Tops - How do you know when to say when

[pisstopper]

When do you know for sure that you are fucked out and not going to be able to deliver a load into its proper receptacle - a bottom's eager hole? Earlier today an opportunity presented itself that was hard to refuse. A smoking hot bb porn star who lives within walking distance from me hit me up for a pump and dump style breeding at his place. Not an everyday opportunity and one I was not about to turn down.

Problem was I was fairly fucked out. Having bred three guys at a sex party last night and having unloaded again just an hour before the call, i knew I was still in the mood for action, but was pretty sure I wouldn't be delivering my A game. Still it was a fuck that might not present itself again so I went. It wasn't my best performance tho I did fuck his already cum loaded hole for a fair stint before he came. He didn't get my load and I wonder if I wouldn't have been better off passing on the offer.

Tops, how do you decide when you're just too fucked out to deliver the goods? And bottoms would you rather a top not try at all if he isn't 100% sure a load is in the offing?

[Bottom Jim]

I understand when you just cannot cum anymore. I prefer the top to just say so and not try

[RawSlutNYC]

I prefer to be honest and say that I am unlikely to cum. If the guy is still up for being fucked knowing that he's unlikely to get loaded, great. If not, I'm fine with that too.

[bearbandit]

I've got diabetic neuropathy, a consequence of which is that my hardons are unpredictable, which is why I tend to bottom more these days, or else go for D/s scenes with little genital involvement (this is when the viagra doesn't work). I'm upfront about it and work on the principle that if I wasn't good enough for him when I was having a bit of difficulty, he's not good enough for me when I'm on top of things.