Not getting laid enough! Help me fellow barebackers, your my only hope! ;)

[guyhoon]

Hey guys, I'm a 24 year old muscular bottom stud, I live in Wisconsin and sadly I've come to quite to dry spell in my ever going search for cocks. Which is a problem because like so many of my fellow bottom barebacking boys I'm addicted to them! So I was wondering if anyone out there could give me any tips for finding men to pound me. I have a very hot body and hole, but there's just not a big gay scene around here, much less fellow barebackers . I do get laid when I'm willing to travel down to Milwaukee, but it would be great to broaden my boyhole's horizons! So if you have any advice or tips on how to find guys let me know.

And before you suggest I do know of manhunt and barebackrt, I frequent them as well as this site!

Just to iterate though this is not some NSA sex ad like craigslist, I'm looking for advice mainly!

manhunt: boyhoon

barebackrt: boyhoon

Those are my user names!

[junglejaguar]

IF ONLY WE LIVED CLOSER! I'm having the exact same problem where I am, except I'm a top and can't find any bottoms(or at least any that I'm compatible with). I need a guy that's into bb, not exactly piggy, but with a pretty good sex drive.

[bearbandit]

It does help if you say where you are...

[barebutt4tops]

I'm a total bottom and I'm going through the same thing....if something doesn't happen soon I'm afraid the term Virgin will be the proper term for me, so PLEASE HELP with any advice you may give me.

[TattPig]

Not to put too fine a point on it nor overstate the obvious, but the best advice is to get the hell out of Sheboygan, WI, and Hartwick, NY. Seriously. Bareback tops are not going to magically appear in any quantity in little burgs like that. And 20 years from now, you'll be singing the same lament if you stay put.

[NWUSHorny]

Small towns aren't necessarily the problem, some of them do very well in promiscuity, proportional to the population size, others and some big cities are living hell for a sex addict. Do some extensive checking online about the frequency of posting for sex and what guys are actually looking for (if the majority of the ads make no mention of fucking or and specifically look for activities that could barely be considered foreplay, I find very little fucking or willingness to fuck), there are major regional differences.

I travel a lot but I'm not familiar with Hartwick, however moving to Portland or Seattle (Pacific NW west of the Cascades) would make a kid from Sheboygan miss the ease and frequency of sex he was getting before he moved.

[TattPig]

Did you not read his post? If he was experiencing the "ease and frequency of sex" you refer to, he wouldn't have started the thread, would he? And Hartwick NY (google it) has a grand total of 2,110 people in its 40 square miles. "Proportional to the population" doesn't mean squat in a hamlet that small in a county with only 61,000 people. Come on. Realistically, the problem these guys have is that they live in isolation from the practices and people they seek. To ignore that is to ignore the elephant in the room, and that doesn't help anybody.

[guyhoon]

It does help if you say where you are...

Your right! Sheboygan, Wisconsin

[guyhoon]

Tattpig I completely agree with you, I should move to a larger area. There's actually alot of craigslists posts and a decent amount of people on manhunt around here, but most aren't really into just immediatly pounding and breeding my hot wet ass. It would be nice if I could become acquainted with someone online who lives in a bigger metropolitan area and move in with him for a bit and see how I like it. He'd be free to fuck me whenever obviously.

[PhoenixGeoff]

I don't know the degree to which you're willing to build your life around getting laid, but you might also consider either:

• getting into a line of work that affords sufficient income and time off that allows you to travel to different cities regularly and/or ships you semi-permanently to different places on a regular basis, or
  
• moving to a city where travel to other cities is relatively cheap and easy (for all intents and purposes, this mostly means the eastern seaboard), or
  
• getting into a line of work that involves regular travel to fairly big cities (not truck driving, btw), or
  
• moving somewhere with a lot of business and/or pleasure travelers (e.g. NYC, Las Vegas, etc.), or
  
• finding a partner who can support you, who's into your fantasies, and who will provide the travel and possibly whore you out too (or just win the lottery; it amounts to the same thing).
  

The reason being pretty much anywhere you might end up settling down, you'll only be the new meat in town for a limited amount of time. Once you've been around for a while, the other locals will either decide that they're not interested in you, or that they can always have you some other time (leading to sex procrastination, a major reason why hookup sites can seem so lame). So after an initial flurry of fun, things will settle down to a background level. Now, in a bigger city, that background level is bound to be much better than Sheboygan, but you still won't be maximizing your action.

The more you keep on the move, the more you're always going to be the new meat in town. Or if your ad says you're only in town for a week, then everyone will know that they have a limited time to hook up with you. Likewise, if you're living somewhere with a lot of travelers passing through, you can concentrate on working them rather than the locals.

Incidentally, the kind of business travel you end up doing for work shouldn't be taking you to a lot of places in the sticks (this is the problem with trucking). You want a job that will keep you bouncing between major cities as much as possible. That will likely involve getting yourself a good, marketable education (if you haven't already).

If for whatever reason college just isn't for you, take the option of moving someplace where there's a lot of tourist traffic, especially if there are plenty of gay tourists passing through and find yourself a half decent job there. If you're hot enough, you might even be able to get into a sideline of escorting and porn (but hurry! you're young now, but time's a wasting).

[barebutt4tops]

Did you not read his post? If he was experiencing the "ease and frequency of sex" you refer to, he wouldn't have started the thread, would he? And Hartwick NY (google it) has a grand total of 2,110 people in its 40 square miles. "Proportional to the population" doesn't mean squat in a hamlet that small in a county with only 61,000 people. Come on. Realistically, the problem these guys have is that they live in isolation from the practices and people they seek. To ignore that is to ignore the elephant in the room, and that doesn't help anybody.

I would love to move to some place bigger, but living in a city costs more money then I get. I am on disability and I have been since age of 56 and because of having to retire early and having to use what savings I had to live until I got disability I can't afford to live in a city. I have to go where I can afford to live, and I still barely make it. That's the govern't for you.

[PhoenixGeoff]

I would love to move to some place bigger, but living in a city costs more money then I get. I am on disability and I have been since age of 56 and because of having to retire early and having to use what savings I had to live until I got disability I can't afford to live in a city. I have to go where I can afford to live, and I still barely make it. That's the govern't for you.

Have you explored the possibility of training for something that your disability would permit you to do and finding a way to get back to work?

Without knowing what your particular issue is, it's possible that, even if you can't do what you've done in the past, you might be able to find something that would give you a much better income than what you're subsisting on right now. There are some surprising fields that are open to people with different disabilities, even ones which in years past might have disqualified you for a lot of things. I know for a fact, for instance, that there are otherwise handicapped people out there driving semis, even deaf people, which you wouldn't necessarily expect. That might help get things turned around for you.

[guyhoon]

Thanks for commenting MascMountainMan! I do some college, and am currently in management at the company I work for, but there isn't really alot of traveling out of state in this line of work. I may just transfer to Milwaukee, cause then Chicago is right there too! As for being the new blood in town as you say I'm not too worried that'll be an issue, guys who fuck me end up coming back, as long as I like them as much as they liked me. Getting into escorting or porn?! Now that's a dream within a dream for me. To get paid to get pounded by cocks. wow that

[wiscota]

I am near there for Christmas. I'll hit you up.