Should I take his POZ load?

[PissPigBrooklyn]

Oink, queerboy09 ~ how could anybody not BEG for your load?

And I was the one who fingered ur tight hole on the couch hehe and took ur piss too hehe

[chad7771]

lets be clear we shouldn't need reassurance if one always barebacks taking from many I believe natural sex is the only way and feels true.the only truth is oneself find it u will know what is right.it is onself that makes one whom they are and what one truly feels.cum is the best lube and a bare hard cock feels best.

[xtranicegayguy]

to be bred is to be freed......

[cupigcouple]

My lover had a very conflicted approach to "serosorting" back when he was still neg. He would not get fucked bareback by guys he knew were poz, but he would get fucked raw and take loads up his ass from anonymous strangers. I guess he was counting on every single guy at the bath house not only to know his accurate and current HIV status but also to announce it if poz. Denial is a powerful force. Anyone surprised he is now HIV+?

Even if guys don't actively lie about being neg when they know they are poz, it is much harder to know you are neg for certain,unless you've been celibate. I feel less risky getting fucked raw and taking loads from a guy who is HIV+ and on meds with an undetectable viral load than a neg guy who is versatile and also takes loads in his ass. Lately, though, I've been seriously getting off on the higher risk.

The bottom line is that seroconversion happens when a poz guy (whether he knows he's poz or not) and a neg guy have unprotected sex. Because men both lie about being neg or don't always know immediately when they seroconvert, serosorting neg guys who fuck raw are undeniably at risk, so it is largely a matter of time before they get pozzed. If the OP is intent on staying neg, then he shouldn't bareback and should relegate bareback sex to fantasy. Ultimately, the OP will have to live with his choices and the outcomes of those choices. After all, getting fuck by a hot poz top with a big dick is a lot more fun when you've carefully weighed the choice and decided to embrace the experience than doing so without being ready and deeply regretting the choice.

Edited June 5, 2013 by Hotload84

[Guest JizzDumpWI]

Also just because a top is poz and bottom is neg is not a guarantee the neg guy will convert. Be careful of making absolute outcome judgements. Certainly that CAN infect, but that is all. I have remained neg thru hundreds of poz loads. Will I be neg next test? Well, we will find out... The accumulation of negative tests suggests no. But it is certainly true that I might be; and I think that is the bottom line of this thread.

[NavySkinOnSkin]

I agree with a lot that is being said. I am pretty vers but like to BB. I try to mitigate the risks by only getting Topped by men who are on meds. I also play a numbers game, since Iam not a guy who needs to fuck daily. I usually get in sex once or twice every few months. I am content and I do give and receive skanky massages lol in between the sex. Oh, frottage is wonderful...but even that has risks (herpes.)

All you can do if you have decided to fuck this poz guy is to be ready if it all goes "tits up." Minimize the risks as much as you can and enjoy life. I hope I never get HIV (sorry guys) and I dread someone "stealthing" me, however I know it is a possibility. Just have to weigh your options and decide if you wanna take the risk, I suppose.

[justin]

go 4 it I wouldn't even have to think about it. send him to me. ive done lots of reaserch and talked to lots of ppl and a doctor I went to school with. im well informed and ready to live with hiv an full blown aids.

[sfversboi]

The guy being undetectable is ok for you to take his loads. Maybe taking them will make you immune to poz loads too if you take enough. Just enjoy the black cock thrusting deep inside and forget the cum loads he will inject in you. Just have some hot, wild, passionate sex with him.

[cman54]

What was your decision? Did you let the black guy breed you? I think for one you were lucky to get a chance to be breed by a guy like him.

[bearbandit]

I'm poz and a strong believer in TasP (treatment as protection) - my viral load last time was literally zero. However, I've also gone by the concept that the most cautious guy sets the safety limits. I've used this forum for many things (including the placement of my biohazard tattoo), but the question you asking here is one I refuse to answer, even though I know there's very little chance of you getting HIV from this guy. There are some decisions you have to make yourself - my tattoo question was more in the line of "what shade should we paint the living room?" whereas, however small the risk, your question is a potential life changer. Guess that's why I don't fuck much: I prefer to take the risk on myself...

[Poz1956]

Bear's words are wise.

I do have to comment on the "take enough Poz loads and you'll become immune" statement. Pure and total BS. If that were possible, there would have been a vaccine many years ago. This isn't an ordinary virus. It's very tricky and constantly morphs it's appearance.

There are people who have a genetic immunity to HIV. Both parents need to contribute that gene for a guy to inherit it. Quite rare - only about 2% of the population are lucky enough to have it. Your immune system cannot be trained to resist HIV. There also appears to be some people who have a genetic suitability to HIV.

I really hate the implication that Poz guys are liers. Last time I checked there were at lest two people involved in a sex scene. Both share EQUAL responsibility to have a conversation about HIV. In addition to asking his status, also ask when he last was tested. If you guys didn't create such crappy stigma, it would make revealing status much easier. Most Poz guys will disclose their status if asked.

The most infectious Poz guy you'll meet became Poz a few weeks ago. He still thinks he's "D & D Free," but his viral load is in the neighbourhood of 10 million. A few months later "Mr. Clean U B 2" will have a viral load that has stabilized in the 30,000 the 120,000 range. Those guys are responsible for almost all of the new cases of HIV. Compare the numbers to an undetectable guy with a viral load of less than 40. Go look at the preliminary results from the Partner study to find out the risk level posed by an undetectable Pozzie.

If you're an BBr and you don't get tested every three months, you could easily be one of "think they're Neg" guys. Some people only get tested once a year. Half of the guys who have ever been tested, haven't checked their status again in OVER a year. Some people never get tested, but say they're Neg. About 60% of Poz guys under 25, DO NOT know they are Poz. For all other age groups, 25% of Pozzies are men who don't know they are Poz. And when they advertise themselves as Neg, they are dangerous liers.

[Rawhole66]

If it's something that makes you feel u can't go no further,when you feel the hot burning sensation cum into your arse the dribbles on to ya balls,,I'm satisfied,,or an arse full of cum to take home,that was when I as 12 years old hot went into my pants whilst eating my dinner,lad was about 17,he was gental his cock massive mine tiny,,,

he broke me in ,,,so mow my intimate is Poz lads,,,one thing i Cant get off my mind,I'm 48 now and feel do what my head tells me,when I was a kid Dracula gave me hardon,tattoos being done also.i think it bad and wrong,but it mega turns me,the thought of hot venum in side me,....if u get pozzd ,,how long before you get ill,and do tablets.roberto

I've gone through all my life

[Cocksucker]

Neg here still, and I too have a secret desire to be gang raped by a large group of all poz tops, especially big black cocks, my personal favorite! But at the same time, like anyone, I don't like being sick. When I am finally pozzed up, what is it like? Once on the meds, do you feel normal or are their side effects from the meds. do you have the energy needed to go out and be a pig for men to use. That seems to be why I was born after all, and if I were sick all the time, I wouldn't feel like going out in search of cock to suck off or take up the ass.

Seriously, love to hear from some of you poz guys, what's it really like?

Thanks!

here's who I am, if you're in my area and want to breed me or just get a great blowjob, let me know:

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[bearbandit]

Keep it that way, Cocksucker. I've got friends who spent weeks in hospital while they seroconverted (and that joke "why does the patient in room 17 like pizza so much" "It's all I can get under the door..." still holds true in some places). Medication... I've never met a side effect I didn't hate. I have serious neuropathy in my feet and halfway up to my knees, as well as in my hands. At least the pain medication (codeine for the most part) stops the antiretrovirals from shitting myself in public. I'm an HIV activist and travel a lot, but find that I can only travel every other weekend, as I need the other weekend to recover from the travelling (and it's not as though Britain is a big island). The choice comes down to sex party or HIV meeting...

There's no way to predict the course of HIV disease: you might end up being well for twenty or more years, as have some friends, you might get sick almost immediately, as have other friends. Toss a coin.

Me, I was doing fine until two and a half years ago. I'm one of the longest term survivors in the UK. I'd built myself up with weights and did thousands of miles on the bike I thought I'd never be able to ride again. One of my drugs bit me in the ass: a £2000 bike trashed, and the discovery that I had the bone structure of, perhaps, a seventy year old. Oh, diabetes too... with all its attendant problems. I can't get a hardon without viagra, so I'm gradually sliding back into being bottom (which isn't who I am, but the pretty much the only way to get sex, unless he's into strict obedience).

Some guys talk about the freedom of being poz: what sort of freedom is it when you need a doctor visit every quarter? Or, if you top, wondering if you seeded someone when you didn't mean to? Of when the police are banging at your door because one of your tricks (who needn't have been at any risk) went running to the law?

[aussiecumslut]

Hey Cocksucker.

Poz 16 years here (yeah one those foolish and old enough to know the risks and lived thru other peoples horror stories). But once a slut, always slut might hold true.

Went straight on meds. One pill in one combination I didn't like (too big to think I could swallow - though I now swallow 3 meds and 2 vitamins in one gulp - go figure). One pill in another combination was the only one with side effects - weird dreams. I probably could have lived with that but my doctor said heaps more combinations we can change it

In 16 years I have had one change of meds due to becoming resistant to one pill. Again no biggie, heaps more combos. Many combinations now come as just one pill (daily).

Three visits a year to HIV specialist is an excuse for trip from my rural area to city (and lot of play time whilst there).

I never visit any other doctors. Have no health issues. Never been healthier in my life. One rule - don't stress over anything helps.

Plenty of HIV guys my area. We play. Plenty neg guys I disclosed my undetectable status to happily play with me too. As much sex as ever. And I never went short. And now the wrong side of 50. HIV doesn't stop sex. Occasionally take a blue pill when I top, hardly notice a difference. Often its mind over matter. Think things will be OK and something works out. Think your dick aint going to work and it might not.

I work permanent. Had three weeks sick when first diagnosed. 16 year later accumulated enough sick leave I could be sick for many months and get paid. Again a rule, no stress allowed at work. I do a job I know and don't let anything worry me.

My life isn't bad. I travel heaps. Have more than my share of sex (all raw, ' go on recharge mee, breed me, add your DNA to my body')

I know it isn't all roses for everyone but I am one guy with no issues that I took poz loads and one load took to me.