Broken Condom?

[sentry75]

I am a neg bottom who (with a few slips) doesn't bareback or take loads in the ass. Obviously BB turns me on which is why I am here to hear people's real experiences. BB porn -preferably amateur- is the only kind I can watch. The few times I have had a bare cock in my ass have been so much better than any rubbered fuck that I can understand why you all embrace bareback. I respect other's choices but personally cannot take the risk.

While outright bug chasing is not something I can understand, I do get that some guys feel a relief when they convert, because an element of fear associated with sex is then gone. In my own experience one of the biggest dampers on enjoyment is the fear of condoms breaking. Psychologically it can really interfere, and gets worse the longer a fuck goes on. And because I really like being fucked by big cocks I worry even more about the condom's ability to contain monster dicks.

This seems to be an area that the safe sex community never really engages on. What to do, How frequently it happens, whether the range of condom sizes really contain the range of cock sizes etc.

Since most of the group here used condoms at some point I wanted to ask.

How frequently have you found condoms break?

Are there any patterns to this? Amount or type of lube? Duration of the fuck? Size of the cock? Type of condom? When does breakage occur?

Thanks for your thoughts.

[Btm!]

I've had a broken condom where I've kind of rushed to put it on, & I guess air has become trapped in the tip. I've also heard - but not experienced - that using vaseline as lube is not a good thing for condoms (personally my favourite is (9X6 lube - no stains on fabrics, no smell & very slick).

I also like your attitude. It can be fun to hear about barebackers'/breeders etc and share their experiences, but you also need the sense to know what's right for you. Fantasy doesn't necessarily have to become a reality.

[NLbear]

In the 35 years that I have been fucked only one or twice a condome broke. Or that I knew about it. I am negative and like to keep it that way, but I can understand you worry. I am not looking to pozzed either. Do understand guys who want to though.

[not_sure_bb]

ive been fucked hundreds of times and only had two condoms break and i could tell immediately. I heard a snap and felt it.

[slowfuck]

Only known one break in a good many years and I think the guys' finger nail nicked putting it on it so it was weakened. Used properly and if the guy getting fucked doesn't clamp his hole down tight on it and the fucking isn't long and rough, they are pretty reliable in my experience. I'd say get a condom the right size too so it doesn't stretch too tight and risk bursting. My thoughts anyway.

[magimix]

... unless you're using an oil base lubricant - they're incredibly difficult to break - even under extraordinary fucking circumstances - long hard rough and full 9"+ )

Having said that I have noticed that the really cheap condoms fr the 99p shops aren't as reliable

[bberik]

I've made some tests on condoms. Got a load from an organisation, so I had to do something with them. I just poked a needle to make a tiny hole through the wrapper and the condom to check if I could see it. It's not hard to spot on the wrapper, but if the guy doesn't look for it, there is no problem. I also checked the condom itself, you cannot see the hole. However, it weakens the condom. It might break easily when masturbating with it on, hopefully it'll do the same when you fuck (I never had anyone ask for me to use a condom, so I never got to test it that way). Sometimes it didn't break, but the sperm will swim through the hole, which means sperm is smaller than particles of water, because a condom poked with a needle will still hold the water. I should get a doctor's degree on this, lol.

[guy2x]

Sometimes it didn't break, but the sperm will swim through the hole, which means sperm is smaller than particles of water, because a condom poked with a needle will still hold the water. I should get a doctor's degree on this, lol.

What? Sperm head diameter is in the micrometer range while water molecule diameter is in the angstrom range. (Of course semen consists of other molecules, none of which would be substantially smaller than the water molecule). If sperm fits through a hole water can't it's because the force of the ejaculation made the hole bigger.

[bberik]

You're probably right, guy2x. Thought just it was amazing that semen was swimming through a hole poked with a needle, but if I did the same with water, the condom didn't leak any water. But anyway, a condom wouldn't be safe if someone poked a hole with a needle through it even if it holds. But the longer and harder you are fucking the condom will definitely shred to pieces because of the hole.

[curiouspuppy429]

You've deliberately practiced poking holes in condoms so that if a bottom ever asks you to wear a condom you can wear one that has a better chance of breaking or at least will leak? HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[CreamDream]

Get condoms that are big enough and all is well. You'll know if they break

[barehole4use]

Sometimes a top wants to fuck me only with a condom, so i oblige by giving him one of my specially prepared condoms with the tip slightly cut out, i always put the condom on & i always get the LOAD.