumdump bitch

-- ass to mouth, pull my cock out of his hole and make him suck it, ask him how his pussy tastes, make him tell me he loves the taste of his slut hole

-- spit on his face

-- pull his hair, choke him, ask him who's pussy or ass that is

-- ask him if he likes that big cock in his ass. when he says yes, I spit in his face and slap his face and tell him wrong answer. it's not his ass. that ass belongs to the top. (Love that one. Totally fuck with a bitches head hahaha)

-- make him beg for the load. tell him he's a worthless piece of shit and doesn't deserve the load, threaten to cum on the floor.

-- if I'm breeding him at my place, tell him to get the fuck out of here the second i dump my load. worthless bitch has served his purpose. get the fuck out.

I can probably think of more.

Mmmm... thank you, younghungtop, that's the perfect way to treat a bottom!

Yeah, face slapping is really powerful. I've been fucked standing in sexclubs and have had guys smack me hard across the face while they watch me get fucked. Although the natural instinct would be to put my hands to my face, I've resisted and just continued to take it. The most important thing at that moment is the cock in my ass and I don't want any of my body language to take away from that. It's especially degrading if there are guys laughing at me getting fucked and slapped. When I'm being degraded like that, I just embrace the humility that can come with being a true bottom.

I have strict rules in my mind of how I need to be as a bottom. Personally, for me, it's important that I stay soft. My dick is small to begin with and I like to reinforce its insignifance by staying soft.

I only jerk off later by myself but I don't mind if a top feels it briefly so he can physically feel its irrelevance. When I'm turned on about to be fucked and while I'm being fucked, all of the energy that I feel is in my hole. At that point, my dick essentially doesn't exist and the entire focus is on the top's cock.

I'm really into leather and love getting fucked in leather bars and at leather parties. I love that leather allows me to signal what I'm into but more importantly, what I am.

I have a blue-striped armband and matching wristband/wallet that I wear on my right arm. I also have a tiny black leather g-string that I keep on when I'm getting fucked. I have a couple of leather jockstraps too but I don't wear them anymore because the pouches are too big. As a 6'3" bottom with a small dick, I feel it's important for me to let tops know that I have a small dick so I had the g-string custom made with an extra small pouch. My bush is totally shaved down and the pouch almost looks like I'm wearing an eyepatch. Although it's a much softer look than a jockstrap, guys tell me I look good in it and no one seems to get turned off thinking it's too femmy. I'll wear it in a leather bar with my armband, wristband and a paid of black kneepads. I also have a blue latex hankerchief that I hang over my waistband, on the right. When I'm wearing that, guys see my true nature.

The g-string keeps me covered and still shows off my ass. Even though it has an elastic strap that goes between my asscheeks, I feel my hole is just as accessible as it is in a jockstrap. I'll take the strap and move it to the side as a way to offer my hole to a top. It's even better when the top moves it to the side himself, it reinforces my sense of being opened up by him.

The best sex I ever had took place last October when I spent a weekend in Amsterdam getting fucked at different leather bars. The highlight for me was one point when I was getting fucked standing with a group of about forty guys watching. This one guy with a really thick cock started fucking while holding on to me by pulling my hair. I had to really arch my back to accommodate this and maintain balance. Even though my head was pulled far back, I could still see the crowd's faces and their looks of amazement. When the top let go of my hair, I bent over and started sucking someone while continuing to get pounded from behind. The guy I was sucking then took my head off his cock and pushed it down between his thighs and put me in a headlock. I was getting fucked completely bent over with my head in the headlock. He kept me in the headlock for about 20 minutes as different guys took turns fucking. All I could see was the floor. I remember, though, that I still kept my thoughts and focus on the tops' cocks and aiming to give them pleasure with my hole.

It was such a powerful moment and I completely surrendered to it. Later on that night when I took a break, I was chatting with some of the guys who had fucked me and they told me it was the hottest thing they had ever seen and done. They told me I was the ultimate bottom. I thanked them for that and thanked all of them for using my hole.

The one that sticks out is "You've got a great ass that is meant to be used and be used often."

It's also a great compliment when I'm in a sexclub or backroom and a top has finished fucking me and he then starts encouraging other guys to fuck me. Sometimes a top will become really interested in helping to make sure that I get fucked by as many guys as possible. I'm grateful that not only did he choose to fuck me but he is now recommending my hole to other tops! It's an honor for me to hear that I deserve to be used by more and more men.

As a bottom, having a small, thin dick has become an important part of the equation. I wouldn't change it and I like knowing that I was built to be a bottom. I'm glad that the size of my dick makes it clear that I don't fuck, I only get fucked.

When a top slaps a bottom's ass, he should go all out and smack it as hard as possible. As bottoms, we need to be put in our place so the harded the better. It's also good to slap the bottom right on the hole. I was in a backroom one time being worked over and these guys had me stand and spread my cheeks wide as they kept slapping me right on my hole in front of everyone. I just kept taking it. It was such total domination and I remember a look of awe on the faces of the guys watching.