When Old Becomes Too Old

[RWHID]

I'm 30 and love fucking with older guys. I never had a thing for the younger guys, never had one. If I had the chance, I wouldn't refuse, but I love the daddies. When I post an ad on Craigslist for a top lately... and I mean since February... all I get are people who claim to be tops... then when I get there or talk to them, they pull the "Oh, I can't get hard" shit and I am just left speechless. This should be something you mention up front, but I think they think they can get you to turn around and top them, don't think so! I'm just tired of getting the old men that can't put out... or are fucking clingy!! This is why I try to stick with the married men... they don't want anything but an ass or mouth to dump then, then run back home to the wife and kid. I got a hit on my ad tonight... this guy says he has fucked me before, but clearly not since I had no fucking clue who he was. He gives me his number to call, thinking I'm bout to get my ass pounded, and what happens... a straight out homo... trying to get me to drive almost two hours away for a dick that rarely gets hard... and then he springs this "I'm lonely, I need a partner, a relationship" bullshit on me. His phone went dead, Jesus answered my prayers and I didn't answer when he started calling again! He called like 5 times in a matter of minutes... then started texting and emailing demanding me to call him. I tell him I have a boyfriend so that relationship shit ain't gonna fly with me. Just because my man has been in jail for a year don't mean I'm letting that thick Mexican cock go so easily!! HELL NO! Sitting here looking at my Gmail tab, since I started writing this he has sent me 5 emails... make that 6 now!!!

Here's just some of the emails I received within the last 5 minutes!!!

"do you have pictures on your computer you can share"

"my freiend you have to start thinking good things about you and if you are like me you are so lonely and need to just lay in some man's arms and yes our meeting will be very discreet"

"you there"

"please talk to me pleae I know how that feels I am told the same thing so pleae do not stop talking"

"or did you find someone else"

"well I was hoping to meet you ven if is after the first of the month but I guess you have different plans"

Edited August 21, 2014 by RWHID

[Italynocondom]

Most of the stuff written by RWHID is unfortunately true: and I say "unfortunately" not for him, but just because meeting has become a real challenge. Guys that at the last minute have a "problem" so they cannot show up, guys that disappears, guys that wants you to change your look so you can fit their standards, chat-skype jerking people, guys that ask for your phone number and then call you after 20 days pretending you remember them, guys that calls you at 7.00 to arrange a meeting at 7.05. Well, this is our world.

P.S: RWHID, I do not know if your avatar is indeed you but it's damned hot!

[swansub]

I'm strictly btm these days but was vers when I was younger. Like you, I've arranged to meet tops who want to fuck me but I arrive to find they can't get it up. I once made a three hour journey to see a guy because what he said he was going to do turned me on so much but when we got into bed he couldn't get hard and was more btm than me! And I've found this isn't just an age thing, I've experienced it with younger tops. I just don't see the point in lying, if a guy promises something he can't deliver I'm going to be pissed off. The best fucks I've had have been from those who don't promise much upfront but are like fucking animals in bed.

As for age, old is never too old for me as long as he can get it up. When I bought my first home at 23 I had a neighbour who was in his seventies. One day he asked if I would mind rubbing some ointment into his back as he had a bad back. I said "certainly" and when I went into his he handed me the cream, took his shirt off, turned around and dropped his trousers and bent over the settee. I started rubbing the ointment in and he said maybe I should remove my trousers in case I got them stained with the ointment. I might have been 23 but I'd had plenty of experience by then so was't that naive, lol. Anyway, I dropped them, continued rubbing the cream into his skin and he pushed back to my cock. I fucked him then and continued fucking him regularly until I moved house three years later. The age difference didn't bother me, he had a hole that was available whenever I wanted it and for a young guy at his sexual peak that was all that mattered. Sadly I'm the older guy these days but at least I never promise what I can't deliver.

Edited August 21, 2014 by swansub

[RWHID]

I'm strictly btm these days but was vers when I was younger. Like you, I've arranged to meet tops who want to fuck me but I arrive to find they can't get it up. I once made a three hour journey to see a guy because what he said he was going to do turned me on so much but when we got into bed he couldn't get hard and was more btm than me! And I've found this isn't just an age thing, I've experienced it with younger tops. I just don't see the point in lying, if a guy promises something he can't deliver I'm going to be pissed off. The best fucks I've had have been from those who don't promise much upfront but are like fucking animals in bed.

As for age, old is never too old for me as long as he can get it up. When I bought my first home at 23 I had a neighbour who was in his seventies. One day he asked if I would mind rubbing some ointment into his back as he had a bad back. I said "certainly" and when I went into his he handed me the cream, took his shirt off, turned around and dropped his trousers and bent over the settee. I started rubbing the ointment in and he said maybe I should remove my trousers in case I got them stained with the ointment. I might have been 23 but I'd had plenty of experience by then so was't that naive, lol. Anyway, I dropped them, continued rubbing the cream into his skin and he pushed back to my cock. I fucked him then and continued fucking him regularly until I moved house three years later. The age difference didn't bother me, he had a hole that was available whenever I wanted it and for a young guy at his sexual peak that was all that mattered. Sadly I'm the older guy these days but at least I never promise what I can't deliver.

Yeah, I shouldn't have directed as being too old. The last guy I was with was 22, and couldn't get it up when it came to fucking. I am just tired of people who lie just to get you to show up in hopes of getting the opposite out of you. Saturday night I had a guy make a 2 hours drive, he was in his early 50s. He was honest up front about not being able to fuck, so it was cool with me, I still sucked him off. It was great because he was honest. These others are either lying or too needy. What is so hard about finding dick that just wanna fuck you like a cheap bitch and be done with you? Where are you toppers at?? Can you hear me??

[RWHID]

Most of the stuff written by RWHID is unfortunately true: and I say "unfortunately" not for him, but just because meeting has become a real challenge. Guys that at the last minute have a "problem" so they cannot show up, guys that disappears, guys that wants you to change your look so you can fit their standards, chat-skype jerking people, guys that ask for your phone number and then call you after 20 days pretending you remember them, guys that calls you at 7.00 to arrange a meeting at 7.05. Well, this is our world.

P.S: RWHID, I do not know if your avatar is indeed you but it's damned hot!

Yes, it's me, and thank you, even though I don't think so.

[swansub]

I agree entirely RWHID - first with you about the importance (and courtesy) of being honest upfront, and secondly with Italynocondom - you're fucking hot!

[Guest Pwrfkme06]

If you can get it up not too old

[jj10]

love fucking old guys

[slowfuck]

Sorry for you RWHID. Needy is not nice.

 

There is an age element to being able to retain an erection, but we're talking of physical causes of decreased hormones and furred up arteries and so on, so more likely in the 70s on, though it can start earlier depending on lifestyle factors.

 

As you found, however, failure to bone up can even affect a 22 year old so while most people like there to be a medical reason and drug therapy to fix everything mostly this problem is in the mind. It comes from the deep seated 'shame' of not feeling good enough to match the expectation we think others have of us. The guys who can't get hard are mostly going to be less confident and worried sufficiently to be frightened of not being able to get an erection so of course they prove themselves right because fear blocks the sexual excitement from having its effect. The more they try and fail to get an erection, the worse that fear will become. If you get someone who is having such difficulties, easing their mind and taking the pressure of for them will help, with some undemanding kissing and caressing and cuddling in bed until their fear subsides and their erection starts to bone up.

 

Sadly most don't feel able to be honest about their difficulties, and while their heads and cocks react well to the thought of all the hot porn-style sex that's in prospect, when you are standing with them and they feel the weight of their expectations the problems can start.

 

One other issue is the 'do we fuck bare or do we have to use condoms' issue which may have a bearing. People worry about whether to admit to taking bare cock for fear of disapproval and the possible rejection, yet really really want it. That worry leads to fear and shame again to kill the boner. So if you can establish bare up front then that's one less worry and more chance of a stiff moist cock invading your hole.

 

So once you have them boned up and oozing precum, sit across their waist, move your ass up and down with their cock rubbing over your prelubed hole and then tilt and sit on their bare cock. If they say no, we must use condoms, you can act all surprised it went in so easily (ahem!) and get off them to get a condom (or to throw them out!), if they sigh "Ohhhh, yea..." then you know where you are.