how do I find someone to fuck me for the first time?

[Guest betrl8thannever]

How did y'all do it? Anonymously? Should I actually find someone and develop a report with them? I'm tired of my fingers and I want to get loaded.

[hungry_hole]

In my opinion, the best are always the anonymous encounters...they are so hot!

But really, it all depends on what you fantasize about and also on your age and looks.

If you are a really hot guy, masculine, goodlooking in your 20's or 30's, you can virtually choose what you want to happen. Do you want to get gang-banged in a public sling at a sauna? No problem, go ahead and very soon there will be someone fucking you and others will be watching, and even ready to take the top's place once he's done.

But if you are in your 50's, 60's, and up, you could be on that sling for hours and no one will give you the time of the day (I'm talking in general becaause I'm older and I manage to find action). Why? Not only are younger men generally more attractive to men in general, but also there are too many older guys looking for sex. It's a matter of supply and demand. I was at a park yesterday, 4 older guys cruising around. One younger guy (30's) came by and everyone was after him. It looked pathertic, especially becuase the younger guys was also looking for younger.

So, are you younger, older, attractive? Because there's also the possibility for totally dark rooms in some saunas or sex clubs, where looks plays less of a role.

[nude_tomBS]

I found it almost by accident. When I was 18 yo I had to go to the next city for army recruitment. Afterwards I went to a shop I had seen in the local newspaper: "Sex shop". They also had a porn cinema there with a room for gay films. In no time I had a guy touching me, daring me to come to the restroom and fucking me bare and filling me with his cum. I loved every second of it! :-)

[Guest betrl8thannever]

I'd say I'm attractive. I'm 23, 5'7" and between 130-135 pounds on any given day.

[scotty2]

Oddly with younger guys, sometimes people don't come on to them because they think the younger guys might be stand offish. I generally feel more comfortable with guys who aren't that perfect cos I think they are more likely to be fun and adventurous and dirtier. I remember when I was 19 and looked quite sweet no one ever came onto me but now it is more likely.

[Snarkybitch]

I find I enjoy sex better when I have an emotional connection with someone. To that end, start dating someone and when it comes to the sex discussion, tell him that you'd like to bottom. You may wish to make it clear that it's your first time so that he honors that.

[fuckboy20]

Like everyone else said you have to do what works for you. I do agree with andymcgreggor and some others too. When I first turned 18 I went to a bookstore and online hook up sites. Almost no one wanted me. They all said I was too young or did not believe my age. Even now I still get turned down because the guys don't think I am interested in them and assume what my tastes are. I had my first breeding in a relationship and it was something I will never forget. Since then I did have it in a hook up by accident (stealthed..sort of) and ever since then I have been slowly becoming less cautious. I have a guy or two who I got together with regularly with to breed me and a hook up or two that bred me. I just started getting bred in bath house/book store but still been selective about it. Still nervous.

Pretty much every bottom fantasizes about getting bred multiple times, multiple guys, multiple ways, and different scenarios. But like the first time you lost your virginity you have to choose (or sometimes you dont') what is right for you.

For me, I prefer getting to know a guy a little well or at least sexually knowing who he is. It's fun being bred at a bath house but a bummer after it's over because then you crave more. And if you aren't willing to go all the way and be a complete cumpig and cumslut it's agonizing wanting what you are afraid to go after. Not sure what it's like once you reach the cumdump stage.

Do what feels best for you

...But more importantly the top *kisses ass...licks it too*

[atlversbear41]

you sound really cute. come to atlanta or i'll travel to you. ;-)