Jealous guy at the sauna

[concerned1]

At one of the saunas I often go to, there is another guy who goes there once every now and then - whenever I see him, I hate it. For the benefit of any Americans reading, "saunas" are what we call bathhouses in the UK.

He is an extremely jealous bastard. He is middle-aged, 40 something or 50 something, not exactly good looking and nothing fucking special. But yet he thinks he is. He is only into younger guys and tries it on with EVERY young guy he sees in the place. He is also a very jealous twat. I know  from speaking with other regulars who go there that the guy's name is Mo. 

I will give an example, which happened very recently:

One night, I'm at the sauna and I'm sat in the video room watching the porn on the big screen they've got in there, wanking my cock. There are a few other guys in there also, but all much older than me. But then one really young and nice looking lad comes in and sits on the same bench as me. I lean back and look at him, making eye contact, stroking my cock. He gets his out, and starts wanking it. I start touching his leg and then we kiss. The other older guys in the room are watching us and wanking their cocks, but I don't mind too much. Then Mo comes in. 

He sees the young guy and instantly he's staring at him. I just know straight away he's going to try and snatch this guy from me. This is what he does every time. Not just with me, but with other guys too. Everyone hates him for it. That's why a lot of us refer to him as "the snatcher". Mo keeps on staring and staring and then moves closer to the guy, but me and the guy carry on kissing and wanking ourselves and each others cock and then I say to the guy "Let's go to a private room" - because I know Mo will start touching the guy and then  take him off me and go to a private room with him.

So, the guy says yes , and just as we're about to get up, Mo grabs the guy's cock and sticks his tongue down the guy's throat...the guy doesn't resist and he and Mo stand there kissing and wanking each other's cocks. The guy looks over at me as Mo goes down on his cock and I wink at him and move my head as if to say, "come on, let's go"...I can see the guy would rather be with me....but I can tell he also feels awkward because of Mo. The other guys are all watching Mo and the guy and also some of them are now sucking each other off. 

I just walk away, feeling angry and disappointed that yet again , as has happened on several occasions before, Mo has snatched someone from me and totally ruined my fun. 

I just go and stand in the doorway of one of the private rooms and kind of just watch and wait for maybe something else to come along....then I see the young guy from the video room walk past me. I call him and he comes over, and I ask if he's cum and he says no. Just as I'm about to ask if he wants to join me in the private room, Mo walks past and touches the guy's ass, the guy obviously feels awkward and walks away. So Mo has yet again ruined my chance. 

I follow the young guy around, but Mo is also following. I thought to myself, I need to get to him before Mo does. And I know that Mo is thinking the same. It is not fair, I was with the guy first and this jealous fucker is trying to come between us and ruin everything so that he can get his fun. I also get the feeling that the guy would much rather be with me, and that he is trying to shake Mo off. I feel like just saying to the guy, "Tell him to fuck off!" 

Eventually I get so fed up and irritated, I grab the guy and say, "Come on let's go to a room"...we go to the nearest one. Sadly there is no lock on the door (it's broken) but I don't care, this guy is so hot and I want to have my fun with him and finish off what the jealous fucker so rudely interrupted. I go down on the guy and start blowing him - then I hear the door open from behind me....you guessed it, it's Mo standing in the doorway (and a few other guys, too). They're all stood there wanking their cocks and watching. 

Even though I'm not happy about this, I just decide to tolerate it. I get up and then the guy goes down on me. I look at Mo as the guy is sucking my cock, and I can see the hatred in Mo's face. Mo comes in and starts stroking the guy's hair, and then I decide to say to Mo, "Excuse me, but can you leave us alone please?" .....Mo frowns at me and says, "That's up to him"....the guy doesn't say anything , he just continues to suck me....and I know that it's because he feels too awkward to say anything. 

I say to the guy, "Come on let's find another room"....I wanted to go and find a room with a lock. I take the guy's hand and we walk fast to another room. As we do so, Mo follows, walking briskly behind us. The guy whispers to me as we try to find a room that isn't "engaged" (many of them were) , "I wish this cunt would just fucking leave us alone".....I said, "Don't worry, we're going to get rid of him". We finally find a room and thank goodness it has a lock. We go in and I locked the door.

Finally we are alone and can have our fun. I hear someone bang on the door, really loud several times. I know that this is Mo, trying to intimidate me. BANG BANG BANG. And after a few minutes, BANG BANG BANG. I can tell he's infuriated. I've never known a guy so jealous. 

Me and the young guy are sucking each other in the 69 position and then next thing I know, an empty can of coca-cola is thrown over the top of the door and lands on my head. And yes, it hurt me! I just took it and threw it in the bin. Then carried on to have my fun. I ended up fucking the guy, dumping my load in his ass and then chatting to him for a little while afterwards. We decide to go our separate ways and a little later on I get chatting to a guy who tells me that it was indeed Mo who was banging the door and who threw the can over the door. Fucking twat.

I see him a few times afterwards while I'm wondering about the place, and he gives me some nasty looks. 

Fuck him. I hate him so much. So does everyone else. He can't stand to see younger guys having fun with anyone except himself. If he sees a young guy, he HAS to have him . Even if that means snatching him from someone else. I don't go to this sauna much any more as he is a regular there and it's fucking hard work dealing with this jealous cunt.

Mo, if you are reading this: I FUCKING HATE YOU AND YOU'RE JUST A JEALOUS CUNT.

 

Edited September 9, 2017 by concerned1

[AirmaxUK]

I think every sauna or cruise club has someone like this. I've given up with the typical british passive aggressive responses as it rarely works and will directly confront people and challenge bad behaviour in these situations. Most are really shocked you call them out. It works best if others are present to witness it rather than 1-2-1. In UK saunas talking in a public cruise space is kinda taboo so if you call someone out there in front of others the effect is quite magnified and it scores you points with others who might be thinking the same thing.  Some modify their behaviour and some just avoid me - which is totally fine.  

[leaker30]

Sounds like you should talk to management and have him banned. He's obviously not going to abide by the "unwritten rules" of the sauna and his behavior is unacceptable.

[bbzh]

Sounds like you and the other sauna goers need to gang up on and beat the living shit out of Mo in the sauna. He'll straighten up. Ass whippings have that instant education effect. 

[fuckrogerbb]

You have to talk to management. He will just keep on doing it. Everyone else feels like you do so grow a pair and report him. Have others join you.

[Leather69]

Any half reputable venue has rules of behaviour.. and clearly he would be breaking even the most basic ones. Report him and have him kicked out..

[minthulf]

Leaker and Fuckroger have the gist of it. Talk to management of there being a guy that is kinda creepily aggressive: banging on doors, throwing shit etc... management probably doesn't want a guy in there that is aggro against the clientele. 

Edited September 10, 2017 by minthulf

[Guest Dickmagnet]

I have had this sort of scenario happen to me at clubs but also outdoors where i cruise, I need to ask you are a BIG guy i'm not talking cock size here ? I am asking this because i am pretty big & when some random false fucking queen tries to steal my prize i normally go up to them & tell them next time you do that & you know what the fuck i'm talking about i'm going to put you in hospital & then i show them my big fist. They get the mssg pretty quick & it never happens twice to me. If it persists i wil wait for the fucker outside & when he is alone i will beat the living shit out of him & he will see that hospital pretty quick. I know violence is not really the answer but these fuckers know what they are doing & my thoughts are just like it's about time someone taught you a valuable lesson = Don't fuck around with me.

[OtterTopLDN]

You do get the odd asshole in saunas. Sounds like he gets off on the buzz of what he's doing, being a dick. Wouldn't tolerate him for a second. Tell him straight and put him in his place, he'll soon back off and think better of it next time.

 

 

[RawLeather]

Yes there are one of those guys at every Bathhouse.  I have one that stalks me everytime I am there.  He somehow finds out what room I am in and starts knocking on the door.  I usually ignore it especially if I have someone in the room with me.  If i have the door open he will make his way in and start sucking me off or trying to fuck me.  This guy has no idea of no strings attached.  I gave him my number a few years ago and just constantly texts me stupid crap and is always asking if i'm going the the bathouse.  He always brags about the guy he had last night and how good it was and how he fisted him good.  (As if I care)  So at the other end of the spectrum i do have a Mo like character in my world.  and I too am the victim of jealousy