TotalBottom

I got fucked in a bathroom at a bar and the guys I was playing with had me bend over and put my head in the urinal. Then one of the guys took a piss on my head while I was getting fucked.

My cock is about 4.5in and I've developed a fetish for being laughed at and mocked for it. It's a constant reminder to me and all guys in general that I'm made to serve superior men. Nothing hotter than guys making me their cumslut whore and putting me in my place because of my small cock.

Me too. I actually feel disappointed if a guy doesn't mention it.

It can be hot in a group situation or in a backroom where everyone can see how much I need to be fucked.

Yay. Well it is my only reason for bottoming. My small cock made it my destiny

I like that. My dick is about the same size as yours and I'm 6'3". I have a black leather g-string that I had custom made as small as possible. I'm completely shaved down and the g-string looks like an eye patch when I'm wearing it. I strip down to it in leather bars when I'm travelling and I get strong reactions. One time I was wearing it in a crowded leather bar and someone came up behind me a yanked my g-string all the way down to my ankles and the crowd started laughing. The guy who pulled it down then whipped out his long, thick cock out and put it up against mine to compare. Guys watching were laughing and talking but they were speaking in German so I couldn't really understand what they were saying. It was hot though. I get a rush when guys see that I'm a small-dicked bottom and the logic of it. It's validation of my desires and what I am meant to be.

I was just thinking about tattoos today (not for me - ones I think would be hot for bottoms)...

"FUCK ME" in block letters right above your ass crack. If you're daring it would be visible when you have your shirt off, but you always run the risk if it being seen when you're wearing t-shirt and jeans and you bend over for something...

"CUMHOLE" in old English lettering arching over the top of your back with a biohazard symbol for the O. Actually what I was thinking about this morning was not so in your face and obvious... Do CUMHLE in ink that only shows up under black light. So on a day-to-day basis only the biohazard symbol would be visible, but go to a club or a bar with a black light or put a black light in your bedroom and suddenly people see what you're really about...

I think it would be hot to have "INSERT COCK HERE" on my lower back and an arrow pointing to my hole.

I agree, It's great if it's over 9 and hits the second spincter. I love thickness, it looks and feels so powerful. Also, I like it when it curves up.

I think about experiences I've had in leather bars getting fucked by multiple guys with a crowd watching.

I prefer having it referred to as simply a hole. I do like being called a slut though.

For a few days beforehand, I'll stroke myself but I won't cum so I'm super horny. I'll sleep with a buttplug in me the night before. Usually, I shave my hole as well as my bush and balls. I like to de-emphasize my dick and balls so I ice them down even though they're covered in a leather g-string that I keep on. Even though I'm really horny, I stay small and limp. I'm also always lubed up before I head out.

All of the preparation really gets me full of anticipation.

My favorite is flat on my stomach, legs slightly apart, so the top can just use my hole, set the pace, and control all of the action. (I also can't change my mind in this position when the top is ready to cum.)

I love it on my stomach too. I was recently fucked on my stomach upside down -- face down with the top's head at my feet and his feet at my head. He kept pounding and pounding and I couldn't move and just had to surrender to it. It hurt but I kept aching for more. It really stretched out the inside of my hole, I could feel the impact of the fuck for the next week.

At parties (if possible) I love to wear leather vest and chaps and jockstrap. Nice to get fucked that way

Very hot!!!

I've noticed a few tops who've fucked me love humiliating me for the fact mine is small and mostly limp. A couple have really made comments about it to drill home the fact my only use is as a bomm boy piece of fuck meat.

Yes, I've experienced the same and found that being small can be an advantage. It can be hot to make the contrast with the top's cock part of the dynamic.

Yes. I think it's hot being a bottom's bottom.

Good question. Overall I would say the mental side of sex is just as important as the physical side to me. I'm very turned on by dichotomies and I find it very arousing to know that I'm with a bottom who dedicates himself to the role completely and who is willing to go all out for his top. I've found that generally total bottoms - meaning not just those who can stay in bottom mode for a single session, but those who are true total bottoms - are incredibly skilled and gratifying sexually. But, as I said, I think in the end it's more about the mental side - the fetish of knowing that I'm with someone who has made a willful decision to subjugate his own penile gratification to those of other men.

Yeah, the mental side of it is a big part of what motivates me. I like being a total bottom and letting guys know it. I enjoy being fucked by versatile guys but I'm especially turned on by total tops -- the fetish of having the emphasis on top's cock and knowing that he only fucks.

They filmed one event and in the trailer a guy with a red hood is getting pounded standing with his hands tied behind his back and his head in a urinal... so fucking hot!

When you get on all fours with your ass to the door, have your knees spread wide apart, arch your back and keep your head down.

A bartender took a break from his duties to fuck me after he had heard guys tell him my ass was amazing.

One of the reasons I don't cum is because I want my memory of the experience to be solely focused on the fucking and the dynamic of it. When I'm getting fucked, I pay close attention to everything about the top's cock, the ways he fucks, how my hole feels, etc. If I cum when I'm with a top, I feel like it becomes a distraction when I think about the encounter later.

I like to keep getting fucked and jerking off really separate. I don't want the actions combined.

For me, the decision is totally up to the top. I love getting fucked in backrooms and am fine if the top has a condom on.

I learned when I was in my early 20s that taking my pleasure meant the bottom would have a good time later. The more I used him to make myself feel good, the more satisfied he'd become. He could go home later and jack off if he wanted - or he could just get his pleasure from servicing a man who knew his true nature.

The bottom can work it out for himself. That's his job. He wouldn't be getting used by me if that wasn't his bag anyway. I don't worry about him. I make myself feel good - which makes him feel good in the bargain.

That's exactly how I approach it. My job is to be used and I don't touch myself when I'm getting fucked. The top's cock is the only cock that matters at that moment and my pleasure is derived from his pleasure. That's how I get satisfaction.

I try to stay really focused and then later when I'm alone, I jerk off with vivid memories of the fuck.

I find it rewarding, it makes me feel like the top was so turned on and my hole was giving him so much pleasure that he had to cum quickly.

My first time was as a bottom and I have always only bottomed.

very good rules... I like them...

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1. Ah... You cleaned my cock! I'm definitely coming back, slut.

Are bottoms permitted to wipe the cock off 1st so it is a little clean, then lick it?

Personally, I would never wipe the cock off first. It is the bottom's responsibility to be cleaned out beforehand. After the fuck, if the top wants me to clean his cock, it goes in my mouth right away.

Tops deserve a lot of respect. These are great rules for a bottom to follow.

Hmmm, I don't have that problem but there are two anal sphincters and it's only my external one that I think is on the loose side.