Tips for Bathhouse night of debauchery

[bicurpp]

So after years and years of being strictly a top. I have recently began experimenting with playing on the bottom side.  So I have decided to ring in my birthday with fun night at the Baths. I've been on PrEP for about a year now. The plan is to start my night off with a little 420 to relax. I might also try some Molly for the first time ( not sure yet).  I have made up a T-shirt with "Cumslut in training". I am chubby guy, but have always had great luck at my favorite bathhouse. 

I am wanting to spend the night blindfolded in the swing or bent over on in the maze.  I have only been fucked twice, but have never had anyone cum in my hole.  I am looking for any tips or suggestions to help me give into my inner cumslut. I have been playing with toy and have even thought about leaving it in while waiting for cock.  Any ideas to make this a night to remember is appreciated.

[einathens]

I always say that if you need drugs to do it, you're not ready to do it.

after you take the third or fourth load, you'll know. a regular bottom will have had enough. a cumslut will feel that the fun has barely begun.

don't expect too much of yourself, though. a full night in the sling taking loads from any and all is a hot fantasy and a lofty goal, but if you've only been fucked twice you might not be able to take it.

 

my advice? in the days and nights leading up to it, spend as much time getting acquainted with your hole as you can. lots and lots of lube. one finger, two fingers, three fingers, four (two from each hand is the best way to teach your ring to stretch, in my opinion). toys. vegetables. the increasingly larger cocks of good friends. whatever you can get in without pain, introduce it to your anus. and don't forget to relax. it's supposed to be fun.

at the event itself, perhaps provide a sharpie marker so your tops can leave a message or you can keep track of your count. 

my own bathhouse philosophy is that when I'm there, I have sex with anyone who asks or offers. and I like having a friend there so we can check in on each other. might not be a bad idea for you to do the same.

and don't forget, no matter what your fantasy is, you're free to say no or stop at any time.

[FelchingPisser]

eianathens-good advice!  Especially the "if you need drugs to do it, you're not ready to do it."

[barebbrer]

Honestly trying to force a fantasy never works for me. If I plan on being a slutty bottom I'll end up topping or something. My bathhouse tip is go with the flow. It's the best way to have a good time. Otherwise you'll get frustrated if it isn't fulfilling your grand plan. 

[MuscleAss]

See what happens, if you are relaxed it should  go well.  If you have had good luck there before, that bodes well.  Do you have a friend you can bring and can get things going by fucking you?  Try the blindfold, but feel free to take it off, too.  I'm mixed on slings, sometimes it's uncomfortable for me.  Darkrooms are where I get the most dicks and loads.  The guys who are in there want action, much less likely to be just standing around.  Try different places in the bathhouse, get a room, some men prefer less of an audience, or maybe you will want to spend some time with one particular top.

 

If you have never done molly before, I would not add it to the mix.  And I love the stuff, but try it another time.  You will need viagra to get hard when you do it.  If you smoke 420 when you go as a top, no reason not to as a bottom.  Good luck, and please report back!
 

[bicurpp]

Thanks everyone for the advice