About bathhouses

[HolePunchSD]

I've had countless hot experiences at bathhouses. I think what's turned them into these S&M (Stand & Model) joints is the heavy drug usage that seems to have taken over. My first bathhouse (Club Mustang in San Diego) was the ultimate fuck palace: the men were there to fuck and get fucked. The place reeked of sex, cum, piss & poppers. And while the porn playing on the screens was a bit lame, even a first-timer could get with the program immediately. But that was back in the day.

Now, bathhouses have become nothing but stop-gaps for tweaked out guys, looking for an audience and validation. They're the ones that are usually easy to spot: loud, endless chatter, usually two or more of them just walking around, not cruising, merely parading. The other men are usually just standing around, hoping for something to happen. And nothing usually does.

Now that I'm a bit older, whenever I find myself at a bathhouse, I jump right in FEET FIRST. From the moment, I get my room, the door never closes. I simply bring the action that I want to see. Hell, if one guy rejects you; move on to the next--the bathhouse is NOT the place for feelings. Don't wait around for the action to happen; MAKE the action happen!

[bmarch]

Personally I dig Bathhouses, I like them clean and dark, lol. Something about being in a sauna or dark shower naked showing my cock and ass to some sexy dude turns me on. I find I am way less cautious and inhibited being around other dudes naked with their cocks hanging out. I love the idea that I can cruise around a bit, suck some cock get horny and then go back to my room, lie down on my stomach and leave the door open.

I fucking love that sound of the door being opened and hear someone cum in, wait to feel the cock on my ass and get fucked, it's so hot to me. Once I take a load and am nicely lubed then I like to get as much cum as I can and lie in the cum puddle on the bed.

I do stuff there I would never do anywhere else, for me it's like a break from reality. I frequent the Clubs in Ft. Lauderdale and Orlando, both are nice and clean. Was at Y Bor in Tampa a few days ago, kinda run down and old but I did have great sex in the shower with 2 older guys...

Edited August 30, 2012 by bmarch

[DaddysCumDump]

Having become a little tired of the uncertainties of internet connecting, I returned to the sauna earlier in the week for the first time in a while. I'm never in any rush therefore I enjoy using the facilities such as the sauna, steam room and the communal shower area.

I love Masculine Dads and dirty old Men - there's always a good choice at the sauna. And as I love public play, it's the ideal location for me!

[FOULDAWG]

first if you don't start something there will be nothing. if you go to a bathhouse for the reason you wanna fuck you gotta act like it. different bath houses cater to different types and that changes from day of the week time of day. some have young, some have old and some change form time to time. like if you were in L A and you like asian top or bottom the club would be the 1350 in wilmington on like a sunday afternoon. some clubs have people that are just tweeked out on tina, that young crowd, some have an older croud. you wanna fuck. fuck in an open area, be the true fuck stud that you are, perform , have fun fuck this is the only situation you will run into whre you can fuck a lot of peeps will see and you will get a small crew of people will want to get with you right after you fucked some one. 9 THIS HAPPENS ALMOST NOWHER EXCEPT THE BATH HOUSE. For the best result go to a bath house that hat the crowd you are looking for and find the best time. that could be 11am on a sunday morning, or it could be around lunch time. the business man that is down to fuck and get on with his life.

or my fave the black out session. on bath house in L A turns of the lights the last sat of the month from 11pm to 5am. no prisy posing, grab a hard dick and stick it into a lubed ass and fuck. REAL FUCKING BASIC!! DON'T MAKE IT MORE COMPLICATED THEN IT HAS TO BE. BATHHOUSE ARE TO CHILL RELAX VISIT BUT THE REAL PURPOSE IS TO FUCK. NUFF SAID.

[nu_abo]

I really enjoy the bathhouse. Only been a handful of times but when no sex was to be had enjoying the sauna, etc was just as cool.

I like the older mature crowd that goes there. Less complications and men who know what they want and how to get it (I like the assertive type lol) Last trip was to one in San Antonio, I ran into the S&M (stand and model) types. Seems we overlooked that it was general college spring break time when we went. A kid grabbed my hand and just wanted to hold it all night. I eventually had to ditch him to find something more interesting.

I'll be visiting San Fran soon, but I'm sad to hear the closest one there isn't in the Bay Area

[PhoenixGeoff]

Guys, bathhouses have always been social clubs. Heck, before there were gay bars, there were baths which were known as relatively safe places to be gay (this was back when men went to baths to clean up...when indoor plumbing was limited to a toilet and sink in many homes).

The bath scene ain't what it used to be. I blame it on the internet first and foremost (this has killed bar cruising too), way fewer closeted guys out there (people now on relationships instead of just having sexonthe down-low), HIV scaring a lot of men away from the hookup culture of the 80s, and, it must be said, meth giving a lot of baths a bad reputation with non-users.

All that being said, I still have fun at the tubs more often than not. No, your not going to end up in a scene out of a porno gang bang (at least not most nights). But there's still fun to be had, especially if you have the right attitude.

[PhoenixGeoff]

Man, Fouldawg, you're hot and got the perfect attitude. I wanna hit the baths with you!