Just can't have safe sex anymore! Any of you like me?

[muscmtl]

Went to this famous orgy in Montreal last night. Been hearing about it for years and finally got an invite. Private house, at least 50 hot men, and all fuckin safe. I tried enjoying myself but finally did the oldest trick in the world: I pretended to cum after fucking my tenth guy with a condom. Not even one of them was ready to swallow, and the youngest was 26 and average age was 45. I've had too few bareback orgies (should have one every weekend as far as I`m concerned) and the no-condoms-for-miles-around group sex is the only way for me. Hell! safe orgies are complicated, no fuckin spontaneity, everyone constantly looking for condoms.

Aside from that, the guys were fuckin hot. Of course, there were a few guys (who think they are gifts to mankind because they are the most muscular and have bigger dicks) who would only play with their mirror image. This is Montreal for you! any guys who think they`re studs will never bottom, or rim, because it is beneath themselves. Rawtop`s blog entry on his pissy-sex visit to Montreal should be posted on all cruising sites

But back to the topic. Any of you finds it impossible to cum if there is a condom in the vicinity?

Steve Musc

[toxiclover]

I sure do. I hate rubber. If I have to wear one for a client, I try to imagine its a cock ring.

[rawpozbtm]

Have you thought about keeping the cum filled condoms? You can deposit them in your ass. I know it isn't the same thing, but your ass will be cummy.

[very evil slut]

I am 100% strictly bottom and my ass was barebacked a lot.I must admit though, that I am mutating in a kind of exception lately.I am going more and more back to condoms-I know many guys will advise me to go and check my mental health,but I guess everything is possible in this world.In 90% of the time I don't feel the load and it is some kind of funny imagination thing.Regardless of my sort of back trip,back to the topic-I can have sex both safe & raw,but I am a bottom and the perspective of a top is different from mine.As for swallowing-I love that and I have something from it which is not the case with a shot in the hole.As for tops that don't rim-I pass on them.My hole needs attention and if it doesn't get it,I find myself another cock/man.

[Guest slobbvers]

I can't cum while fucking with a condom. Has to be raw.

[BiAggieGuy]

I prefer it raw, but if there is a guy who I really want to fuck with, and he insists, I'll tolerate it. I've gotten many "safe only" guys to eventually go raw, so if I can eventually change them into bareback sluts, it's worth using condoms with them for a time.

[Bangme]

I have not used comdoms in years. When I put one on, I become soft immediately. No friction.

[slowfuck]

As someone who has the usual problems with condoms and much prefers the direct connection of raw fucking, sometimes it's part of the deal. I think the only way to use condoms is if you include them as part of the game play or fantasy. Not something I have learned to do yet. I guess that's how escorts do it.

It seems that having to stop and fumble for a condom and work out which way up to put it on and try to unroll it, jerks you right out of the sexual excitement and causes you to lose the erection.

If you need to use on make sure it's big enough in width that it goes on easily, and its easier if you can get the bottom to put it on your stiff cock while you're feeling and lubing his hole...

...or find a bottom that loves it raw

Edited March 25, 2012 by slowfuck
clarifiction

[evilqueerpig]

I've NEVER had a condom on or in me....if it ain't bareback, it ain't fucking...and it ain't happening.....I live by this rule

[bbzh]

No more condoms. The friction tears my asshole up and makes me sore when I get a bare cock up there.

[TastyTannedCock]

No to condoms!

[thomas12]

It is true. I've been fighting it for a very long time. We're "deviants" to society, but obviously there's nothing wrong with bareback sex in itself, cause it's the most natural way. But now we have shitty diseases. When I finally did BB, it was so hot I think I fucked the guy 8 times in a row and came each time. I might be sounding like an idiot, but it felt very tribal and ceremonial. I find man-on-man sex more masculine than when I have sex with a chick. And when two guys fuck raw, man, I don't think I will ever get tired of that overwhelming urge to just stick it in and fuck til I seed.

I've been coming to terms of accepting my nature. I am not a bug chaser and I don't respect those who lie about their status if someone asks, but I do know there are risks. But that's also what makes it constantly exciting. I don't feel anxiety that many do, but then again, I'm a top. Less chance to catch anything. I would just feel guilty afterwards because it made me want to go out again and again.

I at least try to be as responsible as possible, cause I do have limits. But I think you'll find that, either you must make peace with the fact that you are a part of the bareback brotherhood, or it'll slowly and very painfully destroy you. I'm choosing to embrace it in order to control it. Again, I don't wanna fuck a random stranger every day all year every year, but when I browse sites like this, and see all the hot bb porn escorts in LA, I've just decided to slowly do what I'm meant to be.

Sorry for long post. But I really do think it has NOTHING to do physically with the condom, cause that makes us look like 13-year-old ADHD kids who are just too impatient to learn how to put a condom on. I'm gonna go on a limb here and say that I think its cause the moment that dick goes in raw, there is something so pure and powerful and primal. We're just connecting with that side that others choose to deny cause they fear it.

Personally, I'm glad the BB community is not the majority. Shouldn't be. There are guys I wish would trust me to let me pump my load in to them like something fierce, but I respect that even though I pity them a little bit. Cause they don't know what they're missing. I've talked to life-long barebackers who are HIV free. So BB also doesn't mean a guaranteed death sentence either.

All this talk about saying "fuck you" to condoms is getting me hard now. So now I gotta take care of that... Thanks for posting this, though. You're far from the minority, man, when it comes to this. You're just being smart and recognizing it. Take care man.