Any tips for a hardon virgin?

[shyguyuk]

I want to give it a try next month but on the rare occasions I do go out I tend to be a bit of a wallflower ... don't want to leave without getting laid like usual

[Fuckmesl]

Pretend not to be shy and push yourself forward!! All that you need to wear is jock n boots .... Clothes just gets in the way!! ;-)

[MikeUK24]

Yep definitely don't wear much more than boots and a jock, add a harness if you want, and you'll be getting hit on all night. I've never left without 2-3 loads up inside me and I usually end up at some house or flat continuing well into late Sunday. Going to Hardon is a 'long shift' lol.

I haven't been for over a year but apparently last night was the one to go to (10th B'day party). I'll have to find out if any of my sluts, sorry friends, went. Man I need a night down in London...

[Fuckmesl]

I haven't been in a year also... It has gone off the boil in terms of a night don't you think?? I kind of think Sundays at SBN @ Hoist is far more filthy fun to be had!! It very last days of disco lol. If you don't get a good fucking there your doing something wrong!!

[Leather69]

Haven't been on the sat nights.. but have been to two SBN's and came away each time with well drained balls.. a hot session of uninhibited fucking

[slowfuck]

I used to wallflower it but no longer. That was ok as I like to watch, but lately I have been more proactive. As has been said, if you go in jock and boots it is its own invite for guys to engage with you as I describe below. Take them up on it even if just for a little play. You can move on any time.

Anyone you fancy, I suggest you look at them in the eyes and keep eye contact as you or they pass. Maybe brush you hand briefly but obviously deliberated over their butt or cock, while looking. If they turn their head away or indicate no, then move on.

Often I watch guys getting it on and may get invited to join, or get closer and closer and if one of they engages you gaze and keeps it or looks down at your cock and back up at you, then that's an invite. Otherwise just admire, and stroke your cock. you might find another guy watching to start your own floor show with. Many guys find it irritating and mood killing when other guys joining in uninvited.

I don't know what you look like, but while looks do still matter in that environment - hooking into fantasies and desires - an up for it persona is I think more important. Imagine you are someone else more confident, and pretend to be them. Yes, be an actor. Go get your Cummy award for acting and have fun!

[MikeUK24]

I haven't been in a year also... It has gone off the boil in terms of a night don't you think?? I kind of think Sundays at SBN @ Hoist is far more filthy fun to be had!! It very last days of disco lol. If you don't get a good fucking there your doing something wrong!!

Hoist was awesome for a time, then for a period of about 18 months it was awful. The scene queens all latched on to it and ruined the atmosphere. Trotting off to the Fort on a Sunday became much more the thing to do. However about a few months after I left London I heard that the Hoist had got better again. I last went about a year ago, it wasn't bad but I was very tired anyway (dragged along by a couple I had been playing with) so I was just watching mainly.

I have been to Hardon this year, I forgot I had a night down in London back in March, stayed with an older couple I know, but I don't remember very much at all of what it was like.

[shyguyuk]

idk, guys... i haven't gotten fucked in so long, i don't wanna haul my arse all the way to london only to come away empty again... where IS good? i always seem to strike out in saunas...

[slowfuck]

Aside from darkrooms, sex depends on mutual attraction so you need to choose places that cater for guys like you. i have no idea what type you are so cant advise. Places are only as good as the type of people who choose to go there that day. Nowhere is certain. Sometimes it will be good, sometimes not. If you want to be reasonably certain then pay for a decent escort, or find a place with a dark darkroom - most sex clubs do - and get bred or fuck anonymously.

[shyguyuk]

Whether I'm hot or not is something I can't really judge for myself, but I'm latexallergyuk on bbrt if anyone's interested - the pics are a couple of years old, but if anything i'm in better shape now as I've gotten more serious about hitting the gym regularly. I get the odd email, but seldom from anyone close enough to be useful, and i've never sent anything more than an oink on my own initiative.

I guess I've just always enjoyed staying in with a good book/film than anything that involves going out, and when I do go out I tend to be nervous about interacting with people, even just socially. I'm starting to realise I can't go on like that if I actually want a life, though.

It wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't just so damn HORNY all the time, IDK.

Edited September 25, 2013 by shyguyuk

[slowfuck]

I just took a look. You looked fit even then so if you are more toned now then I see no reason you wouldn't be popular, especially at Hard On. The question is of needing the fucking to be raw (condom allergy and preference), and as you allude to with respect, your ambivalence to making the effort, horniness not withstanding, as you're so far away! The condom issue is real since in my experience condoms are used by the majority outside of darkrooms. Whether this is due to desire to use condoms or the reticence to admit or be seen to not be using them, I couldn't be sure. I hope a Hard On regular may be able to advise further!